As the pressure of life increases, many parents in rural areas will choose to work in the city to give their children better living conditions.
Due to the inconvenience of being with the child, the child can only stay with his grandparents. Allow children to engage in “intergenerational education.”
This phenomenon occurs in 50% of families in our country. They are all in this situation. The parents are traveling while the children live in rural areas. Many people think that this is detrimental to the growth of the children.
The intergenerational education method is not so good for children. The ideas of grandparents are no longer adapted to today's era. Some people even think that the ideas of the elderly are feudal and superstitious.
But recently, there is a grandfather who is very popular on the Internet, and that is "Grandpa Keeping Warm", which is what netizens call him.
When many people hear this word, the first thing they think of is putting heavy clothes on their children, but this is not the case in reality.
This grandfather made some small modifications to the bicycle that he uses to send his children to school every day.
As the weather got colder and colder, my grandfather found that when he sent his children to school, their little faces were always red from the cold, and he looked very distressed. So, he walked on the back of his bicycle. On the seat, an exclusive windshield is installed.
When sending children to and from school, as long as the children sit in this cover, it can effectively block the wind.
At the same time, this windshield is not made of black cloth, but made of transparent plastic, allowing children to enjoy the beautiful scenery of winter while going to and from school. This can be said to be killing two birds with one stone.
In the picture posted by netizens, it is snowing weather. The child is on the back seat of the bicycle, and the grandfather is pushing the bicycle forward because the snow on the road is too thick.
This scene was photographed online by netizens. It is a touching and interesting scene that is very memorable.
Many netizens began to discuss this scene on the Internet. Many netizens thought that grandpa was so talented that he could apply for a patent and thought that he could solve many problems. Families without cars can now take shelter from wind and rain.
Of course, there are also netizens with different views. Netizens think this is an unsafe behavior. Grandpa is old. If he accidentally slips and falls on a rainy day, it will be very dangerous for the child. It’s not safe, I think it’s better for the child to wear more clothes.
In response to this, many netizens have expressed many different opinions. In fact, this is also a new view on the elderly taking care of their children. Is it good or bad to let the elderly take care of their children?
1. Give your children enough time to accompany you.
Companionship is the longest confession of love. Companionship is important for everyone, not to mention children. When children are growing up, the most important thing is companionship.
Many parents have no way to accompany their children because they have to go out to work. At this time, it is particularly important for the elderly to accompany their children.
Many parents do not have time to accompany their children, and the elderly are at a stage where they have nothing to do. At this time, it is most appropriate for the elderly to take care of and accompany their children. On the one hand, it meets the children's need for companionship. The problem also satisfies the old man's dilemma of having nothing to do all day long.
2. The elderly are more patient in educating their children
In the eyes of the elderly, children are their treasures, and they want to pamper their children in everything. , satisfy the child with whatever he wants.
Many times, adults come home very tired after working outside for a day. If the children are still noisy at this time, the adults may feel irritated and have no way to deal with it. Children are patient.
If the old man is here at this time, it can fully make up for this. The old man is patient with the children and is not easy to get angry with the children. In addition, the old man has the mentality of a child, so when interacting with the children There are no barriers to communication, which is more conducive to the relationship with the children.
3. Reduce the pressure on parents
Many children have no adults to take care of them, so parents are forced to put their children in care. However, care not only requires expensive fees, but also It is also impossible to ensure that children in care will have a good education.
This is a very distressing matter for many parents. If the elderly can help parents take care of their children, they can reduce the high cost of child care.
At the same time, parents can feel more at ease and don’t have to worry about whether their children are well fed or clothed. This is a good thing for children.
In the eyes of many people, letting the elderly take care of their children will easily lead to doting on the children, but in fact this is not the case. Everything has two sides, and intergenerational education also has a good side.
1. Establish a common goal
Everyone has their own different educational concepts. When it comes to educating children, the thoughts of the elderly and parents will be affected by social experience. Different, this is a common phenomenon.
However, there is only one child. If parents cannot have a unified concept, this will put the child in a very difficult stage, which is not a good thing for the child. .
Parents should establish a unique educational concept so that it can be more beneficial to their children's education.
2. Parents should call their children more often
As children grow up, they still need their parents’ company. No matter how busy they are at work, parents must take time to call their children who are far away from home. The child makes a phone call.
Let the children feel the love of their parents, let the children feel that they are still their parents’ little treasures, and will not feel that their parents have gone so far away because the parents no longer love them and have brought a child to them. Growing up in a misunderstanding environment is not good for children.
3. Go home often
Parents should still choose to go home to see their children as much as possible. If parents are too busy at work, they can choose to let the elderly take care of their children. During the winter and summer vacations, come and visit your parents far away, shorten the distance between parents and children, and better let children and parents feel each other's love.
In the process of children's growth, companionship is indispensable. Whether it is companionship across generations or between parents and children, it is very important. Establish a unique concept of education so that children can grow up healthily and happily!