Sometimes, due to physiological reasons unique to women, during the changes in the menstrual cycle, the endocrine balance is imbalanced, the body is weak, and the resistance is poor, causing autonomic nervous system dysfunction, and most women will be irritable. , irritable, these are understandable. As a boyfriend, you should be considerate and caring for your girlfriend during this period, and not overly stimulate the other party. This psychology of women is actually a kind of subconscious self-protection. Usually they think that if the other party doesn't let her go when they are in love, how will they live in the future? So girls will consciously or unconsciously do so in love. Set up some obstacles for your boyfriend to see if he can tolerate you. Showing your temper is just one of the test methods, and of course it is also the most common method. For example, if you are deliberately late for a date, it mainly depends on how your boyfriend will react. , as long as he shows the slightest bit of displeasure, he will definitely be bombarded by his girlfriend, and maybe after being scolded, the game will be over. 2. Women in love are anxious about more things, and women’s irritability also comes from a sense of insecurity and lack of confidence. The male colleagues around me always complain that their girlfriends are difficult to take care of. If you become a romantic, he will say that you are a master in love. If you are not romantic, he will say that you have no mood. In short, neither left nor right. Woman is an emotional animal, she is very sensitive emotionally and fragile at the same time. When there is a dispute between lovers, a woman's emotional vulnerability manifests as a tendency to lose her temper. Women are relatively less tolerant. Deep down, they still feel that they are weak. Once some things are unbearable, they will look for an outlet to vent. The boyfriend around them will naturally become the target of venting. In love, men will Not as angry as women. This is because men have stronger rational thinking and are more independent, and they always play the role of the strong in society. This role will be carried into love relationships, and will show up as strong tolerance, strong sense of responsibility, and lack of love. loose the temper. 3. Women have requirements and expectations for their boyfriends. When the expectations and feedback are not equal, they will often be disappointed and lost. The attitude of a woman in love towards a man is very different from that of a man towards a woman. Moreover, on this specific occasion, she and The way she treats people in her daily work is also very different. When a woman is completely in a working state, she usually deals with men based on her social role. At this time, it is impossible or rare for them to show willfulness or unreasonableness. At this time, men tend to think that she is reasonable. , at least he won't feel anything abnormal about her. And once it is her gender role rather than her social role that needs to be used when interacting with a man, a woman will often show willfulness that men cannot fathom. A woman can lose her temper over something too small. This is because women have requirements and expectations for the men around them. When the expectations and the feedback information are not equal, they will often be disappointed and lost. Therefore, women tend to lose their temper with men. At the same time, because women are very sensitive to people or things around them, especially in love, they will constantly compare themselves with others, always worrying that their value will not be recognized by the other person, which often causes psychological anxiety. , the performance is suspicious and angry. (Editor: Tan Mingxing)