"Paying attention to you in a big mountain is really a special person."
I have been fond of hoarding cosmetics since my sophomore year.
Lipstick, eye shadow, nail polish, these are products that can never be used up, but you can't help but start using them as soon as they come out.
When the cost of living is not enough, I don't buy it for the time being, but I am also paying attention to the latest developments of various brands at any time, and I keep watching the videos of beauty bloggers.
In a group chat, a girl in the class said that she spent more than 5,000 yuan on cosmetics this semester. Even if the last bottle is isolated, she will immediately plant another brand of concealer, and the scholarship will not be enough.
A boy said that he was shocked. He said that since there are products in use, what does it matter how many new products are released? Just don't look or buy. In a word, it is difficult for him to understand that girls should spend so much thought on cosmetics.
They don't understand the girls' careful thinking of being at the forefront of fashion, so naturally they should always be sensitive to new products.
Even if you don't buy it, you should always look at what makeup is recommended by major fashion numbers and what beauty bloggers have bought, and always stand on the cusp of the makeup circle.
In fact, in addition to pleasing others and yourself, cosmetics have an important social function that is often overlooked.
My internship unit has several super beautiful young sisters. They show up at the office on time every day with delicate makeup, and are busy working in high heels at eight o'clock in the morning.
When I first met them, I felt a little uneasy. After all, I was just a fledgling intern at that time, and my colleagues were all beautiful young ladies and sisters full of gas fields, so I was worried that I would be difficult to get along with.
However, after only one day, everyone began to get together to discuss the latest popular mouth red number and which brand has discount gift boxes.
Talking about cosmetics won't make people feel the embarrassing atmosphere of just integrating into the group.
So the idea of worrying about being "difficult to get along with" disappeared.
After sharing their favorite skin care products, several girls talked about which one to buy and whether to fight for Haitao together. Finally, they decided to get together for dinner in the evening and discuss it in detail.
In this way, by talking about cosmetics, I quickly became good friends with my colleagues.
In fact, it is easy for girls to establish friendship when they meet for the first time-just find the right topic.
The easiest emotional aspect to discuss is not suitable for chatting with new friends. What if the other person just broke up or had a bad relationship and was suddenly asked by an unfamiliar friend, "How is your boyfriend?" Isn't it embarrassing?
Star gossip is also a very popular theme, but if we happen to hate each other's love beans, then the air will be filled with invisible hostility when we open our mouths.
Only the topic of cosmetics will never step on thunder.
People who meet for the first time say "Your skin is really good, you use sk2" or "You use color mac to look good", which can instantly enhance your goodwill, establish a high emotional intelligence image for yourself in interpersonal relationships, and narrow the distance with friends you just met.
Share your collection of purchasing shops, etc. It can also make people feel that you are a friendly and enthusiastic person.
Cosmetic social intercourse is a kind of interpersonal communication that moistens things and is silent.
Catching up with old friends I haven't seen for a long time is also very suitable for cutting into cosmetics.
In fact, the age of twenty is quite embarrassing. Returning to my hometown after the holiday, my friends who went to college were either busy taking the postgraduate entrance examination or looking for a job. Some high school students have gone abroad to study, and some have married and had children. Everyone's life trajectory seems to have entered a completely different field and lost many of the same topics.
However, when it comes to ysl's latest gift box, the blush just released by nars, and the lipstick of kiko, a niche brand, the atmosphere of the whole private room begins to heat up.
Both students who want to go abroad for further study and friends who are new mothers can participate in it, as if they were back to the days of gossiping about teachers in high school.
After the students talked about human flesh purchasing from Taobao, they led the topic to the friends studying abroad, and naturally turned to the recent situation of your old friends, lamenting that time flies and friendship lasts forever.
Such a reunion is interesting and sticky, without showing off, comparing with others, without pointing fingers, only sharing the beauty of your collection.
I think girls really want to thank the founders of various brands of cosmetics, so that people who are not so good at making friends can quickly find suitable chat topics.
I once saw the concept of game socialization on Zhihu. A user in Zhihu said that he is not addicted to the glory of the king, but when making new friends, he often asks to play games together, and basically he can become brothers after playing two games.
Game socialization is not a patent for boys, but a patent for girls.
The function of cosmetics is not only to satisfy girls' love of beauty, but also to become the starting point of girls' topic, just as English people always start with the weather when chatting.
So, if your boyfriend or male friends around you don't understand why girls are so obsessed with makeup, please tell them: this is a unique and essential social way for girls.
Of course, if you are too lazy to explain, just transfer this article to a circle of friends to show them.
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