Many girls have never cooked or cooked, and they don't even know the basic necessities. But girls will grow up one day, and parents should let girls learn to be independent and have the most basic self-care ability.
A mother once took photos of her daughter drinking porridge on the Internet and quickly became popular.
Mother's daughter used to cook porridge with a small fire, but she was so addicted to playing with her mobile phone that she forgot that she was cooking porridge. As a result, the cooked porridge has changed. The outer layer is crispy rice, and the inside is raw rice.
After the rice crust is poured into the container, it looks like the "face value" is not bad. The golden crispy rice is very appetizing, and the white rice inside is a good foil.
The mother was very angry at her daughter's forgetfulness and couldn't help taking photos and uploading them online. Some netizens replied, "This may be the most creative porridge, so register the patent quickly!" Some netizens also commented, "Nowadays, children are too lazy, and mobile phones are really harmful! Fortunately, there is nothing serious. " Some netizens said: "I love to eat crispy rice. Come and teach me how to do it. "
For food lovers, although the girl failed to cook a porridge, it is also a surprise to get an unusual food. But the girl was obviously too careless to cook the porridge into a crispy rice crust.
Fortunately, a small fire was fired and found in time, which did not cause more serious consequences. This should attract enough attention from parents and children to avoid similar phenomena.
From the fact that girls cook porridge, it seems that porridge is not cooked well, but we can see a deeper problem. First, children are addicted to the internet and often delay business. Second, parents spoil their children too much, which makes them lack the ability to take care of themselves independently.
1, cultivate children's self-care consciousness
If parents want their children to have independence and self-care ability, they should first let their children have self-care consciousness and enhance their sense of responsibility. If children have no sense of responsibility, they will depend on their parents for everything, have no sense of self-care and cannot really take care of themselves independently.
2. Enhance children's hands-on ability
Parents should cultivate their children's practical ability, and don't do everything by themselves or be too obedient to their children. Let children learn to do it themselves, and don't rely too much on others to "eat enough." Therefore, cultivating children's practical ability is also a prerequisite for children to learn to take care of themselves.
Parents should give their children more opportunities to do it themselves and let them do what they can. For example, let the children dress, eat, take a bath, tidy the desk, bed and so on. And give them more opportunities to do things, so that their independence and self-care ability will be enhanced.
3. Encourage and praise children appropriately.
Children are young, receptive and malleable. Parents should encourage and praise their children appropriately, learn to see their advantages and give them confidence, so that their children will become more and more confident, and their independence and self-care ability will be further improved.
It is more appropriate to take the children out to play.
Parents should take their children out to play more, whether it is places of interest or the natural beauty of the countryside, which can not only increase their knowledge and broaden their horizons, but also let their children get in touch with nature more.
Travel will expose children to more people or things, and children will gain different feelings, enrich their hearts and improve their own pattern.
5. Parents should let go appropriately.
Some parents are used to controlling their children's every move, leaving them with no personal space and no time to control themselves, thus lacking opportunities and time to play with their peers.
Parents should let go appropriately, give their children free time and space, let them do things they are interested in, or have the opportunity to play with their peers, so that their children can be truly independent. Children's independence is enhanced and their self-care ability is not bad.
6. Parents should show their weakness appropriately.
Parents should not be too strong in front of their children, but should show weakness appropriately, so that children can see their parents' hard work and fatigue. When parents ask their children to do something, they will feel sorry for their parents and take the initiative to help their children do something, which can also improve their consciousness and enhance their independence to some extent.
Children lack the ability to take care of themselves independently and are too lazy, which is often related to parents always "doing it for them", so that children lose the opportunity to do it themselves and inertia will gradually accumulate.
Parents can be a "shopkeeper" from time to time, so that children can give full play to their abilities and try to do something they have never done before. In the process of trying again and again, children will never attend meetings, and their independent ability and self-care ability will gradually improve, so that their future will be more predictable.