How to get a 40-year-old married man
How to get a 40-year-old married man? In daily life, the mentality of a 40-year-old married man is different from that of ordinary men. It is not easy to deal with a 40-year-old married man. Next, I will take you through the relevant content on how to solve the problem of a 40-year-old married man. How to get a 40-year-old married man 1
A 40-year-old man belongs to a very embarrassing age group. He is old, he is only 40 years old, he is still young, but Already 40 years old. To put it simply, playing this aspect is a very embarrassing thing. He is too young and too tender to play with people older than him. Playing with people younger than him, and he is too old, there are no different topics to talk about, and no different places to go. It's just like whether it's high or low. If you want to play with young boys, but now young boys play all kinds of games or video games, and they never leave their hands with their mobile phones most of the time. If they go out to play, young people tend to go to various playgrounds, parks, game arcades, outdoor activities, and all kinds of entertainment. So there is a big gap and generation gap in this aspect of playing. The things we play are different, and the places we play are also different. Generally speaking, the only things that can make a 40-year-old man accept playing are watching movies and singing in KTV. To be more rational, a 40-year-old man's favorite entertainment items are nothing more than drinking tea, drinking coffee, reading books, playing chess and so on. In other words, 40-year-old men basically prefer entertainment projects that take the literary and artistic route or health-preserving entertainment projects.
The more emotional ones are fishing, drinking, playing cards, and joking with a few friends. There is almost no extreme entertainment.
If you go out with young girls, there is basically no chance, and the generation gap will be even greater. First of all, you are a boy, and secondly, you are older, and the things they play are partly similar to the things boys play. Girls just have one more shopping item than boys, and there are all kinds of things. Eat all kinds of snacks. So everything we play is not on the same level. You said, do you feel embarrassed that an old man goes shopping with a few young girls, goes shopping together, goes to bars, and dances together? Do you think it's appropriate? Unless they lack fatherly love? Therefore, the age group and mentality of a 40-year-old man cannot integrate into the atmosphere of young people. If you play with people who are 50/60 years old, they will treat you like a child. If you play with 20-year-olds, you can only treat them as children. Would you say it’s embarrassing? If you play with a 30-year-old, you can play whatever you want. I will be exhausted in one day. Do you think it’s fun? So there is no more fun!
However, 40-year-old men will become quieter at this age, because they have experienced more, worry more, and think more. Therefore, when men are in their 40s, they will become very timid and cautious no matter what they do. If you really want to chase a 40-year-old man, then first of all, you must make some mental preparations, that is, you have to face And accept that he can't be with you every day. You have to accept that he won't say sweet words to you. You have to accept all his schedules. You have to accept his interests and hobbies. No matter what a 40-year-old man does, he is more regular. To exaggerate, if you plan to marry him, then you have to accept all the positive and negative blows, because no one will agree with you or agree with you to marry a man who is more than ten years older than you. This is also a very critical issue
Then, if you want to chase him, then you have to be like a boy chasing a girl, keep chasing, and keep chasing. Why? Because a man will become more conservative when he is 40 years old, and he needs to see your sincerity, otherwise he will think that you have some intention or just playing with him. However, a man cannot afford to get hurt when he is 40 years old, because life, work, social interaction, and various pressures have already made him sidetracked and bruised. Therefore, no matter what a 40-year-old man does, he is cautious and does not get emotional easily. , even if you are emotional, you just keep it in your heart and don't say it out loud.
I think it is not difficult to chase a 40-year-old man. You just need to let him feel your sincerity, your persistence, and your emotional investment, and he will accept you. Otherwise, even if he knows that you like him and you are chasing him, he will keep distance from you and keep silent to you, so you have to be more proactive, more proactive, and more proactive.
Only if you take the initiative will he find the right opportunity, the right time, the right topic, and the right geographical location to open his arms to you.
However, once a man accepts you, he will treat you like a treasure. At this time, you have really become a real treasure in the man's mouth. The treasure in the mouth of a young man is just a treasure in words, but the treasure in the mouth of a 40-year-old man is truly a treasure in his heart.
In fact, no matter what, after a man accepts you, it will definitely not be because you are beautiful, have a good income, or how much money you have. When a man is 40 years old, what he values ????is the simple relationship between you and him. If a young girl marries a 40-year-old man, she will never suffer any injustice in her life, and she will enjoy a lifetime of happiness. Even if you are a lover, you will get more love than others! How to get a 40-year-old married man 2
To make him feel that he is still attractive
Indeed, without the impatience and recklessness of a young man, a married man will be even more attractive. Stay calm and confident. Don't be fooled by superficial appearances. In fact, a married man has the least self-confidence. He needs to prove that he can still attract women. His anxious desire for love is no less than that of any single man. This is not a heinous crime. If a woman is willing to approach him at this time, that will undoubtedly make him the most grateful. No matter how hard he tries to maintain his appearance, he is already willing to surrender to you.
Don’t ask him for his home phone number and address
Just his mobile phone number and email address. This is not to protect him, but to protect the woman herself, otherwise at certain uncontrollable moments you will call him over and over again, or even run to his door to wait for him. The result of this will only make you lose confidence in yourself.
What are men most afraid of?
Men are most afraid of women asking for money, promises, and a future from them, and married men are even more afraid to death. Therefore, the best way to get rid of a married man is to express your desire to marry him.
On the contrary, if you want to keep him, you must stay out of his daily life like a free electron, and learn to listen patiently to them when they often talk about their wives and children. If you can't be so detached, then turn around as soon as possible.
A married man already has his own solid position, so deep down in his heart, he doesn't care whether you go or stay. You insisting on leaving won't cause him much pain - it's definitely not like he said he couldn't live without you. If your staying away is to make him realize how important you are, it will be a waste of effort.
Don’t feel like a “doorstep”
A relationship experience may be the highlight of our lives for us, but this may not be the case for the people around us. If your girlfriend defends you and says: "Let him get a divorce! Otherwise he has no right to love you." Or: "Believe me, he is using your kindness to take advantage of you." or "It won't work if it continues like this. Just something." Don't immediately think of yourself as an aggrieved doormat because of comments like this.
Why are women always willing to put themselves in the position of the weak? We can choose a man, choose how to love, and choose when to leave him.
Don’t date him too often
If you go out with him every night, frequent meetings will quickly become a habit. A train traveling too fast is always in danger of losing control and derailing. We need alone time to maintain our own sense of mystery and to ensure that our energy is dispersed elsewhere.
A married man can only be the island where we vacation. Wouldn’t it be like living on a small island to become a Robinson Crusoe?
Don’t pamper him
He doesn’t need us to pamper him, nor does he need us to personally cook delicious food for him, nor does he need you to dictate his life and work. , he enjoys these cares at home every day.
What he wants is not peaceful and warm happiness and a reasonable partner, because he already has these. Your willfulness, unruliness, spending money randomly and making noise will be accepted by him and become the reason for him to be more obsessed with you.
So, married men can act as our punching bag when we are in a bad mood.
Fox’s Theory
The way we look at men will change. Whenever we say goodbye to a relationship and re-examine this man, we will whisper in our hearts: How can such an ordinary man let me do everything for him? So, the problem lies in the way we look at them.
With our minds full of fantasy, we can imagine any extremely ordinary man as the protagonist of a romantic novel, and we can also make them reveal their true colors overnight. Learning to control your vision is every woman's best self-defense weapon.
Only look at his advantages when you get along with him, and only look at his shortcomings when you leave him. This kind of fox theory of "sour grapes" is often used by men, so they are very It is rare to miss a woman who has left. Women should do the same and stop allowing themselves to be "just" forever.
Forever Friends and Lovers
Becoming a good friend to a married man is the best way to "long-term possess" him. Men also want to talk, especially to women who are outside their mainstream lives and have no conflicts of interest. A married man can be a woman's most competent mentor and counselor, and with a little bit of mutual admiration, he will be a forever friend and lover.
It's possible. The result of falling in love with a married man is falling out of love, and falling out of love is always uncomfortable. When we fall in love for the tenth time, our pain is just as deep, but our hearts have become much harder. Knowing that we have overcome the first nine pains, we have no reason not to believe that we can withstand this tenth disaster and wait firmly and calmly for the arrival of the eleventh pain. Signs of a married man liking a woman
1. A married man likes you and calls you for no reason
When you are still at work, or at home, or at any time, he calls you He called me and said in a low voice that he actually had nothing special to do, he just wanted to have a few words with you.
If he was in the office at this time, you might hear the ringing of other phones on his end, but he ignored it and continued to finish what he was eager to say to you.
2. If a married man likes you, he can’t help but tell you everything
He can’t help but proudly mention you in front of his buddies. He seems very talkative in front of you, telling you a lot about himself and his family.
Such as his hobbies, his birth year, whether his parents have any quirks, etc. The purpose is to bring you closer to him and shorten the distance between you.
As long as he thinks of you, he will have an indescribable fascination. This feeling must be expressed in front of his buddies.
Women like to show off their fashionable clothes in front of their peers, while men like to show off their beloved women to their friends.
3. If a married man likes you, he will be extremely friendly to your friends.
If you ask him to help one of your friends, he will be particularly helpful. The reason is simple, he wants to make you happy and have your friends praise him.
4. If a married man likes you, he will pay attention to your every move.
When talking to you, he will look at your eyes and lips intently. When we go out to eat together, he will not carefully look at the beautiful girls coming in and out. Sometimes, his eyes would look into the distance, just sorting out his thoughts.
5. A married man likes that he will be punctual when you go on a date
That is to say, he will not come too early, let alone be late. In order to prepare for a date, he will make careful preparations and modifications. This is not a woman's patent. He also wants him to be sexy, charming and impeccable in your eyes. Being late is an absolute no-no and everything is carefully considered.
6. If a married man likes you, he will not laugh at your interests.
He will respect your various interests, including your hobby of shopping. The saying that "men hate shopping with women the most" you usually hear is actually made by married men. For him who is in the infatuated stage, he will be very satisfied if he has the opportunity to be with you.