Question 1: Why are people selfish? Because people have desires, they will become greedy. Everyone has it, but personal cultivation conceals it to varying degrees.
Question 2: Why are many people selfish? There is a saying that "people don't do what they want." "Myself will be destroyed by heaven and earth." The meaning of this sentence shows that human selfishness is a natural and innate human nature. Are there any people who are absolutely not selfish? We dare not say that there are not, but at least there are very few such people around us. The vast majority of people are not selfish. The only difference lies in the extent to which selfishness succeeds. Maybe you are also selfish. In fact, selfishness is an instinct for human survival, which is not surprising. So why do we need to understand the selfish side of human nature? You can use "selfishness" to interpret other people's behavior, so that you won't feel confused about other people's behavior and can look at it with a "normal mind". Selfishness is a human instinct, and many human behaviors are formed with this as the center point. Depending on personality, education, and life experience, selfishness manifests itself in different forms of behavior. One is the form of "goodness". Selfishness is expressed in the form of "goodness", which is beneficial to others and self-interest. For example, ordinary people go to work. On the one hand, they work for their boss and indirectly serve consumers. On the other hand, they make money to support themselves and their families and meet their survival needs. However, there are also some people who only seek to benefit others but not themselves. For example, some missionaries are in remote areas and only want to help some people in need. Their own lives are not only not enjoyable, but can even be said to be a kind of self-interest. Abuse. In the eyes of the world who only care about themselves, this kind of person is really worthy of admiration. The other form is the form of "evil". This form of selfishness only seeks to benefit oneself without benefiting others. If it only benefits oneself but does not harm others, then this kind of selfishness is not considered "evil". Some people's selfishness is to benefit themselves by harming others. This is really evil. "evil"! This kind of behavior includes robbery, fraud, frame-up, betrayal, and more serious cases include murder, arson, and endangering the lives of others. For ordinary people, life-threatening things will not happen to them, but you will encounter people's selfish behaviors from time to time. You don't need to care about it. Instead, you should have this idea: How should I deal with these selfish behaviors? To create a harmonious relationship between the two parties, or to obtain his assistance and cooperation? It is very simple to really do this, and it is right to satisfy the other party's selfishness. The "satisfaction" mentioned here does not mean letting one's desires be met without limit. If you do this, it will harm you, because human desires are endless. So what should we do? (1) From a negative perspective, do not deprive the other party of his interests. No matter whether he really needs these interests or not, if you deprive him of them, he will fight for you. (2) From a positive perspective, if you give the other party benefits, as long as he is willing to accept it, then he will definitely listen to you. Therefore, many emperors have to use heavy sums of money to win over their ministers, and big bosses have to give bonuses to their subordinates, and those who can carry the burden A warrior is one who is willing to work for his powerless master for money. In addition to money, position is also a kind of benefit, so "promotion" can also win people's hearts, because you satisfy Ding's selfishness! However, when satisfying the other person's selfish desires, you have to pay attention to two things. (1) You cannot satisfy the other party completely at one time. You can start from less to more, but not from more to less. Otherwise, not only will the other party not be grateful to you, but they will resent you. (2) Enrich your resources from time to time and let the other party think that you still have many "benefits", so that they will maintain a good relationship with you for those "benefits". Once the "benefits" are gone, they will probably leave. You left. If you really encounter this situation, you don't have to lament, because this is the inevitable outcome of human nature. Look, who cares about those declining nobles, out-of-power politicians, and down-and-out "rich people"? In addition, you can't ignore people's "selfishness" at the spiritual and psychological level, that is, everyone likes to be respected. , you respect him, then everything is easy to say! Read more about the selfishness of human nature, and then satisfy the selfishness of others to a certain extent, so that you can deal with it well! "Theory of selfishness of human nature" is the corrosive agent of a harmonious society and the construction of socialism A harmonious society must be supported by correct public opinion and ideological education.
Recently, an argument has appeared in some newspapers and forums: "Selfishness is human nature, and everyone is selfish." Although it is an old tune, it has a corrosive effect on the construction of a harmonious society that cannot be ignored. If people want to survive, live well, and develop, they must seek their own interests. Pursuing legitimate personal interests is everyone's right and responsibility, and should be respected and should not be denounced as selfish. Marxism has never only talked about justice and not profit, only talked about the collective and not the individual. It has never denied people's motives and behaviors in seeking their own legitimate interests, and has publicly stated that the proletariat not only wants to liberate itself and other working people, but also wants to liberate the whole world. human beings. Only care about one's own interests, regardless of others...gt;gt;
Question 3: Why are people selfish Hello. Today's society has created more selfish people. The father-son relationship can go to court to break away from the father-son relationship, and the husband-wife relationship can go to court to dissolve the engagement and earn family property. You kindly saved someone on the roadside. As a result, you become the perpetrator. You go to sympathize with beggars, only to find out that they are doing it to make money and gain sympathy. Not really a beggar, just to make more money. When you are in trouble, you go to borrow money from relatives and friends, only to find that they have money but use the excuse that they really have no money. Can't borrow it. When you are helpless, you will find that only your parents are the most selfless people. Give you unlimited care and help. Anyone who talks too much is selfish. money? It didn't fall from the sky. Hard earned. Who wants to spend money indiscriminately? To support oneself? That also takes time. Just use the time to make money. So society creates selfishness. . There is helplessness. There are also villains. There are also indifferent ones. . There are also those who are waiting and watching. . etc. If money, the biggest weapon of destruction, could be removed. Then you wouldn't be calling people selfish. That must be unrealistic. . .
Question 4: Why are people selfish? Everyone’s values ??are different. Why does it mean that people are becoming more and more indifferent? Doesn’t it necessarily mean that they are regressing? What’s more, how is indifference defined? Well~~ and...people are not born united...when you think that people have become indifferent, and indifference represents the regression of human nature...you will have such questions...change your justice and values, ,, the world will naturally get better ~ good luck
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Everyone’s values ????are different. Why does it mean that people are becoming more and more indifferent? Regression... not to mention how to define indifference~~ and...people are not born united...when you think that people have become indifferent, and indifference represents the regression of human nature...that will happen. Question...if you change your justice and values, the world will naturally get better~good luck 2008-03-18 18:46
Selfishness and greed, stinginess, self-enclosedness, Depression, morbid nostalgia, superstition, impetuosity, vanity, misalignment and other psychology are all abnormal psychology, which means that they are a manifestation of mental illness. Although selfishness is infuriating, especially when it comes to self-interest, selfish people are deeply disgusted, but this abnormal psychology must not be imitated by people who have not yet formed it.
Selfishness - Selfishness is a relatively common morbid psychological phenomenon. Selfishness is the root of all evil. Pathological social psychology such as greed, jealousy, revenge, stinginess, and vanity are fundamentally manifestations of selfishness.
(1) Characteristics of selfishness
1. Deep nature. Selfishness is a nearly instinctive desire that lies deep in a person's soul. People who blindly want to satisfy their various selfish desires regardless of the requirements of social and historical conditions are selfish people.
2. Subconscious. Precisely because selfish psychology is deeply hidden, its existence and manifestations are often not realized by individuals. People who behave selfishly do not realize that they are doing a selfish thing. On the contrary, they often feel at ease when they usurp the interests of others. It is also because of this that we call selfishness a pathological social psychology.
3. Secrecy. Selfishness is a morbid behavior that is ashamed to be seen by others. Selfish people often use various means to hide themselves, so selfishness is secretive.
(2) Analysis of the causes of selfish psychology
From an objective perspective, due to various complex reasons, the quantity, type, and method of possession and allocation of various resources in our country currently There are many imbalances and irrationalities. Therefore, the party lacking resources has to use unfair means to exchange. As a result, on the one hand, power is used for personal gain, and on the other hand, money is used for personal gain, and power-for-money and power-sex transactions are engaged in. In addition, the accumulation of pathological culture and lax social control are also objective reasons.
From a subjective perspective, if personal needs are unreasonable needs that are divorced from social norms, people may tend to be selfish.
There is a certain internal connection between an individual's self-sensitivity, value orientation and social behavior. The so-called social behavior refers to all individual behaviors that are beneficial to society, including helping others; self-sensitivity refers to a person's psychological feelings after caring about his own problems, feeling that he needs help from others, and actually receiving help from others. ; Value orientation refers to the relatively stable standards and attitudes for evaluating things that are gradually formed in the social process. High self-sensitivity can be externalized as sensitivity to others, that is, "all for one and one for all", but it can also become a tendency to be self-absorbed. Selfish people are often highly self-sensitive, self-centered, extremely dependent on society and others, and do not have social value orientation (lack of responsibility for others and society).
(3) The manifestations and harms of selfishness
As a pathological social psychology, selfishness is highly permeable. Most citizens in society have selfish thoughts to varying degrees. The main manifestations are as follows:
1. Not being ethical.
2. Jealousy of others.
3. Emotionally selfish.
4. Technology monopoly or plagiarism.
5. Using money for personal gain.
6. Abuse power for personal gain.
(4) Selfish psychological adjustment
1. Introspection method. This is the method advocated by the School of Structural Psychology, which refers to studying one's own psychological phenomena through introspection, that is, using self-observation statements. Based on the objective standards of social ethics and social norms, we should often self-observe our own mentality and behavior, strengthen learning, update concepts, strengthen social value orientation, and summarize ways and means to correct mistakes.
2. Do more altruistic behaviors.
3. Avoidance training. This is based on the principle of operant reflex in psychology and uses negative reinforcement as a means...gt;gt;
Question 5: Why do people have a selfish side? Being mortal and living in this secular world, everyone will have some desires and selfish thoughts. There is no so-called humbleness and nobility, but everyone's bottom line is different. We don't need to worry too much about other people's selfishness, as long as we can grasp our own bottom line well.
From an absolute perspective, in order to survive, to survive better, and to realize certain wishes of oneself, a person must consider himself. This is called selfishness.
It’s just that different people think differently about others.
Some people sacrifice a lot for others;
Some people do many unreasonable things for themselves;
Some people, We must properly handle the relationship between people and ourselves.
Of course, one must also forgive others' selfishness.
With mutual understanding between people, society will be full of the sunshine of love.
Selfishness does not sound like good intentions at first glance, but seems to have a derogatory connotation. In fact, it is not the case. How many people are not selfish?
Selfishness can only be shown under certain conditions. It may be a feeling deep in the heart.
In the harbor of love, everyone will be selfish and enjoy their own love alone; even if there are all kinds of flavors in love, they are willing to carry it themselves - carry the burden of love and taste the taste of love. .
The selfish mentality often depends on the person and the situation. For example, the people you care about may be your own private property and your own patent in your heart; you do not allow others to infringe, not even your relatives and friends.
You can understand and experience the feeling of cherishing each other; the fear of losing will surround your heart... This is a kind of selfishness of love.
Question 6: Why are people selfish? It is human nature to seek advantages and avoid disadvantages. In fact, selfishness is a kind of self-protection. It is okay to be selfish, but don’t go too far. Compatible, but too selfish to get along with or cooperate with others. This is a mechanism that all living things need to maintain the necessary energy for survival, but some people overexert it and even waste it. Therefore, the system is extremely important to prevent unintentional deprivation of other people's daily necessities. Between doing good things and establishing good systems, good systems are the greatest good thing.
Question 7: Why are people selfish? It’s not that everyone is selfish. It depends on the time, place, and environment. Maybe what you call selfishness is generous to others, haha
Human nature is impossible. Use affirmative words to judge.
Question 8: Why are people selfish? People’s direct feelings come from themselves, so everything will be self-centered to experience the world.
Question 9: Why are people so selfish? Bingding means that everyone is very selfish. It depends on the time, place and environment. Maybe what you call selfishness is generous to others, haha
Human nature is It cannot be judged with certain words.