For lovers, each has its own social and life circles, and getting too close to friends will inevitably cause the other person's small temper (that is, jealousy), so they will say this sentence unintentionally. However, in fact, he (she) still loves you, and the best way at this time is tolerance.
Two: We can only be friends forever.
After chasing him (her) for a long time, he (she) suddenly gave you such a sentence. Are you depressed to death? We have extremely lofty dreams, but what we are waiting for is such a result, and the lethality can be imagined.
Three: indifference
As the saying goes: indifference hurts more than anything else. You are so attentive, whether it is greeting messages, warm words on QQ, or meticulous care in life, the result is only indifference and chilling ~
Four: We are not from the same world at all.
You are full of expectations for him (her). Although your lives or ways of thinking are different, you don't want to change him (her) because of it. You just want to be nice to him (her). As a result, people say this sentence, depressed ~
Five: I'm really blind.
I have paid so much, whether it is his (her) meticulous care when he (she) is sick, his (her) understanding when he (she) is frustrated at work, or the common suffering in life, what I get is that people at the beginning were blind, which is extremely lethal.
Six: Never liked you.
We are happy, sad, crazy, silent, laughing and crying together. At one time, we all thought we had each other, and being said like this was like being stabbed.
Seven: How can your mother (family) do this?
I have done a lot for him (her). Although I know that my family is a little inappropriate, I am full of hope that the other person can understand and tolerate myself, because my parents are the people I respect most, but who knows that they are worthless in his (her) eyes and feel sad ~
Eight: I think you really miss him (her)
I fell in love with him (her) as soon as I saw him (her), and he (she) is also very gentle to you. You are confident that you have a good result with him (her). Who knows that he (she) has always regarded you as a substitute, and the degree of harm is self-evident.
Nine: Don't worry about it.
You give everything for him (her), worrying about whether he (she) is doing well outside, worrying about whether he (she) is eating well, worrying about how thick he (she) is wearing when he (she) is cold, and worrying about whether he (she) will be lonely when he (she) goes out to play without your company. It is him who can't let go. As a result, people put all your tenderness into the water, which hurts ~
Ten: You are really nice, but I don't deserve you. You can find something better.
You regard him (her) as your heart, and you can't leave him (her) for a moment. You are willing to give everything for him (her). He (she) is the god in your life. You are so small in front of him (her) that you can't see anyone except him (her), but people say so. Find someone better than you. Divided, divided, still so gentle. The blow is quite heavy.
Well, as a lover, will you say no when you see these terrible words? Love what you love ~ May everyone be happy!
Men don't like to hear ten words from women, which will hurt you.
First, the monthly salary must be paid to me.
Although modern women are much more independent, compared with most families, it is still a traditional model. Men earn money and women take care of the family. The hidden rule of this traditional model is that men usually take the initiative to give money to their wives. It's nothing, both sides have their own tacit understanding in it. But what I am afraid of is that women are too impatient, and they often whisper to each other when they are in the eight characters, or in their lives, which will make men unbearable. Men will think, listen to your tone, did I marry a chairman and go home?
Second, I'm not a virgin.
It is an indisputable fact that every man has a virgin complex. Some people say that men are naturally more handsome than women, but this is completely nonsense. Men always want their women to belong to them from head to toe, from beginning to end. Maybe what he said was just a movie? It's no big deal, but what I think is that this is just a movie, but it's too important. Therefore, a smart woman should never mention those old dog shit in front of her man, or she will die.
Third, don't smoke, drink or play cards.
Women like to take care of their men, such as smoking, drinking, playing cards and gambling. We all know that gambling can't be done. No matter how big your family is, you will eventually lose everything. But playing small cards for entertainment and drinking a small cigarette and wine will leave women alone. Without consumption, how can there be motivation to make money? Eat and wear warm clothes, be happy. If you keep gossiping in front of them, men will lose their temper.
Fourth, I can't cook.
Although gender equality is advocated now, in fact, few men like to do housework. If they get married and go home, they can't even cook. It's really annoying. From ancient times to the present, men believe that the biggest difference of seven days of loneliness is that women should be able to cook. This is as deep as the deep-rooted virgin complex of China men. Don't trust a woman, let him fool you before marriage, but in the life after marriage, he will definitely fall on you!
5. Why is your mother like this?
This sentence involves the delicate relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. The dispute between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has been a highlight in the history of China since ancient times. It's really hard to think about men in China. On the one hand, they are the closest mothers, on the other hand, they are the closest pillow people. Men were caught in the middle and kicked around like balls. How can they not feel bad? So this sentence is definitely a sentence that makes them very sad.
Six, you take care of the children, I'll go to a friend's house to play.
Men are most afraid of domestic troubles. Taking care of children is absolutely troublesome. Anyway, it must be a woman who works harder to raise children. This is the woman in our nature. Because women are delicate and gentle enough, men are careless and do everything to make children cry. If you throw your child to a man because you want to play, he won't be angry.
Seven, are you finished?
This is a private topic related to the quality of life of men and women. Men are inherently inferior to women in this matter, and generally care about their heads and tails. Therefore, the woman accidentally said this sentence because she was dissatisfied, which hurt the man's face. Men are most afraid of women looking down on themselves. A Japanese writer once wrote a book "The Lower Body of a Man is Weak", that's right. So women should save face for men.
Eight, why are you so useless?
A man's greatest success is to let his woman enjoy a happy life with him. A woman's greatest wish is to do nothing and follow the man she loves. Therefore, once a man's ability fails to reach his expected goals and hopes, then he will blame himself. So, woman, at this time, you should never hit him, but encourage him. Otherwise, a big war is bound to break out.
Look at you (in front of your friends). What you said is too bad.
A man's best face, especially in front of his buddies. If you poke his soft spot at this time, it must be a curse. In front of your buddy, you should keep blowing and praising him, so that he will feel that he has face in front of his buddy and his vanity will be satisfied. When vanity is satisfied, he will treat you better and better.
Where did you go last night?
Men stay up all night, women are afraid of ghosts and gods. It is boring for men to search clothes and touch their mobile phones. The man thought, what, are you the warden? I still have no freedom like a caged bird. Therefore, before the critical moment, women should never screw up their lives with this sentence for nothing.
Ten most hurtful words of lovers quarreling.
As the old saying goes, couples fight at the end of the bed ~ but some words are really hard to say! Let's summarize the most hurtful words in the quarrel between husband and wife and review whether you are outspoken. !
First, divorce!
Anger and injustice that cannot be sustained in anger often regard a temporary tragedy as a lifetime. Even unintentionally, it is likely to cause shadows and cracks in each other's hearts. In fact, the feeling of that moment, no matter how sad, will fade away in the next moment. What we need to do is to endure for a few minutes and never throw out the word divorce without thinking. Sometimes I'm afraid of stimulating each other, and one can't say it! Divorce! The other will answer: who is afraid of who when you leave? Speaking of this, it is really water under the bridge!
Second, you don't deserve it!
In the face of love, everyone is equal, and no one deserves anyone. However, if you say a loser man (bitch woman) in a quarrel, then you don't deserve it! Giving the other person a feeling that you look down on him or her will greatly stimulate the other person's nerves and challenge his or her self-esteem. If you scold each other for a long time, your opinion of each other will be more and more upgraded, and the stimulation coefficient will also rise, which will leave a shadow on each other. It's best to be patient, but if you really can't stand it, just throw a worthless jar to get rid of it. Don't challenge each other with these three words.
Third, I'm blind!
In just four words, the message you send is that you completely deny him or her, so that you are willing to belittle yourself in order to express your disappointment. Say these four words, giving the other person the feeling that your heart is getting farther and farther away from him (her)! Never!
Fourth, do you care?
When you said this sentence, did you notice the silent and dim eyes of the other party? As an adult, everything you do is beyond the control of others, but only if what you do is feasible and beneficial to yourself. The reason why the other party will stop you anxiously and help you analyze the whole process is because ta cares, and you should learn to be grateful, not a loving look!
Five, go to hell!
This is absolutely forbidden! Because these four words themselves are curses! If the other person's point of view really violates your principles, criticize it. Why lose your manners just to be angry and happy? No matter how angry you were, you must refrain from saying this!
Six, I really fell down with blood mildew!
The word blood-eating is usually used in very unlucky and unlucky situations, which is extremely lethal. When you express that being with him or her is not only bad, but also a very unlucky thing, will the other person still believe that you still love him or her?
Seven, I'm really fed up with you!
This sentence really conveys that your feelings for him (her) have reached an unbearable level, so there will be such a fierce expression that the other person's heart will suddenly fall into the ice hole!
Eight, marry (marry) you is my biggest mistake!
This sentence can completely kill love and turn the other person's heart into ashes. Even if you barely maintain it, you must have suffered internal injuries, and more are close to each other. It's hard to grow sweetness and happiness!
Nine, scold each other's parents.
Abuse don't hurt both parents: it's quite hateful to bring out words to scold each other's parents when quarreling. But this is often the case. Originally, you wouldn't swear. If the other person always scolds you with such language, you will be forced to go to Liangshan and deal with a man as he deals with you. Then they will intensify each other. You scold the old man, I'll scold him. Only in this way can we be equal. Quarrel also pays attention to balance, as if his old man had been scolded. If you don't scold me, you will suffer. Don't you know that this result is endless, hurting your heart and relaxing your appearance, but in fact, your internal injuries are incurable. Therefore, no matter how angry you are, no matter how much you want to be Japanese, as far as the basic morality of being a man is concerned, you can't hurt the elderly. Such a language cannot exist.
Ten, put up with you for the children.
When most parents with children are quarrelling, women often say that those irresponsible men have a good life. One more word and you're really successful. What could have been tolerated has become patience. Therefore, such information is constantly provided to your brain, and the harm to the other party goes far beyond this. The chain reaction is that you will deeply think that you will put up with this man for your children, and then the happiness index of life will continue to decline. Causing a day of pain. . .
The most hurtful words in the world
The most hurtful word in the world is 1. Bitterness and sweetness come from the outside, while strength comes from the heart and from our own efforts.
I always thought that people are getting old slowly, but they are not. People get old in an instant.
3, the relationship is broken, I can't tie it, try to put it down, go or not, stay or not, I don't want to understand.
4, men, animals that can only think with the lower body. A woman can only use the ruthlessness of truly loving him.
5. Take a look at the sighing cliff and drink a bowl of Mengpo soup. Who cries in reincarnation, who is speechless in the world.
6. There is no happiness when you should laugh, no tears when you should cry, and no commitment when you should write.
7. Missing someone is like drinking a glass of cold water, and then dripping into tears.
8. It is more difficult to fall in love with you than to recite mathematical formulas, let alone make you fall in love with me and let me understand the essence of polynomials.
9. People can be like this sometimes. It is clearly the last person they want to hurt, but the more they hurt, the deeper they hurt.
10, whatever you should go will go, even if it is very close; Depend on each other forever, even if the mind goes all the way to Wan Li.
I don't know how long a meteor can fly! Is it worth pursuing? I wonder how long the fireworks can last! Is it worth waiting for!
12, people are unhappy because they care too much. It's not that we have too little, but that we care too much.
13, some constraints, we asked for it; Some pressures are self-sufficient; Some pain, we volunteered.
14, I stared at the yellow leaves dancing in the sunset, holding a pillow, and I couldn't swim out of silent thoughts. How can I get there?
15, a promise, I waited for a long time, but I couldn't realize it; There are some words that have been hidden in my heart for a long time and have not been revealed.
16, Time is the gentlest knife in the world, which will smooth all edges and promises, just like petals falling like snow with the wind.
17, it snowed outside the window. Before I knew I was thinking of you again, I made a cup of coffee and kept it cold. How can you understand my expectations!
18 is the artistic conception of fallen leaves, the friendship of flowing water, the loneliness of flowers and the nostalgia of geese. I think this is destiny takes a hand.
19, happiness should be found separately, and finally you will get used to the scenery alone. After so long, I finally learned to smile and think about him.
20. When you really love something, you will find how fragile and powerless language is. There is always a gap between words and feelings.
2 1, slowly, I learned to let go. It's not that I've changed, it's that there's nothing I can do. I gave up. I can't move.
22. My tears stayed and watered the soft grass below. I wonder if there will be memories and sadness in the coming year.
23. Memory is like water poured in the palm of your hand. Whether you spread it out or hold it tightly, it will eventually flow through your fingers, drop by drop.
24. Experience has cast your vicissitudes, and loneliness is singing. No one in the world can interpret loneliness with such a bleak song.
25. Standing in the rain and listening carefully, I can still hear your breath and your heartbeat; I can hear your thoughts, the name you call from the bottom of your heart.
26. I heard a thousand words, but I couldn't hear your voice. I have seen all the people, but I can't find any familiar jokes.
27. A successful man needs a relatively excellent woman. And this Excellence has nothing to do with her appearance, but is connected with her connotation.
28, a little lonely, I don't know how to say it, let it die in silence, I left, in fact, it has never been here, but my heart is particularly soft at night.
29. A simple and quiet life is actually not happy, so I only embrace the instant and lasting feeling, and I am not happy at all, so I only believe in the moment.
30. If you don't wait a thousand years, there will be no short meeting in this life. Maybe it will take a thousand years to get together in this life!
3 1, if love is like a mountain, then the more men go up, the more women they can look down on, and the less men women can't look up.
32. You are surrounded by the sadness that you love wine and poetry, and I am surrounded by a young woman who plays the old days. However, why not? I'm drinking and laughing with you for 30 thousand games.
33. From the moment the pupa breaks out of the cocoon, it is the pain of tearing off a layer of skin. Many butterflies died of pain at the moment they broke out of their cocoons.
I can feel your heartache. You have unspeakable helplessness, but you show indifference. The more you do this, the worse I feel.
35. It's always a long time before I know that what I abandoned with my own hands will never be encountered again in the future.
36. A butterfly flew over there and drew a perfect curve. I forgot to draw a full stop for it, so that it can extend to today and run through my life.
37. He thinks she loves him and she loves another man. She spent ten years on him. He was her whole life, but he was deprived of his dignity.
38. The world is full of ups and downs, and it fades overnight and returns to dust. Whether it's crying, pain, giving up, or giving up, you finally left!
39. The rotten leaves in memory, those refreshing and smooth greens have long been buried in the front of the time scale, and only the overwhelming erosion breath remains at the end of the time scale.
40. I have stood and talked for too long. I am tired myself. Why don't you understand? I've written too much for too long. I am tired myself. Why don't you understand?
4 1, yesterday's joy still reverberates in my mind, and those happy words still linger in my ears, but you have gone far, far away, which is a place I will never reach.
42. There are so many places around a person that you can pay so much. In this small circle, some people want to come in and have to leave.
Although I have designed many elaborate plans to hide my diary, I am still worried that I will write too much one day. When I looked up, I found my father's angry and indifferent face.
44. There may be many innocent misunderstandings and misunderstandings in life. It is a good idea to learn to be calm and indifferent. There is no excuse for anxiety. It's a good idea to bow your head and smile.
45. Lonely people always think of everyone who has appeared in their lives, so I always think of you counting my loneliness over and over again every night when the stars fall.
46. Maybe some words should rot in your heart, some injuries should be hidden, some pains should be borne, and what you can't say should be buried in your heart forever. If I knew it was hurt, I would choose silence.
47. Pursuit and desire include happiness, frustration and disappointment. After setbacks and disappointments, we learned to cherish. Once you are unloved, you will cherish the people who love you in the future.
48. I thought a butterfly couldn't fly over the sea because it didn't have the courage to fly over the sea. Ten years later, I found that it was not the butterfly that could not fly, but the other side of the sea, without waiting.
49. People change. What hasn't changed is probably just your own stubbornness and pride. Maybe at the beginning, you always thought that I was the only one who hurt you, but only I knew that you hurt me more than you did.
50. When a person doesn't love you, but he doesn't refuse you, he still has to keep friends with you. Then, forget it, abandon him. He doesn't love you, you should know, he just wants to use you to satisfy his vanity.
5 1, falling in love is a feeling. When this feeling is gone, I am still trying to force myself. This is called responsibility! Breaking up is courage! When this courage is gone, I am still encouraging myself. This is called tragic!
52. I used to hide in an empty corner and lick it, just like a cut. Pain, pain, and then slowly heal! Although the scar is still clearly visible, I can't feel the pain anymore.
53. It's hard to love someone. I like it. I hope he loves me forever! But he hurts me every time and makes me cry. Don't expect too much from love. The greater the hope, the greater the disappointment. Let it be.
54. After you say you don't regret it, please don't whisper it in your heart. Everyone's life will leave some regrets. The pain of you and me is like a stone in the eyes of others, and it can't stir up any ripples at all.
55. Once, I felt that I was a child abandoned by the world of mortals, and I refused the world of mortals. But I still can't escape the peach blossom robbery of fate, or the love robbery of fate. Perhaps, this is doomed.
56. The so-called predestination, like invention, originated from accident. Love is also an invention, which needs constant improvement. However, this invention is different from other inventions. It has no patent right and will be taken away at any time.
57, flashy life, forget a season. If you have time to think back, you will be punished. If you can't see a smiling face, you will fall into the desert. String, thinking about China. Those young people are like a dream. Like running water, it's gone forever. Don't cry, don't cheat, don't complain about the ending.
58. clouds in the sky. Watch this. Reminds me of your kindness again. A shabby billiard hall. This song again. Put your hands on it. Promise. The belief that makes me persistent. It is another summer. Last summer. Are you okay?
59. If you are not used to it, you will float and sink in the noise. In the most lonely time, you will desperately grasp a straw in front of you, but you don't know if it is a deadly straw, which will make the overload heart worse.
Only in this way, when I am disappointed and lonely, can I tell myself with a smile that it is not that you are bad to me, but that love is illusory. How warm it used to be, how lonely it was. .
6 1, love is a jam bottle, let us become children and taste its sweetness happily, as if we are never tired of it; Love is a plum blossom, which makes us greedy bears. We want to refuse and welcome the sweet and sour taste!
62. Time is like a river. The left bank is an unforgettable memory, and the right bank is a youthful time worth controlling. The rapid flow at both ends is a faint sadness of youth. There are many beautiful things in the world, but few really belong to me.
63. Because I don't want to break my oath, I have always maintained the agreed channels and never deviated. I just want you to know that no matter how haggard and beautiful, no matter how long we are apart, my heart is still in place; My love, still in place!
64. The most beautiful state of a coin is not static, but when it rotates like a top, no one knows whether the side that is about to turn out is happy or painful, love or hate. Happiness and pain, love and hate are always intertwined.
65. I once had your love, which is enough. Because there is a kind of love called giving up. Giving up is not selfless dedication. Giving up you is not only my love for you, but also my concern for myself. It pains me to give up you, but I won't regret it.
66. When you have it, cherish it! Fate is over, please take care! As I told you before, I am willing to talk to you when the years are quiet; Like water, I am willing to be with you; Prosperity is exhausted, and I am willing to grow old with you. Worried mood, write for you! I wish you happiness and good luck, peace and good luck!
67. When I met you, I was doomed to be sad; When I met you, I was destined to be lonely. If love goes, who will stay for whom? My heart is as heavy as the sea and everything is like a dream. Yesterday passed like clouds, blowing in the wind. After the butterfly dance at dusk, when the tears are exhausted and the wind rises. It's raining in Changting again, the red dust rain.
68. You must live. No matter what you face, you must find a way to live. I don't want to be an unknown zombie under the snow. I can only be found when spring is blooming. I can't let my parents feel sorry for me. It is the cruelest thing in the world for a white-haired person to send a black-haired person.
69. Everything that can be grasped tightly is so ethereal. You rushed into my world and planted my world with golden sunflower flowers. Just when the flowers were enchanting and fragrant, you left my world in a hurry and left me alone in this world.
70. I have dreamed of you more than a hundred times, and your figure will come into my dream almost every night. Now, we live far apart, and I miss you more than ever. I can only ask God to be patient and not push our reunion too far.
7 1, the breeze blew, ripples appeared on the lake, and the left moon shadow disappeared like this. The broken floating moon in front of us is incomplete. I don't know if this feeling of loss is as clear and vague as your face printed in your mind.
At that moment, I seemed to see the whole world collapse in front of me. The tiles in the ruins, engraved with vivid memories, are now quietly attached to the earth. No matter how carefully I walk quietly, I will eventually find that I am just a person exiled by memory.
73. Occasionally you will come to me and contact me. Your sudden appearance will still stir my heart. However, I also learned to pretend to you, neither cold nor hot, neither salty nor light, and smile mercilessly. I won't shed those cheap tears again. Then listen to you whisper: you have changed.
74. Love is love. Accept rejection? Simple words have changed their taste, your silent response, my evasiveness, why? A positive answer won't hurt my heart more than it does now. Don't firmly believe that it is better for him not to respond than to promise, so his heart is hotter and he can't afford it. Do you still want it?
75, dust fate is easy to get old, running water under the bridge, the first encounter is fate, waiting for you to be round. That's a familiar number. If you delete the phone book, you can't delete the memory. If you can't say goodbye, you will never meet again. When you stuck together, you always told me the past, and now it is irreparable. Will I be your memory?
76. Don't do it with tears, and have no regrets. The people who left didn't know it would be a farewell. Leaving with a smile is the happiest parting. Give up all and leave it to those who wait. After all, will we meet again tomorrow after parting? Tomorrow, maybe it's far away.
77. Looking at the sparkling snow in the sun and the crumbling snow on the treetops, I miss those casual happiness. Simple time stops at the tip of the pen, hesitating with the footsteps of youth, rendering the prosperity of you and me, and missing the beauty that belongs only to you and me between your fingers.
78. On a cold night, some people are already dreaming, while others find it difficult to fall asleep. I don't know what I'm waiting for, how can I stand so much, and how much I can stand. I don't understand why there is so much pain now, and I won't let myself make a wrong decision because of my emotions in the future, and I won't make myself sad again.
79. I can say it doesn't matter when it hurts. I can say it doesn't matter when I'm sad When I am lonely, I will laugh. I can say in despair that the world is still beautiful. I only hope that when I start complaining that God is stingy, someone can tell me not to care too much. I love you dearly.
80. Everyone wants a relationship to have a result, and no one wants a beautiful love to be a pain in the end. But if you don't care about eternity from the beginning and only care about the attitude you once had, no matter how beautiful the relationship is, it will not have a good result. The cardamom years are fleeting, so why should we taste bitterness again in our short life?
8 1, learn to be brave when you are afraid of no one to accompany you; When I was bored, no one asked, so I learned to endure. When you are tired, there is no one to rely on and you learn to stand on your own feet. Learn to be patient, persistent and strong when you are sick and injured. Even if a person is sad, don't beg for mercy. Get cheap, catch cheap. This society doesn't believe in tears.