The author believes that in this incident in which a 45-year-old female lawyer was strangled to death by her biological daughter, no matter who is responsible, whether it is the female lawyer who is the mother, the father who is absent from the child’s education, or the child. I and even the school must bear part of the responsibility. In fact, in recent years, it is not uncommon for children to kill their relatives. Some junior high school children kill their grandparents, some high school children kill their grandparents, and some junior high school children kill their parents. What's more, it caused a sensation back then. The Peking University student murdering his mother, isn't it also a case of a child killing a relative?
So we have this question, why do the children we raise with one hand and care for in the palm of our hands not only do not know how to be grateful, but also draw swords on our parents and relatives. What's more, after killing his parents and relatives, he showed no regrets and went out to spend the seized money. After being discovered by the police, he actually said a lot of words, even indiscriminately, and did not feel that he was a criminal. What is wrong with what we are doing? So, what is it that makes our children become like this?
1. Pampered children
Those born in the 1980s may still have brothers and sisters at home, but those born in the 1990s have very few. As for these children born in the new century, they don’t even know what brothers and sisters are. For children born in the new century, more often than not they don’t know what brothers and sisters are; even more they don’t know what “brothers and sisters” are. This is true in cities and also in rural areas. Children of this generation have basically developed a tell-all character at home. Their parents will give them what they want. Even if their parents don’t give it, they should be like the next generation of relatives. Whatever the children want, grandma, grandpa, and grandma will pay for it without hesitation. money.
Children who grow up in this situation develop a sense of entitlement. They usually think that everything in the house belongs to me and is mine, and if you don't give it to me, it's your fault.