A few years ago, a female friend of mine, temporarily named Meng Xiao, discovered her husband’s secret and suspected that he had cheated on her in their marriage.
On New Year's Day, while her husband was playing mahjong, Meng Xiao unlocked her phone and checked her WeChat red envelope records. She discovered that in the early morning of New Year's Eve, her husband sent a 520 red envelope to a girl with a second profile picture. She did not know this girl.
Meng Xiao secretly wrote down the girl’s WeChat ID and put the phone back intact. She didn't have a seizure on the spot. First, her relatives and friends were very embarrassed during the Chinese New Year. Secondly, she still felt a little lucky, maybe it was just a simple friendship.
She added the girl’s WeChat account to her account. She is a long-haired girl who works as a purchasing agent for WeChat business. From the photos, she looks really young and cute. Meng Xiao briefly chatted with her in the name of purchasing and learned some basic information about her.
The day after the holiday, my husband suddenly said that he was going on a business trip. The destination is the girl's city, not far from them.
Meng Xiao was kind-hearted and helped him pack his luggage, sent him to the car the next day, and sent a WeChat message to his good friend.
He is in the car, help me keep an eye on it!
She was ready to catch the adulterer and arranged an informant at the station in that city. She boarded another train bound for that city.
The following story is very simple. The girl at the station met her husband, held hands and kissed like lovers. This scene was clearly seen by Meng Xiao's friend. She tracked it all the way to the hotel and learned the room number, while Meng Xiao was still asleep on the train.
As night fell, a group of people, accompanied by a few strong men, broke into the hotel in a mighty manner. They didn't speak during the whole dream, and their faces were pale. After knocking on the door, the husband wrapped himself in a bath towel and gently opened the door.
Yelling, crying, beating, taking pictures...
At the moment when he broke into the door, Meng Xiao seemed to be a bystander, leaning against the door with his mouth in his mouth. I watched this farce with tears, as if I didn't even recognize the man on the bed.
Being caught in bed is probably the most heartbreaking thing for a woman.
No one knew what Meng Xiao was thinking when he rushed into the room. She looked at the controlled husband and the young woman huddled in the quilt crying. She just picked up the clothes scattered on the ground and threw them heavily on the man's face.
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A girl’s mother once said:
I would rather my daughter not get married or be gay than have to settle for a man and endure The unreasonable mother-in-law, the pain of early pregnancy, the triviality of daily necessities after marriage, and the fear of extramarital affairs.
I agree with this passage very much, and it has even been regarded as a classic during that time.
The tragedy of some women lies in their fate as accessories and reproductive tools. They are always seeking to control men and families, as if defending their territory, becoming a fierce and crazy vixen.
This kind of woman naturally includes Meng Xiao. The story of catching an adulterer has been widely circulated in our circle and has been a topic of conversation after dinner for a long time. However, at a small gathering of friends, when Meng Xiao appeared in front of everyone holding her husband's arm, the atmosphere instantly became awkward.
In fact, cheating in bed seemed to have no impact on their marriage. They still appear in pairs and appear in various social situations. Meng Xiao smiled implicitly, looking a little timid.
All our friends know that this should be the result of a compromise. Family, marriage, and ethics make matters that should have been left unsolved in anger.
After marriage, women seem to have no choice, and all blame will be directed at you. Even after a husband cheats, some people will ask: It is precisely because of the wife's negligence or various mistakes that prompted the man to empathize.
This phenomenon of married women’s moral weakness does not seem to be uncommon.
On weekdays, videos or pictures with the title "Catch the Mistress" will appear in various media.
After clicking on it, it was nothing more than two pictures. Two women were fighting and making a big noise in the street, or they were catching an adulterer in a hotel like Meng Xiao, and a group of people rushed into the room and started fighting.
Not long ago, a video on Weibo received a large number of reposts. A woman with a Northeastern accent stood in front of the bed and accused her cheating husband of lying naked on the bed with his mistress. Because of her jokes, she has been highly praised by many netizens. Some people even commented that you need to have such a spirit to catch a rapist.
I can’t understand how what was originally a very sad thing turned into a joke to entertain the public.
It seems that all the methods of catching an adulterer are extremely unified, and all the endings are extremely similar.
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Many times we know that it is the other party's fault, but for some reason, we have to put down our dignity and seek compromise.
Later I learned that after being raped on the bed, Meng Xiao’s husband was the first to file for divorce, and he was decisive and even sent out a lawyer. As a victim, Meng Xiao retreated and begged, even kneeling down and hugging her thighs.
For such a reversal of the plot, our friends never expected that Meng Xiao was also a chic woman before she got married. It is unimaginable to kneel down and beg her cheating husband not to divorce.
However, in hindsight, this is probably the current situation of many cheating families. The woman was furious and broke into pieces. Later, for the sake of her family and children, she became the weaker party. They are very passive in marriage and have to forgive their cheating husbands and even appease the men's emotions.
This kind of contrast between men and women is very frustrating, as one article pointed out:
Most divorced women are ignored, but divorced men can be happy and unrestrained .
The moment she was caught in bed and broke into the door, a woman turned into a knife, stabbing others and cutting herself at the same time.
There is no solution to this social problem. Most people would say that if a woman has her own career and pursuit of life, she does not have to obey a man to survive.
But the fact is that there are very few women like you around you, and special cases cannot represent the general public at all. Traditional ethics still bind the majority of women who are hurt, frustrated and helpless.
So, being familiar with Meng Xiao’s series of bloody plots, I suddenly felt inexplicably sad about the word “catch someone in bed”.
Woman, if you don’t have the courage to bleed and sacrifice, please don’t put yourself on the cliff. If you are bound by family, children, or ethics, maybe you should think calmly. Sometimes it's better to beat around the bush than bump heads.