Recently, a woman surnamed Ji in houma city, Shanxi reported to Lechang Middle School in Quwo County, Shanxi Province, where her husband worked, saying that her husband had sex with a female teacher named Wei Fang (a pseudonym) in the school many times, and their relationship was obviously abnormal.
When it comes to her husband, Ms. Ji is full of grievances and pains. Because originally, her family is very happy. Her husband is a middle school teacher, and her youngest son is two years old. There is still more than one year to go to study.
Speaking of her husband's work, she is also very proud. After all, it is a stable and decent job, and her clever son makes her feel happy. However, the original good life changed in 2020.
You know, my husband used to go to work on time, and every day when he came home, he helped to look after the children and chat with himself. Even if I occasionally encounter overtime, I will call in advance to report.
Recently, however, Ms. Ji found that her husband goes out early and returns late every day, and does not stay at home easily. Sometimes he doesn't even go home all night. Even if I stay at home, I don't talk to myself much, don't play with my son, and even get distracted. He took the initiative to ask, and he always got a casual answer: "Nothing, just a little tired recently."
But all kinds of situations make Ms. Ji have to think: What happened to her husband?
After her own "unannounced visit", she finally found something fishy: it turned out that her husband had another woman outside behind her back, and this woman was also a teacher at Lechang Middle School, and even her name was found out. She also found that this woman actually encouraged her husband to divorce herself.
Seeing a woman involved in her family life, and she was helpless, Ms. Ji had to report the case to their Lechang Middle School, hoping that the school would give her a chance to keep her family that was about to be broken.
In response to the content reported by Ms. Ji, the school said that this is a personal family emotional problem. Ms. Wei, who was reported, did not have the relevant regulations of the school, and her request for punishment of Ms. Wei could not be met.
In response to this question, lawyer Zhang Wenjuan said, "Generally speaking, marital infidelity does not violate the law, but belongs to the moral category. However, if the derailed party lives with others in the name of husband and wife, it is suspected of committing bigamy and will face criminal punishment. If it is only an occasional derailment, it is only a moral issue and does not constitute a crime. "
Personally, although marital infidelity does not constitute a crime or violate the relevant regulations of the school, it is immoral, especially in the pure land of the school. As a teacher, being a model is one of the six moral norms. If your behavior is incorrect and immoral, how can you talk about being a teacher and teaching people?
Therefore, in view of the influence, the school should take the initiative to find two people to carry out ideological education, so that they can reflect on what they have done and give guiding solutions, instead of just letting it go without violating the school rules.
A female teacher in Shanxi cheated on a male teacher in our school. The school's practice was improper, and the original matching practice was also criticized.
The original match has always demanded that the mistress be punished accordingly, without mentioning the husband's problem at all. You know, it takes two hands to make a sound. In this case, her husband also has an unshirkable responsibility.
One of the netizens expressed his own opinion on this matter: it is wise for a wife to take care of her husband, or she can choose to divorce, or she can choose to solve the problem with the so-called mistress, but never talk about the teacher's work, which puts the problem at a social level. Unless the law stipulates that anyone who cheats should bear criminal responsibility, it is unfair to judge what a teacher can't do just by his profession.
A female teacher in Shanxi cheated on a male teacher in our school. The school's practice was improper, and the original matching practice was also criticized.
Yes, the original match Ms. Ji has been asking for the dismissal of Ms. Wei as a punishment for her. Why not ask her husband to be fired? After all, it's selfish.
What do you think of this matter?