These types of people actually represent the ideals of people in several eras.
1. In 1950s and 1960s, doctors and nurses were ideal choices for people to choose their spouses. Because of the poor medical conditions, people seek medical advice, so they all want to find doctors and nurses, especially demobilized soldiers. The actual effect is not very good. Doctors and nurses all have occupational diseases. When they go home, they also ask their families to turn their home into a hospital, just like in a hospital. It leads to many contradictions and high divorce rate.
Second, in the 1970s and 1980s, teachers were the standard for people to choose their spouses. With the stability of society and the improvement of economic conditions, people begin to attach importance to education and the cultivation of children, so they all want to find a teacher as the object of educating children. However, the reality is that all family members are managed and educated as children, which has turned the family into a kindergarten, which has also caused many family conflicts and a high divorce rate.
Third, finding a lawyer is the standard for people to choose a spouse since this century. With the rapid development of economy and the increasing number of disputes, lawyers have become the symbol of Gao Fushuai, and people have a strong demand for law, hoping to find lawyers as objects. The reality is that lawyers are beautiful in appearance, but in fact they are diligent, have low income, work hard and haggle over every ounce, and have a high divorce rate.
From the above analysis, I think these people are not ideal partners. In fact, marriage is a chance encounter. Just meet the person you love. Practice is not the most important thing. Every profession has a good side and a bad side. Taking occupation as the standard is not reliable. This is my understanding for your reference.
If I were an unmarried man, I wouldn't choose any of the above four people when choosing a girlfriend. Kindergarten teachers are a mother-in-law all day and have a strong sense of responsibility. I'm scared. Nurses work too hard and earn a limited salary, so they are not a good career now. Forget it, doctor. The risk is too great, so it's better not to look for it. If I were a man with a conscience, I wouldn't ask a lawyer. Nine out of ten lawyers ate the plaintiff and the defendant.
It is better to find a kindergarten teacher! Nowadays, children are particularly difficult to serve, and their teaching is expensive and worry-free. If the kindergarten teacher is a spouse, it doesn't matter. You can also take children with you at work, that is, you can take care of children and educate them. Kindergarten teachers are good-natured and patient because of their profession, which are all necessary conditions in life. There is also a good kindergarten environment, and kindergarten teachers can stay in the learning environment required by young children, which is good for their health and reduces the chances of going to the hospital. Kindergarten teachers must keep a childlike innocence, which will reduce secular pollution and the nuisance of philistinism. Therefore, kindergarten teachers are the first choice for partners. Of course, nurses are also very good and will take care of people. Doctors and lawyers must see if people like you.
Don't talk about lawyers, any professional should choose a female lawyer as the other half!
What do gay men fear most about the other half?
Unreasonable, "I don't listen, I don't listen", as "it's wrong for you to yell at me!"
The above shortcomings are perfectly avoided by the lawyer industry.
Unreasonable? Can you live as a lawyer without being reasonable? Even if it's really unreasonable, my logic can confuse the defendants and arbitrators of the parties' public security law, but it can't fool you?
Don't give your husband a chance to defend himself? I'm kidding. I don't know how the other side's excuse makes you speechless.
Hu, an adult beauty lawyer in Zhihu, personally demonstrated that a draft should be made before quarreling, with three paragraphs and five small points, and the effect was immediate.
What are men afraid of? The other half just spends money without making money, gossiping all day and attacking her husband for cheating.
Female lawyers don't. While making money, they can also discuss social news, political situation and economic development trends with their husbands, making them feel proud all the time. "This is not only my wife, but also my best brother! Really knowledgeable! "
In case of hesitation, "I'll ask my wife first!" " "
Whether other industries are busy or not is beyond their control, unless they resign, but lawyers are different. They can adjust their work intensity and hold up half the sky at home.
Female lawyers are really concerned about the economy, the internal affairs, the kitchen under the hall and the guest strategist. Please cherish it when you meet it.
Although I can't choose an object according to my occupation, if I introduce a blind date, I will be the first to see a kindergarten teacher.
Doctors and nurses have irregular working hours, often working at night shifts, which is not good for their health. Their work and rest schedules are inconsistent with their families, and they lack time to spend with their families.
I know nothing about the work of lawyers, but I think lawyers are also very hard. Helping people with lawsuits is a very brain-consuming job. Afraid of getting old too early, I feel distressed.
Kindergarten teachers meet my requirements too much. People who choose to be kindergarten teachers usually sing and dance, and they are ingenious. When they are with children, they always have a young mind, they will coax children, have fixed working hours, and have winter and summer vacations. Their own babies will definitely bring them in the future.
If I am looking for it, I must call the doctor. Now doctors have high salaries, iron rice bowls and foreign fishing. No kindergarten teacher like me stayed at home without tears because of the epidemic.
These four kinds are parents' favorites, and their work is decent and stable. But for married people. This has its own shortcomings. Young people will be more or less resistant and will like this kind of work when they reach a certain age. For example, kindergarten teachers' own occupational diseases will become the object of education as long as they educate their children. Doctors and nurses are too busy, especially when they are young. Too many night shifts will lead to a lack of time to pick up and educate children. Lawyers are just too serious and rational, and speak their minds from time to time. However, these are generally the characteristics brought by professional factors, and some of them will have different styles when put on individuals. Everyone pursues a perfect partner, but life can't arrange a perfect object for you. You like her advantages, but you have to tolerate her shortcomings. Understanding each other takes a lifetime.
Not a good choice. Choosing kindergarten teachers is beneficial to children's early education; Choosing nurses and doctors is beneficial to the health of family members; Choosing a lawyer is helpful to your career. If you want to be the leader of all people, you should choose someone who is a doctor and can work as a kindergarten teacher and a lawyer part-time!
The stability of kindergarten teachers is not particularly good, and their income is average. If you want to take a part-time job on weekends, or start a business for a while and open your own educational institution, you have to pay a lot of time and energy. Pay and return are not necessarily proportional. A friend around me is engaged in the kindergarten teacher industry, earning less than 5,000 yuan a month, feeling a bit of economic pressure, so she joined an educational institution with others at the weekend. But I spend less time with my children. There's something wrong with family relations again.
But there is also a bright side. In the past three years, because the child is a teacher in this kindergarten, he always sends the child to school at work, which saves some trouble in picking up and dropping off the child. As a kindergarten teacher, this is actually a very beneficial job.
Nurses are tired and earn less than doctors. If you have a girlfriend who is a nurse, then you must accept that she often works at night shift. Occasionally, I will be temporarily called back to the hospital after work. At work, she will be angry in all aspects, and sometimes she will take it out on you after work.
But working in a hospital still has many invisible benefits, such as convenient medical treatment. Some minor illnesses may not require hospitalization or troublesome examination, but they can be solved by a phone call, but they are only minor illnesses. If you have a cold and a fever, she can usually cope.
Compared with nurses, doctors' income will definitely be higher, but the risks they take are also great. It is normal for both physicians and surgeons to be harassed by telephone from time to time. It is also common for doctors to work in shifts. The most terrible thing is the contradiction between doctors and patients. If your partner is a doctor, you will be nervous every time you see a vicious incident about medical treatment on the Internet. The saddest thing is that doctors rarely change careers, because after working for 10 years, if you let him change careers, he can hardly do anything else.
Lawyers also add some fantastic colors to this profession because of the plots in various TV dramas. In fact, people who really engage in this industry will know that there will be more glamorous than you think. The boredom behind this job. Judging from the role of partners alone, the profession of lawyer is relatively stable.
Every profession has its advantages and disadvantages.
A doctor friend once told me that her 1 boyfriend finally broke up because she couldn't understand that when they were dating, they were often called for temporary emergency surgery. After several such incidents, they really broke up.
Maybe it's really like a mountain, but if you really have feelings for someone, no occupation can stop you from living a life full of fireworks.
Dr. Zheng personally feels that choosing the other half should not be linked to career. And look at the meaning in the topic, it should be that men choose their partners and what their partners' career choices are.
However, there is no necessary connection between two people in their careers. Every profession has good people and bad people, and some are considerate and unreasonable. Shouldn't we pay more attention to personality and temper when choosing the other half? Does occupation have additive effect on the formation of personality? I don't think so
The so-called mate selection is actually sexism in a sense, especially the implied meaning in the title. Equality between men and women is often only reflected on the surface, but the preference for boys is in the bones.