In Putian, Fujian, Oumou had a conflict with his neighbor. The main reason was that Oumou and his neighbor had a land dispute. Oumou wanted to build a new house on the foundation of the original old house, but the neighbor believed that part of the land belonged to Their family, so when Ou was building a house, his neighbor came over to stop him, causing the construction to be put on hold. The neighbor asked to solve the problem first before starting construction. The neighbor asked to solve the problem first before starting construction, and prevented Oumou from continuing to build the house, causing both parties to The contradiction became deeper and deeper, and finally evolved into the current situation.
In fact, in rural areas, there are often small conflicts, and the conflicts between the two parties become more and more serious. The local village cadres also mediated the matter, but the suspect’s wife has always disagreed. If Ou can If the two parties compensated some money or exchanged land, the matter would be resolved soon. As a result, Ou and his neighbor refused to give in to each other, and the village cadres were also quarreling with Xue Li, which also caused the matter to remain unresolved and the result became more and more serious. , leading to escalation of conflicts.
Distant relatives are not as good as close neighbors. There is no need to be aggressive when dealing with neighbors. When encountering disputes over interests, both parties must first sit down and coordinate and discuss instead of endless quarrels. Neighbors should not stop Ou from building a house. This will definitely make Ou Mou bear a grudge, and Ou Mou also has opinions. He should not insist on his own way. He should choose to discuss things with his neighbors in advance and solve the problem instead of avoiding it. Solve problems instead of avoiding them.
In fact, many citizens in rural areas do not have much education. When they encounter problems, they know how to use violence to solve the problem. The result will be more serious. If you really encounter irreconcilable conflicts, you should choose legal channels to let them solve the problem. Government departments should coordinate the solution rather than retaliate privately. If the neighbors knew that such a tragedy would happen, I believe they would not stop it. I hope more and more people will We take this as a warning and hope that relevant government officials can fulfill their responsibilities.