Psychologists and lawyers, after summing up their previous litigation experience, believe that the main factors considered by the court in determining the ownership of children's custody include parents' economic ability, education level, children's original living environment, grandparents' education level and their willingness to raise them. Generally speaking, the general principle of determining the ownership of children's custody is conducive to the healthy growth of minors' body and mind.
I suggest that you can negotiate with each other first. If negotiation fails, you can choose to sue. If you sue, I suggest you prepare relevant evidence in advance, such as your academic credentials, proof of income, photos and videos with your children, proof of shopping for your children, etc., to prove that you have the ability to raise your children, and that your children and your life are conducive to their growth.
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Relevant laws and regulations
civil law
Article 1084 The relationship between parents and children shall not be destroyed by the divorce of parents. After the divorce, the child is still the child of both parents, whether or not the parents directly raise him.
After divorce, parents still have the right and obligation to raise, educate and protect their children.
After divorce, children under two years old are directly raised by their mothers. For a child who has reached the age of two, if both parents fail to reach an agreement on the issue of support, the people's court shall make a judgment based on the specific circumstances of both parties and the principle of being most beneficial to the minor children. Children over the age of eight should respect their true wishes.