The People's Procuratorate of Pu 'er City, Yunnan Province recently published a criminal indictment related to marital conflicts. In this case, the woman, Miss Murong (wife's pseudonym, the same below), was dissatisfied with the arranged marriage, and she had emotional disharmony with her husband in her later real life and had many contradictions with her husband. Such a thing that could have been handled through consultation, but because of their improper practices, eventually led to an irreparable tragedy, leading to a criminal offence, which was thought-provoking.
When you are in a strange strange bedfellows, you should think about what to do in the future.
The marriage between Dong Xunhuan (husband's pseudonym, the same below) and his wife, Miss Murong, is an arranged marriage, mainly the words of a matchmaker. Without much communication, under the arrangement of both parents, according to local customs, a wedding banquet was held, which was considered to be married. However, their marriage does not conform to the provisions of the marriage law, because both of them have reached the age of 20 when they got married, which can only be regarded as a de facto marriage relationship.
This kind of de facto marriage is very common in some remote rural areas and some ethnic minority areas. Although it does not fully meet all the conditions of the marriage law, it is a fact that cannot be ignored.
However, according to local customs, a banquet was held in the village, and relatives and friends witnessed it, even if they officially became husband and wife.
After marriage, maybe it is because there is no emotional foundation, maybe it is because of disharmony in personality. They often quarrel every day. What makes Miss Murong even more angry is that sometimes Dong Jihuan will hit himself, but men do, and women generally lose heart and despair. Despite living together for six years and having a son, Miss Murong wants to get rid of Dong Xunhuan more and more and find a new life.
This bad marriage made Miss Murong feel very tired, and she regretted that she had listened to her family's arrangement to get married so early. So one day, while in a good mood, Dong tentatively proposed: Anyway, we didn't get a marriage certificate at the beginning, so it's not good for anyone to go on like this. Better leave early. However, Dong Xunhuan disagreed and immediately rejected Miss Murong's proposal.
But it is obvious that Miss Murong has long been tired of this kind of life. She has become more and more disgusted with Dong Xunhuan and more and more yearning for the outside world.
So one day, Miss Murong made up her mind. She ran to the county to find a job in a supermarket, rented a house not far from the supermarket, and didn't go home. Basically get rid of the shackles of home, but also temporarily get rid of Dong's pleasure.
Don't go home until you go home. Anyway, how should you live?
But after a long time, everyone in the village said that Dong's wife had run away with someone else. At this time, Dong Shuhuan's face will slowly die, feeling humiliated and losing his home. He went to miss Murong several times and begged her to quit her job and go home to take care of the children. Miss Murong refused, of course. She finally took this step, and her city life gradually got on the right track. Dong Xunhuan said that he had moved to the county to live with Miss Murong and look for a job. But Miss Murong was tired of her long ago, and this proposal was resolutely rejected.
Because Miss Murong's attitude towards herself is getting colder and colder, coupled with the spread of some rumors, slowly, Dong Yihuan began to suspect that Miss Murong might really have another man outside. Once the seeds of doubt are planted, they will quickly take root and sprout and grow rapidly.
In order to verify his guess, he repeatedly observed near Miss Murong's supermarket. After many troubles, he finally found a clue.
On one occasion, Miss Murong did not return to her residence after work, but got on a bus. The driver is a man. They seem to know each other. Dong Huan wanted to follow him at once, but he was a stranger and soon lost him. He thought he had preliminary evidence, but he didn't want to come up with an idea that opened his eyes.
One day in April 2020, Dong Xunhuan told Miss Murong that she wanted to go to other places to find a job with her fellow villagers, maybe just for a few days, and agreed to talk about their marriage when he came back. Miss Murong breathed a sigh of relief and couldn't wait for Dong Jihuan to disappear immediately. She immediately said you go, so she simply answered without emotion. It seems that she is very happy about Dong Xunhuan's departure. Dong Huan naturally scolded Miss Murong silently, but she thought about her plan to catch the rape and silently endured it.
The next day, knowing that Miss Murong had a holiday, he thought that when she left, Miss Murong would definitely call her lover home. So Dong Shuhuan pretended to drag the suitcase away that day, but actually found a hotel nearby to sleep for one night, and went to Miss Murong's residence early the next morning to see the situation.
But I looked through the window for a long time and didn't find anyone in the room. He guessed that Miss Murong might have gone out on a date with her lover early in the morning, or didn't come home last night.
The more I think about it, the angrier I get. I thought I must catch their affair face to face, so I climbed into the house from the window and hid, ready to catch it.
Miss Murong rents a small house, and there are not many places for Tibetans. The wardrobe is small and stuffed with a pile of clothes. It is barely hidden inside, and its safety factor is not high, so it is easy to be found. Dong Huan studied it for a long time and thought it was wrong to hide under the bed. On the one hand, he is relatively comfortable, on the other hand, he is not easy to be found. So I hid under the bed. But on second thought, if he fell asleep, he couldn't find Miss Murong back for the first time, so he climbed out and turned on the faucet in the kitchen, making the ground dirty. He thought that when Miss Murong entered the door, she would definitely clean up and make noise, and even if she fell asleep, she would be woken up.
Sure enough, the development of things is exactly the same as Dong Jihuan's idea.
Dong Xunhuan, who thought everything was ready, ate something and hid under the bed. After a while, he fell asleep like a dead pig. He woke up several times in a daze, but he didn't hear anything in the room. Dong Xunhuan was a little depressed, but he didn't give up, thinking that he must find out the truth. Fell asleep again.
It was not until 8 o'clock in the evening that he was suddenly awakened. The sound was obviously not the cleaning he wanted beforehand, but came from above his head. He and Mr. Murong have been husband and wife for six years, and he is familiar with this kind of action from his wife, only with another person.
When his suspicious image appeared in his mind for thousands of times, Dong Huan came out from under the bed and glared at the two people on the bed.
Mr. Murong girl obviously didn't expect Dong Xunhuan to come out from under the bed. Her seven souls and eight souls were scared away by more than half, leaving only a series of exclamations. The man beside her, Zhang Wufeng (the victim's pseudonym, the same below), was dumbfounded, unable to move his hands and feet.
He obviously didn't know who this sudden person was, but he naturally didn't give in easily in the face of Dong Xunhuan's fist. During the scuffle, Dong Xunhuan touched the bag and fruit basket on the table and stabbed Zhang Wufeng in the head, which was blocked. None of the tools he can use hurt each other much. Dong Xunhuan, frustrated, conveniently brought a fruit knife and stabbed Zhang Wufeng several times in a row.
Zhang Wufeng saw something terrible, and the other person seemed crazy. If he wants to save his life, he must run away quickly, so he grabbed the wound and looked for an opportunity to stagger out. The stunned Mr. Murong girl stopped screaming this time and finally woke up. She quickly got out of bed and stopped Dong Xunle, and the crazy Dong Xunle returned to the world at the moment. She calmed down and felt that she had taught Zhang Wufeng a lesson, so she stopped chasing and stayed in the room to teach Mr. Murong a lesson.
The couple were still entangled, but the police came to us.
It turns out that Zhang Wufeng has deep feelings and a shallow life. Because of his injuries, he died after being rescued. Dong Xunhuan was detained on suspicion of intentional homicide. After investigation, it is officially recognized that Miss Murong and Dong Yihuan in this case do not belong to the legal marriage plot in the Marriage Law, but belong to the factual marriage relationship according to local customs and actual life. Miss Murong proposed to break up with Dong Xunhuan, but Dong Xunhuan disagreed. During their conflict, Miss Murong met Zhang Wufeng, and Zhang Wufeng became boyfriend and girlfriend without knowing Miss Murong's family situation. Caught by Dong Xunhuan, he was stabbed to death.
Dong Xunhuan failed to properly handle family conflicts and deliberately hurt others' health, resulting in one death. Although he pleaded guilty after arriving at the case, the consequences were serious after all. After the court comprehensively considered the circumstances of the case, the first instance sentenced him to life imprisonment for intentional injury. In addition, it is necessary to compensate Zhang Wufeng's family for economic losses of more than 47,000 yuan.
Objectively speaking, what Miss Murong and Dong Yihuan did in this case was improper, and both * * * caused the evil consequences of the crime. Miss Murong went out with another man without being completely separated from Dong Xunhuan, which in fact greatly intensified the existing contradictions between husband and wife. Dong Xunhuan's extreme solution to the problem is the main cause of crime and tragedy.
Both of them set a bad example in their attitude towards marriage, but in the end, it was their innocent children who suffered. If you really have no feelings and can't continue to live together, then this is not a good way to solve the contradiction. The longer we wait, the more violent incidents will occur. This case, for example, left us with too much thinking.