A criminal case occurred in the dormitory of Binzhou Vocational College! How to protect yourself in conflict with students?

In recent years, there have been more and more adverse events caused by contradictions among classmates. After all, many students are not mature in psychological age. Others have annoyed themselves a little, and they have had a little quarrel. They may want to retaliate in a more vicious way. So in the process of getting along with classmates at school, we should protect ourselves. If others can't rush with you, you can't hedge with them. You were cool. But you can't be sure whether the other party will do anything extreme to hurt you. At that time, it was not just a contradiction between classmates. It is likely to escalate into a criminal case and even hurt your own life. At that time, you were not the only one who was sad. Your parents, your relatives and everyone who loves you will be hurt.

Many students may be more or less extreme because of family reasons or their own personality, so you can't judge whether they are extreme people. So when you have conflicts with your classmates at ordinary times, try not to be too serious. If you find that the other person is too excited, you should immediately apologize. Apologizing at that time was not mainly to make you admit that you couldn't do it or that you were wrong, but the wisest choice in that situation.

When you meet some people, don't be too reasonable with them, but calm down, let yourself calm down and let the other person calm down. Don't let the other party make an excessive move because of a temporary quarrel. Many people's impulses are actually in an instant. Once they are impulsive, they will do many things that they may not be able to control. So, when arguing with others outside, try to stay calm and don't get too excited. Many things may be beyond your understanding at that time, but after you calm down and think about it, it is a completely different idea, so no matter who you are in conflict with, you should calm down and think clearly. In fact, no one is right or wrong in many things, but everyone's position is different, so don't have too much conflict with others and don't be too serious.