When two people are together, they get married purely for feelings, but if they can't be together for some reason, they should be together and should be separated.
It is not easy for everyone to make money. These bride price money may be a sum of money that the man has saved at home for a long time, and it is very likely that the man will use this money when he gets married next time. So the woman should not be too selfish and leave the money in other ways. From a legal point of view, it is also inconsistent with our laws. Of course, if the bride resolutely refuses to return the bride price, it can also be handled in the following ways:
1, discuss with the woman's family.
If the woman's family doesn't know, we can negotiate through her family first. Most women's families know this better and often choose to return the bride price, because the woman's family knows that it is illegal not to return the bride price without getting married.
Step 2 persuade through friends
Many girls will be reluctant to let go when they see more bride price, or they may just be temporarily irrational, so if they are persuaded by their friends, they may gradually change their minds, so we can contact their friends or girlfriends and ask them to help persuade them.
3. Take legal measures.
If we have exhausted all means, but the woman just doesn't want the bride price back, then we can only solve this problem through legal channels. Under normal circumstances, the court handles similar issues relatively quickly, and the judgment is in favor of the man.
Now that we have almost entered the marriage hall, it proves that both men and women have had certain feelings for each other. Money is indeed more important to us, but we should at least have some moral bottom line. Being together and leaving each other is actually the best ending. Don't leave a bad impression on each other just because of a little money.