0 1, violence will make the problem worse. Violence can't solve the problem fundamentally, even if it is solved temporarily, it will make the problem worse. Violence is a hurtful thing. If both sides use violence, they will definitely fight for it, so there is a great chance that the loser will not be convinced. What if you are not convinced? Find a time to hide your strength and then find a chance to continue fighting. If you fight again, you will still win and lose, and then a vicious circle will be formed, and finally people may die.
At school, two boys didn't deal with each other, and then they started fighting. The loser starts shaking when the fight fails, and then starts hitting another person. As a result, the other party didn't expect him to find someone to beat him, so he was beaten. The person who won for the first time was not convinced and found a group of people to fight. Finally, the contradiction between the two groups developed into the contradiction between the two groups, and finally developed into the contradiction between the two groups looking for parents to fight. In the end, they were all dropped out of school, and those with money found another one to go to school or go abroad, while those without money were delayed because of this.
There is a better way to solve the problem. There is a better way to solve any problem except violence. Just like the two boys fighting above, there is actually not much contradiction, just a fight for a while. If handled well at that time, they can still become good friends. However, the two of them did not solve the relationship well and did not calm down their emotions, which led to great disaster. I think the two of them can communicate, apologize if they win, forgive him if they lose and have dinner together. I thought the feelings between boys were simple.
There are many tools to deal with problems now, and laws and systems are tools to solve problems. Now it is a society ruled by law, and everything is regulated by rules and regulations, so it is better to solve problems according to laws and regulations. Who is right and who is wrong, don't use violence just because you are not convinced.
03. Solving problems through violence will be punished. The students in the above examples have been punished, such as dropping out of school and staying in school for observation. The punishment for minors is relatively light, and adults will make more mistakes. When adults get together to fight, they will definitely go in for a while, and if they have life, they will go in for several years.
Once you go to prison, you will never get rid of this black spot on your resume. Even if you turn over a new leaf, there will be illegal records on your resume. Many people will look at you and your family and children in different ways. This is a rather painful thing. Therefore, not fighting may be just a temporary grievance. If fighting leads to serious consequences, it is lifelong.