Then we will have such a question, why the children we raised with our own hands, holding them in our hands to care for the children who grew up, not only do not know how to be grateful, but also draw swords against their parents and relatives. What's more, after killing his parents and relatives, he had no remorse and went out to squander the money he found. After being discovered by the police, even boasting or even swearing, I don't think there is anything wrong with my own practice. So, what makes our children look like this?
First, love and spoil
There may be brothers and sisters in the family after 80, but there are few after 90. As for these children born in the new century, they don't know what brothers and sisters are. Coupled with the advanced medical conditions, basically every family consists of four elderly people plus a pair of parents, and six people spoil a child. This is true in both urban and rural areas. This generation of children have basically developed an uncompromising character at home, and they will give whatever their parents want, even if they don't. Every other generation? Our grandparents will not hesitate to give their children what they want.
Children who grow up in this situation have developed a self-centered character. They usually think that everything at home is mine, all my things, and it's your fault if you don't give it to me. Stimulated by this idea, some children with extreme personalities will even hit people, and hitting people is still good, and some even directly move the knife. There was a sensational murder case before, because his grandparents didn't buy him money for the game skin, so he stabbed them with a knife.
Second, lack of companionship.
This one is completely opposite to the above. Some parents leave their children alone after giving birth, give them to their parents and give them money regularly every month. If the older generation like children is ok, they will take good care of them, but some old people actually don't like children, or just don't like them, so they will be abused or subjected to cold violence. Over time, children's psychology will be distorted, and it is not surprising to kill people under pressure.
Third, single-parent families.
I often remember someone saying that children in single-parent families are abnormal. This is some people's inherent concept of children from single-parent families, which shows how many hardships these children from single-parent families have to go through in their lives. The child who killed his mother in Peking University is also a single-parent family, and so is this 45-year-old lawyer. Perhaps it is an outsider's eye that the single mother is too tired to give her child a good discipline, but she studies strictly, so it will brew such a bad result.
But personally, I still think that the child itself is not without problems. There are millions of people suffering in the world, many children in single-parent families and many orphans. Not every child in a single-parent family will become a murderer. Moreover, school education should also attach importance to psychological problems, not only to students' grades, but also to students' pressure and psychological problems caused by pressure.
The last point is the Internet. There are always some dark elements on the internet. They use words to stimulate these children, so that immature children feel that life is gloomy, and thus embark on the road of crime. But these instigators pretend to be innocent and act like good people. Children's education is not a problem for one or two people, but a problem for the whole society.