It happened in Suzhou, Anhui. The two families are neighbors, and there are opinions and differences just because they take out the garbage. The last party was emotional and deliberately hurt.
First, neighborhood conflicts, communication is the best policy, although it is said so? A distant relative is better than a close neighbor? But sometimes neighbors conflict. The conflicts between us and our neighbors are trivial matters. It is very unwise to quarrel or even fight over these trifles.
This criminal case in Suzhou, Anhui Province was caused by neighbors dumping garbage and encroaching on their homestead. If we had negotiated amicably, I think everything could have gone back to the past. If you don't use it yourself, you can let your neighbors borrow it temporarily. If you need to use it yourself, you can ask your neighbors to clean up the garbage.
Good communication is the way to solve the problem. Unfortunately, this neighbor, who didn't understand this truth, chose to act impulsively and finally paid a heavy price for his impulsive behavior.
Second, emotional management is very important. Men's emotional management has great shortcomings, and it is precisely because of this that neighbors died. In the face of neighbors dumping garbage on their own land, men think of solving problems by force, not communication. It is conceivable that on weekdays, the men in the village give people the impression that they are not very friendly and kind.
Emotional management is a very important course to get along with people. Being able to control your emotions and be the master of them can avoid many contradictions and conflicts. It's a pity that men didn't master this course and ended up in prison.
In daily life, we get along with people, not afraid of contradictions and disputes, but afraid of not handling them well. No matter what happens, you can't solve the problem by force.