But paper can't cover the fire, and you always have to pay it back when you come out. As long as your heart is not at home, you can still show your flaws when you spend too much time outside.
backstage, a reader told me that she was in pain, because it was only through a detail that she found out that her wife was cheating. Although she has recovered it now, she sometimes feels uncomfortable when she thinks about it.
He and his wife are colleagues. After working for two years, they developed into lovers, got married and had children. By the time they itch for seven years, something went wrong.
They used to live a dull and happy life. Suddenly, one day, his wife's WeChat avatar changed. The avatar was originally a happy selfie of herself and her son snuggling together.
But I don't know why I suddenly changed to a cute little girl's head with a literary style, which makes it easy for people to think that the owner behind this head must be a girl with a full heart.
The male reader felt very strange at first, because his wife's head has never changed since he met her. How could it suddenly change?
At first, he didn't think about this either. Later, he found that when he was not busy, his wife would giggle with his mobile phone and set a password for his mobile phone. Sometimes he was absent-minded when chatting with him ...
This series of actions made male readers feel drums and began to guess his wife emotional infidelity?
Later, while his wife was taking a bath, he secretly tried several passwords. When the wedding anniversary happened, he went into his wife's mobile phone and looked at his wife's WeChat. He found that a chat record in his frequent contacts was empty, which was obviously just deleted.
This made him more suspicious and decided to follow his wife quietly the next day. On the 2th day or so, he found that his wife and another man got into the same car affectionately and stayed for a long time. He was furious and basically accepted the speculation that his wife was cheating.
The reader really wants to let his wife see the truth, but the reader is a particularly introverted person. It was not easy to catch up with his wife at that time, so he cherishes his present life, and he doesn't want to lose this home because of breaking up his family.
In order to save his wife, he chose to pretend that he didn't know, because he felt that he must have done something wrong, so he would let his wife seek warmth from others. He doesn't know to what extent the relationship between his wife and others has developed, and perhaps it is not dangerous enough to be redeemed.
So, he reduced overtime, arranged family outings, and was attentive to his wife. Later, he found that slowly, his wife stopped seeing the man and returned to the family.
He kept it to himself, and nobody mentioned it, as if it had never happened.
In fact, both men and women are eager for a happy family. Although there will be temptations outside, it is still necessary to remember that it is bumpy and a family of three is the most lasting happiness.
Your heart has been interrupted, and your behavior has begun to follow the wrong path. There is no windtight wall in the world. You think that no one cares but you don't want to be discovered by your careful husband.
The wife is lucky. Her husband can tolerate him, forgive him, and is willing to re-establish close family relations with her. Many men in the resume are not allowed to have this kind of situation. Once they find out that they must divorce, the happy days will be ruined.
So, married people, don't go into the river easily. You can't walk by the river without wet shoes. Cherish the present life.