What's it like for boys to chat with girls they don't like?

When a boy talks to a girl he doesn't like, he just likes to ignore her. No matter what you send him, he won't reply to you at the first time, and he will always come back to you after a while. And I won't take the initiative to find a topic to continue chatting. He will answer whatever you ask.

Often at this time, you always need to keep looking for a topic to continue. You always feel cold and seldom look. As rigid as a teacher asking questions in class. Besides, he won't take the initiative to contact you, and he will reply to you only when you look for him.

Once or twice, maybe it's because you are busy with something. Always like this. In fact, there is no other reason, but I don't like it. Even if you are introverted and taciturn, the person you like will be happy when you talk to yourself on your own initiative. Maybe the sloth is slow? So he has no feelings for you, not your type. When your subconscious tells you that he has no feelings for you, your subconscious is probably right.

The speed of reply is equal to the degree of concern, and the frequency of looking for you is equal to the degree of liking. Looking for you doesn't necessarily like you, and not looking for you doesn't necessarily like you. If you don't like it, you won't continue. Well, not after that. For example, if you say something, he is not interested, but you can tell whether he likes it or not by whether he writes it down.

Because people are really more than 100% patient and gentle about what they like, they can really feel whether they like you or not from chatting. So when a boy who doesn't like you chats with you, it's easy for you to feel that this boy is chatting with you, but this person is quite self-centered.

Chatting is a process in which two people get to know each other, not only their recent lives, but also their past experiences, so as to enrich the image of this person in their own hearts.

Don't think that only girls are interested in knowing this. Boys who come to consult me often say that they want girls to talk about their past. They also want to get to know the girl better so that they can enter her heart in the future. But you often don't feel that this boy doesn't even want to know what you've been doing recently, and he has the patience to see what you've experienced in the past. ?

In fact, this question is very easy to verify. The next time you chat, you can share some of your life with him, and you can observe his reaction whether he likes you or not. Boys who like you often have a desire to explore when you share your life and want to listen to you. But boys who don't like you often give back when you share your life. It's all "ha ha ha", "good" and "good"

Believe it or not, they rolled their eyes on the screen. Why can't you stop saying you don't like it? Let me tell you the truth: they rarely stop talking to you directly, and they prefer to hang on to you. Because talking is better than nothing, it is better to have pursuers than nothing. Even if something really happens to the spare tire, they are also profitable.

So out of this psychology, they are unlikely to really refuse a girl to chat with them, even if they are not interested in this girl at all. But this feeling, you can feel: they just regard you as an emotional trash can; They can come and leave whenever they want, regardless of your feelings.

They don't explore your desires at all, and all they get when you share your life is simple perfunctory. Like a person can't hide, even if you cover your mouth, you will run out of your eyes; You can't hide if you don't like someone. Even if you pretend to be enthusiastic about chatting with this person, your perfunctory attitude will be revealed from your tone.