16 What happened when the biological father refused to intercede for the adoptive father?

/kloc-Xiaohui, a 0/9-year-old "black household", never thought that he was not his own, but was abducted by his father. When the police told him, Xiaohui still didn't believe it until Zhang Ming, the "father" in the detention center, said "I'm sorry" to him.

According to the official WeChat of Guangzhou Public Security Bureau, WeChat official account, "Ping An Guangzhou", 200 1 10 On May 9, 3-year-old Xiaohui was playing in front of his grocery store in Xinjie West Road, Xinhua Town, Huadu District, Guangzhou, and was abducted by nearby tenant Zhang Ming, who changed his name and surname and raised him as his own son until 1 6, when Zhang Ming was arrested by the police.

"I don't hate him. After all, I raised me." Xiaohui, who returned to his biological parents, said that he had pleaded with his biological father Zhou Jun, hoping that he could forgive his adoptive father and write a letter of understanding, but Zhou Jun refused.

Hearing Xiaohui's pleading, Zhou Jun felt a dull pain in his heart. He hates Zhang Ming. Considering Xiaohui's situation, he doesn't mention civil litigation compensation at most and will never write a letter of understanding.

Zhou Jun is worried that if Zhang Ming is released from prison soon, Xiaohui may return to Zhang Ming. "My son came back for nothing."

Zhou Jun's wife, Wang Li, said that Zhou Hui had been back for a month, and they were very concerned about Xiaohui, but Xiaohui was indifferent and could not feel the warmth of his family. "Ask and answer, sometimes even a few questions will not be answered."

Facing this recovered silent son, Zhou Jun didn't know how to get along with him and what kind of tone to communicate with. He wants to take Xiaohui to see a psychiatrist, but he is afraid of Zhou Hui's psychological conflict. Zhou Jun wanted to keep Xiaohui around to cultivate his feelings, but Zhang Ming's relatives came to see him again and again. He is afraid that his son can't break with the past and wants his son to leave and "hide".

Zhou Jun and his wife were supposed to be happy that 16 found their abducted son, but they were very upset: 16' s family estrangement, and they didn't know when it would melt.

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On the evening of April 27th 10: 30, 40-year-old Zhou Jun received a phone call from Huadu police in Guangzhou at home, saying that his son had found it.

The news expected in 16, Zhou Jun and his wife began to disbelieve. He wondered why the police didn't leave work so late. His wife Wang Li was sleeping at that time. After being awakened by Zhou Jun, she kept asking: Is it true?

"I called you a few minutes after the DNA results came out." In the public security bureau, Zhou Jun and his wife met Xiaohui. Wang Li remembers that the child has a hot scar on the right side of his navel. When she saw Xiaohui's body, she believed that her son had come back. The couple hugged Xiaohui tightly and broke down in tears.

Like Zhou Jun and his wife, Xiaohui didn't believe it at first.

In the afternoon, Xiaohui came to Huadu District Public Security Bureau as scheduled. Before coming, the police only told Xiaohui that his father, Zhang Ming, had been arrested for committing a crime and asked him to come from Zhongshan, Guangdong, more than 0/00 kilometers away from/kloc.

In the comparison of DNA results, Xiaohui didn't believe the truth in the police's mouth-he was abducted by his "father" until he met Zhang Ming in the detention center, and Zhang Ming told him "I'm sorry" and asked him to return to his biological parents.

Xiaohui from childhood.

That night, Zhou Jun and his wife went home with Xiaohui. Wang Li wrote in a circle of friends, "I finally came back. I am very excited to lose it." The picture is of a little girl curled up like a fetus. 17 days ago, Wang Li used this photo in a circle of friends. The caption says, "A pair of parents divorced, a child without a mother drew a mother on the concrete floor ..."

The couple and Xiaohui talked until after 2 am. They are eager to know 16 how the children lived in the past. Xiaohui's answer is only a few words.

Due to Xiaohui's introversion and silence, Zhou Jun only knows his son's general growth history: a few years ago, Zhang Ming worked around Guangdong, followed Xiaohui, went to different schools, attended kindergarten for 1-2 years, and spent the first and second grades; In the third and fourth grades, Zhang Ming returned to Hunan and rented a house in the town. Xiaohui became a left-behind child, cooking at school, and Zhang Ming went out to work. After entering junior high school, Xiaohui was taken care of by her aunt, but she dropped out of school in the second day of school. Since then, she has worked with Zhang Ming in various places. At the end of 20 16, Xiaohui came to Zhongshan, Guangdong, worked in a car wash shop and went to 800 yuan every month.

He is about 170cm tall, thin, his hands are full of calluses, and his fingernails and toenails are all gray ... Xiaohui's appearance makes Zhou Jun and his wife heartache.

Xiaohui revealed to the newspaper that Zhang Ming didn't abuse him, and he never doubted his life. He also asked Xiaohui a similar question. Xiaohui's answer is "I did, but it was a proper education".

Xiaohui is a black household and has no ID card. His mobile phone card is run by someone else. Xiaohui said that he also asked Zhang Ming, and Zhang Ming said that "there is a case in Guangzhou".

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Where Xiaohui was kidnapped.

Xinjie West Road, Xinhua Town, Huadu is full of factories and dilapidated streets. At that time, Xiaohui was abducted here by Zhang Ming and never heard from again.

Zhou Jun of Daye, Hubei Province, dropped out of school in the second grade and went out to work. Later, he met Wang Li, a girl from the same town, and married her. 16 years ago, Zhou Jun made molds in a factory near Xinjie West Road, and Wang Li took care of the children. She opened a four-square-meter shop in the street, selling cigarettes, wine, snacks and other commodities.

Zhang Ming, who rented a house nearby, frequented this grocery store and gradually got to know Zhou Jun and his wife. Zhou Jun said that Zhang Ming is from Hunan, with a height of 165cm. He is extroverted, loves drinking and playing chess. Everyone gets along with fellow villagers and often chats together.

In Zhou Jun's memory, Xiaohui was a little naughty at that time and sometimes went to Zhang Ming's rented room to play.

On the morning of 20011kloc-0/6, Xiaohui played in front of the grocery store as usual. In the evening, Zhou Jun found Xiaohui missing. He searched many ways to learn that his son had been abducted, most likely by Zhang Ming. Zhou Jun called the police.

Zhou Jun said that the police looked at Zhang Ming's rental house and found that people had gone to the building, but they saw an address written by Zhang Ming in old newspapers, located in Baixi Town, Xinhua, Hunan; Looking for Zhang Ming's girlfriend, I found that she was gone, and I didn't take her salary and luggage.

A week later, Zhou Jun and the police went to Xinhua, Hunan, and found Zhang Ming's hometown. According to local villagers, Zhang Ming, born in 1968, has never been married and hasn't been home for many years. He thought he was dead outside.

Zhou Jun said that there were only a few mud houses in Zhang Ming's hometown. His parents died long ago, and so did a brother. A sister married to a neighboring village, and the clue was broken.

The child was lost, and the marriage of Zhou Jun and Wang Li was in crisis. Zhou Jun said that he complained that his wife didn't take good care of the children, and his wife complained that he was not vigilant. Xiaohui didn't care when he went to play with Zhang Ming. In mutual complaints, they quarreled, fought and prepared to get married.

Fortunately, in the "cold war", Wang Li was pregnant. Under the persuasion of parents and family, Wang Li returned to Zhou Jun. The couple chose to settle in Huadu and continue to look for Xiaohui.

They didn't cancel Xiaohui's account, but posted the missing information to Bao Bei Jiayuan. com, recorded the DNA in the police and reported the case in Zhang Ming's hometown.

Zhou Jun said that he had been to Hunan for at least dozens of times and chose to go during the Chinese New Year holiday to see if Zhang Ming had gone back to apply for a second-generation ID card, but he was disappointed every time. People often claim to know Xiaohui's whereabouts, and Zhou Jun gave him money to lead the way, but in the end it was all false clues.

"In order to find a son, it took at least two or three hundred thousand." Zhou Jun said that he had met many swindlers.

Hope is fading, and the number of times Zhou Jun goes to Hunan to find someone is also decreasing, but he firmly believes that Xiaohui is expected to find him as long as Zhang Ming is caught.

According to "Ping An Guangzhou" report, due to the limited investigation conditions in that year, the case failed to make progress for a while, but the police never gave up the investigation of the suspect. On March 20 17, the abduction office of Guangzhou Public Security Bureau sorted out the cases accumulated in previous years and set Xiaohui's abduction case as the target case this year.

According to the above report, on April 19, the police went to Zhang Ming's household registration to carry out the pursuit. After six days of investigation, they gradually grasped the clues that Zhang Ming might appear in his hometown in the near future. With the assistance of the local police, at 20 o'clock on the evening of April 25, the police arrested Zhang Ming who absconded 16 in Baixi Town, Xinhua County.

Zhou Jun said that the police revealed afterwards that Zhang Ming had been living in Hunan for several years.

Ethical dilemma

He still can't understand why Zhang Ming abducted his children. He said that everyone was working and there was no resentment.

Zhou Jun thought that Zhang Ming abducted Xiaohui or made him beg. It never occurred to him that he would raise Xiaohui as his own son.

According to the report of "Ping An Guangzhou", after being brought to justice, Zhang Ming lied that Xiaohui had been abducted and sold to a passer-by in Lishui, Foshan with 1200 yuan. After the lie was discovered by the police, Zhang Ming finally confessed. He renamed Xiaohui and raised him as his own son.

In Xiaohui's new name, Zhang Ming kept the word "Hui".

Zhou Jun revealed that after Zhang Ming was brought to justice, he said that he went to the grocery store to buy things, and the boss didn't find the change, so he kidnapped Xiaohui for revenge. He didn't believe this answer and thought it was Zhang Ming's "excuse". "He packed everything, which was premeditated."

After a month of getting along, Zhou Jun and his wife found Xiaohui indifferent to them and still had close ties with relatives in Hunan.

Wang Li said that they are very concerned about Xiaohui, but Xiaohui's reaction is very cold and she can't feel the warmth of her family. "Ask one question and answer another, sometimes he won't answer several questions in a row."

When talking to reporters in the paper, Xiaohui's answer is very simple, mostly "yes" and "yes". Xiaohui said he didn't hate his adoptive father. "After all, he raised me." He will also visit his adoptive father in the future.

Hearing Xiaohui's answer, Zhou Jun felt a dull pain in his heart. Zhou Jun said that when this happened, he and Zhang Ming were "sworn enemies" and he hated Zhang Ming. "I have the idea of stabbing him and it is impossible to forgive him."

Zhou Jun has been very upset recently. On the one hand, he is worried about Xiaohui's future, on the other hand, he is worried about losing his son again.

Wang Li is nursing Xiaohui's body, and Zhou Jun is trying to cure Xiaohui's onychomycosis. Zhou Jun wants Xiaohui to go to a vocational school. After a long period of persuasion, Xiaohui is willing to go back to school to learn a skill. But he has no student status and is not a fresh student. If there is no "green channel", he can't enter school at all.

Zhou Jun and his wife earn about 7,000 yuan a month, and they have two children at school, so they are under great economic pressure. Zhou Jun said that now Xiaohui has found it, and the family is crowded in a small three-bedroom house with more than 70 people, making life inconvenient. He wants to change rooms, but there is nothing he can do in the face of the average house price of more than 20 thousand yuan around.

On May 22nd, Xiaohui was ready to go downstairs. When Wang Li asked him what it was, he said, "My stepmother is here.". This is the first time that Zhou Jun and his wife know that Xiaohui has a stepmother.

Zhou Jun said that Zhang Ming's relatives came to Xiaohui again and again and wanted them to write a letter of understanding, but he refused. Xiaohui also confirmed to this newspaper that he had courted Zhou Jun for his adoptive father and asked if he could drop the lawsuit.

In this regard, Zhou Jun said that considering Xiaohui's situation, he will not file a civil lawsuit for compensation at most, and he will never write a letter of understanding. Zhou Jun said that he had consulted a lawyer. In Zhang Ming's case, he may be sentenced to four or five years. If the sentence is reduced again, he is worried that Xiaohui may return to Zhang Ming again.

Relatives in their hometown in Hubei learned that Xiaohui had been found and repeatedly urged Zhou Jun to take Xiaohui back quickly. Xiaohui said that she would go back to Hunan for the New Year.

Zhou Jun wanted to keep Xiaohui around to cultivate his feelings, but Zhang Ming's relatives came to see him again and again. He is afraid that his son can't break with the past and wants his son to leave and "hide".

Xiaohui's circle of friends.

He doesn't know how to get along with Xiaohui and what kind of tone to communicate with. Xiaohui likes playing mobile games. One night, he played until twelve o'clock. Zhou Jun forcibly confiscated his mobile phone. He doesn't know whether this kind of treatment is appropriate.

Zhou Jun wants to take Xiaohui to see a psychologist, but he is afraid that Xiaohui will resist.

For many years, Zhou Jun has been blaming himself for losing Xiaohui, thinking that he is too young and too careless. He said, "If it hadn't happened, Xiaohui would have gone to college, and college has changed several people's lives." .

16 years later, Zhou Jun always thought that he had been discriminated against: walking on the road, everyone said behind his back that his child had been abducted.