In my opinion, the reason why the dormitory of husband and wife in school affects students' study is far-fetched.
1. Why do some people think that couples' dormitory will affect their study?
Some people think that couples' dormitory will deteriorate campus life into family life, thus affecting study.
First of all, we don't deny that schools should really focus on learning, and students should focus on learning. But this is far from the reason why the couple's room affects their study.
The school clearly pointed out that the dormitory for husband and wife is provided for married men and women, and both husband and wife should be students of Nankai School. We can infer that students who have tried hard to get into Nankai have reached the legal age of marriage. Under such conditions, it is estimated that most couples are graduate students and doctoral students, or at least must be adults with independent behavior. As an adult, you should know how to balance study and family life.
Suppose again, if we infer from the viewpoint that family life will affect learning, are those who are married and have careers in society too busy to study? On the contrary, observing the more successful people around us, they are constantly trying to polish themselves and let them accept new knowledge and learn useful skills.
So it is far-fetched to say that family life will affect study.
Second, if the school does not provide couples' rooms, it will not affect students' study.
1, in fact, all the students who have experienced the university know that the conditions of university dormitories are mostly that many people live in one room, each with his own habits and preferences, and sometimes it is inevitable to stumble. The survey shows that more than 40% of college students have had conflicts with their roommates. If there are contradictions, some people will be unhappy. So, will this environment affect learning?
Furthermore, it is common for college students to rent a house outside because of their personal habits or study needs. There are also many couples renting together, not to mention married couples. Therefore, even if couples' rooms are not provided, many people have already rented rooms, which is not much different from the family life brought by providing couples' rooms in schools. In other words, no matter whether the school provides couples' rooms or not, people's social reactions will not be much different.
3. If the husband and wife live in different places, the travel cost brought by living in different places is also a waste of study time.
If a student just doesn't want to study hard, he may be depressed by playing with things, may sleep late all day, may skip classes and fail. Anyway, it won't just be because he talked about someone or family life. On the contrary, we see many couples in school, who are paired every day, studying together and making progress together. The day before yesterday, we also saw a news that top student couples were directly blogged in Tsinghua. I think that without goals and plans, it will affect a person's progress more.
To sum up, the school does not provide couples' rooms, and students may not study well. There is no necessary connection between the two. Once again, it proves that "the school provides couples' dormitory to affect learning" is far-fetched On the contrary, a good dormitory environment for husband and wife provides students with living security, which is to provide convenience for students and let them finish their studies better.
Third, online mass response.
As soon as the news came out, some netizens said, "single dog was severely beaten ten thousand times" and "jealousy made me unrecognizable". Look, the crowd is the loudest. They yearn for such dormitory conditions and can be with their loved ones. Demand leads to creation, and creation leads to progress. The progress of mankind and even the development of human society are based on this basic principle, and the powerful impetus brought by development will not stop because of a little influence.
Students have needs, and schools solve their needs. This is based on the consideration of human nature to some extent. The innovative policy made by the school after understanding the real needs of the majority of students is an act that does not ignore the fundamental interests and real needs of students. Husband and wife dormitory is obviously a measure representing progress, and it is a very humanized good rule.
Looking at universities at home and abroad, in fact, as early as 2003, Tongji University launched a postgraduate husband and wife room, and it is also common for foreign schools to provide husband and wife rooms and even suites with children. Therefore, the introduction of husband and wife housing in schools affects learning, perhaps because they have not experienced the promotion brought by husband and wife housing.
The times are calling for universities, as the power of future social development, to dare to keep pace with the times and break old ideas. It is true that every new thing is always questioned, run-in and even repeated, but its development must be the ultimate direction. School resources support, students have needs, why not give it a try?
You live in Nankai South and I live in Nankai North. I accompany you every day, and my studies are successful!