Xiao Ran is getting married recently. Her relationship with her boyfriend has always been good. However, because the bride price and dowry figures have not been settled, the two sides are facing the situation of breaking up.
Xiao Ran is a girl who grew up in the countryside, but she is very independent. She has been studying hard, and she knows that if she wants to change her fate from rural to urban, she can only study hard.
When Xiao Ran was in high school, he was admitted to the best local school. Tuition and miscellaneous fees are free, and the university has been admitted to a key undergraduate course. Her parents have no money and support her to study. She is alone, with a few hundred dollars, going to college in the north, applying for a student loan at school, and earning living expenses part-time.
Xiao Ran also got a lot of work-related certificates in university, hoping to find a job in the future.
Sure enough, after graduating from college, she successfully stayed in this city.
At work, Xiao Ran met Xiao Feng, an excellent male colleague. Xiaofeng is from this city. There are primary schools, junior high schools, high schools and universities, and basically all work in this city.
Xiao Ran's down-to-earth efforts and progress, she has the excellent qualities of hard work and safety unique to rural people, which deeply touched Xiao Feng.
In this way, two people go together.
Although Xiaofeng is a city dweller, he is tall, handsome and capable. In the face of such an excellent person, Xiao Ran is not arrogant. She feels that although she comes from the countryside, her progress and efforts are earned by herself and she deserves it. Such a good man deserves good love, and even more so, Xiaofeng.
02.
My mother-in-law knew her son at first, and she didn't want to talk about a rural girl. It is not easy to choose a girl from a big city, but she chose a girl from the countryside.
But my son likes it, and my mother-in-law can't stop her son's preference. She wants to be a great lover, but she is still rejected by her son.
Xiaofeng is determined to marry Xiao Ran, but her mother-in-law can't stop her.
Xiao Ran's parents, both wussy farmers, all know that their daughter's life is done by herself now, so there is basically no big requirement for her to get married, just hoping that the man will be good to her daughter.
Xiao Ran's parents also don't want to mention the bride price, which makes the man feel that he is selling his daughter. When his daughter gets married, he is afraid that her daughter will be looked down upon by her mother-in-law and she will be unhappy at her mother-in-law's house.
Xiaofeng asked Xiao Ran's parents how much bride price they needed. Xiao Ran's parents said: Daughter's bride price is 20,000 to 40,000, as long as Xiaofeng is really good to our daughter after marriage.
03.
Xiaofeng was particularly moved by the attitude of her parents-in-law. He knows that some rural bride price is very high, often two or three hundred thousand.
The prospective parents-in-law didn't embarrass him either. They just wanted to be sincere to their daughter after marriage.
Xiaofeng told her mother the attitude of her parents-in-law.
When my mother-in-law heard the bride price of 20 thousand to 40 thousand, she said that the bride price was really acceptable. When you go home and bring Xiao Ran, I have something to say to her.
Xiaofeng thought it was her mother's consent, so they got married and happily called Xiao Ran to his house for dinner.
After dinner, the mother-in-law asked her son to go out and buy some fruit, so that she could talk with Xiao Ran alone.
After her son left, her mother-in-law came straight to the point and said, "I don't agree with you two getting married, but Xiaofeng likes you very much, so I have to agree." I only have one request now, because you are from the countryside. What does your family say about dowry? "
Xiao Ran said, "My parents are farmers, and I don't have much money. As for me, I have some work savings, not much, so if I marry him, it may not be too much, just tens of thousands. "
Mother-in-law said: "After all, you are from the countryside, and the house belongs to our husband's family. I can agree to your marriage, but the dowry of the woman must be increased to 200 thousand. Your dowry will be increased to 200,000 to be worthy of my son. "
04.
Xiaoran refused. She didn't look down on her rural status, but felt that rural people had a sense of certainty and sureness that city people didn't have.
When the two were deadlocked, Xiaofeng just came back. However, he also conveniently handed two red notebooks to his mother.
Originally, phoeny was afraid of her mother's opposition and Xiao Ran's retreat. He persuaded Xiao Ran that the two men secretly got a marriage certificate a few days ago.
My mother-in-law couldn't say anything when she saw the marriage certificate. After all, they are married. What else can we do?
Asking the woman to marry him 200 thousand is just her mother-in-law's wishful thinking.
Emotional information:
I've only heard of people asking for an increase in bride price, but it's the first time that a mother-in-law has asked for an increase in dowry.
Mother-in-law thinks that her son is a city dweller, especially outstanding, and his daughter-in-law in the countryside is not worthy of him.
However, she forgot how different rural people are from urban people now. Girls in rural areas have also received college education and have decent jobs in cities. Whether in urban or rural areas, it is only geographical differences.
Because of different regions, it's just nonsense for her mother-in-law to ask for more bride price at home, because Xiao Ran won't agree at all. She is the kind of rural girl who has her own ideas and is particularly opinionated.
She won't give in to her future mother-in-law's ideas, let alone accept her unreasonable demands.
Of course, Xiaofeng loves her very much. I believe that she will handle the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law with high emotional intelligence and wisdom after marriage.