Step 2 collect information
What information needs to be collected for family information collection:
1, main family members
2. Understand information: gender, age, occupation, education level, marital status, family medical history, education investment, etc.
3. Family life history: family problems, major family life events, etc.
4. History of children's growth: Follow life since childhood (who raised them before the age of 3), and have you ever left your parents? ...
Collecting information: the way to ask questions
Use open-ended questions; Use less closed questions.
Open question
1, "What do you think of children playing games?"
2. "What makes you so miserable?"
3. "How did children live when they were young?"
4. "What does the child have to do with you?"
Benefits: 1, collecting information
2. Establish a good consulting relationship.
3, help self-exploration.
Note: Don't ask too many questions. Try to use open-ended questions and let visitors tell their stories.
Closed question:
1. Do you think this child did the right thing?
2. Do you feel so miserable because you are eager for your children to change the fate of your family?
3. When children were young, did they grow up with you or grandparents?
4. Do you have a good relationship with your children?
Disadvantages: it causes the transfer of responsibility and hinders the other party's self-exploration.
Collecting information: the way to ask questions
practise
1, I want to know, is the child's personality introverted or extroverted?
2. If we treat our children according to the current education method, will it have worse results for their future?
In your opinion, is it more important to make money for children or to provide them with a good family education?
4. Is this situation what you want?
Do you think this kind of coordination is more helpful to your children?
6. The child's condition is already a little bad. If we don't change it, it may get worse and worse, don't you think?
7. Is our child a boy or a girl? Are you a sophomore? Liberal arts or science?