One day last spring, I taught parents in a school for children of migrant workers. After class, a plain-dressed, haggard-looking parent took my hand and quickly said, "Teacher Duan, I am a migrant worker here and have no education. My daughter is in the sixth grade now. Recently, I found out that she is idolizing. I was worried that she would affect her study, but she wouldn't listen. I don't know what to do. It's very kind of you to talk, but after a while you left, and then we had no one to guide us ... what information do you have that we will understand as soon as we learn? Save some for us. "
I promised my parents and friends without hesitation and added WeChat to each other. I said I would go home and help her find it and send it to her as soon as I found it.
But I was puzzled when I looked for it. It is not easy to find materials that parents will understand as soon as they learn. Some classic family education courses or masterpieces are good, but for many parents with low educational level, it is difficult to learn or read, and it is also difficult to persist. And some simple contents are mostly theoretical. Parents are excited and moved, but in fact they are motionless-they are actually unable to operate in real parent-child communication.
I searched for two or three days in a row, but I couldn't find the right one.
"Teacher Duan, have you found your information?" Looking at the WeChat she sent me, although I didn't want to live up to her trust and entrustment, I decided to tell her the actual situation: I didn't find a suitable one, or I sent her some existing information.
Coincidentally, I was just about to reply to my parents' WeChat. Ding Dong, a partner named Lin Aiyan sent a daily writing message in the study group. I clicked it. This is the content of children's early parenting education. It's not long, but it's lively and interesting. I was deeply impressed after reading it. It's really great. At that time, an idea flashed through my mind: "Either, I will write something suitable for the needs of such parents myself."
-an all-encompassing love (1)
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? Just like you said, write "Love a child, love her as she is" (educational theory) and "idol" (communication strategy) ... These stories tailored for her and recorded as audio were born.
"Teacher Duan, I didn't expect to communicate with my children in this way. We didn't understand this before. Do you still have such information? I want to give it to my little sisters. " ..... I am also greatly encouraged.
With great enthusiasm, I listed the first writing banner in my life-writing 100 sets of 60-second parent-child communication stories based on educational theory and communication strategies for such parents, and recording them as audio, which can be listened to at any time, so as to facilitate their study and help them grow better.
The first 100 episode is updated every day, just like Teacher Peter. I basically get up at 5: 30 every morning, with a little drowsiness, but with the constant search for information and sorting out information, people gradually wake up. Some of the 60-second stories are based on real cases I consulted, some are collected from classic online stories, and some are collected from classic cases in books. I have written the first draft, and I will discuss and revise it with my study partner, Mr. Wolf, who is my mentor in a study training camp, carefully polish it, and finally form an audio draft of more than 200 words, and then record the audio and upload it to the Himalayas. This process will take me about two hours.
Of course, this is relatively smooth, and sometimes you will encounter dystocia. Although it is only one minute of audio, only about 250 words, but because it is tailor-made, we must consider whether the story is practical, concise, interesting and informative. This is really not easy, especially it takes time to think about it.
I can write anywhere except at home, in taxis, on high-speed trains, on airplanes, in bookstores and cafes ... For me, the key is to write valuable content. As for where to write, it doesn't matter at all.
Sometimes I write after eleven o'clock, as if a day has passed, and I feel anxious before I can write the updated content, but I never want to give up. I know very well that it will be valuable to insist on writing.
So, my heart is full of energy, and occasionally I finally write it at one or two in the morning, and then forward it to my parents in need before I can sleep peacefully. Teacher Wolf will write a sequel after each article to echo me, sometimes sublimate and sometimes complement each other. Every time she sings, it makes me more powerful on the road of persistence.
? In the spring season in Xu Lai, I chose pen farming because I didn't want to live up to it. I quietly ushered in a love that consumed everything.
-an all-encompassing love (2)
One year later, our 60-second audio story of parent-child communication was updated to 15 1 episode, with 56,000 listeners in Himalaya. This year, we are honored to be on the national learning platform.
During this year, because of the 60-second audio, many parents around me and all over the country linked to me through audio, which gave me more opportunities to use my Weibo power to serve these parents and children.
With the help of 60-second audio, communication between the parent and daughter is no longer a problem. Affected by the epidemic this year, their family returned to their hometown.
? When she left, she said goodbye to me: "Teacher Duan, I am very lucky to meet you in my most difficult time ... that time is my forever good memory, and I am still listening to your audio lecture. I am really lucky to have you with me every day. "
The luckiest person here is actually myself. This year's time is like a flower, and I know why I want to write: to help more parents, children and myself grow up and feel more love and truth. How happy I am to be able to write for this.
Teacher Piantong said, "It takes a long time to make progress." Based on the story of 60 seconds audio, I look forward to more high-quality works. Teacher Wolf and I have also compiled and created a parent-child communication story book that parents can understand at a glance and use as soon as they listen, based on educational theory and communication strategies. I hope it will help parents and family educators in need.
Spring breeze Xu Lai, a complete love. Let's follow the inner guidance and continue to write and practice. Let the flowers of life bloom more brilliantly.