The contradiction between independence and dependence
Independent consciousness refers to a tendency of self-consciousness that individuals want to get rid of supervision and discipline. As mentally sound adults, physically disabled people also want to enter the society as "adults", demanding equal rights with adults and social recognition of their social qualifications. They like to observe, identify and judge things independently, and think and act independently. They are eager to arrange their own study and life independently, actively organize and participate in various social activities (including sports), and like their peers to get together to discuss problems, exchange ideas, update their understanding and explore the mysteries of life; I like to solve problems by myself, and I don't like others to criticize, interfere and control my words and deeds too much. However, due to some reasons, such as learning and employment problems caused by mobility difficulties, and the resulting economic independence, they need to rely on the help of others to solve some practical problems that they can't do, but they don't want people to see their dependence. This reflects the contradiction between independence and dependence. The independent consciousness of congenital or early childhood disabled people is closely related to the attitude of caregivers. If people have the heart of dependence, even simple things will feel like a burden, and they will never get success, struggle and fun. In fact, as long as conditions permit, physically disabled people can engage in any work and activities they want. Jonas Jacobson, the legendary shooter who won four gold medals at the Athens Paralympic Games, is a member of the Swedish Shooting Association. He usually trains with healthy athletes and always plays better than others. Therefore, some people say, "Maybe, if people with disabilities are put into other types, there will be real problems. They are really not much different from us healthy people. They don't really want others to care too much, they can take care of themselves. "