Bin Wang
As a psychological counseling teacher, 17 hurried by, and I looked back with emotion. To be an excellent psychological teacher, I want to constantly improve myself and pay attention to the all-round development of my own quality. First of all, I want to be a mentally healthy person with a healthy personality. Secondly, let your psychological professional ability improve constantly, and you can better understand and listen to students. At the same time, the consulting room should be turned into a harbor for children's hearts.
First, be a teacher with healthy personality and mental health.
Without teachers with mental health, there will be no students with mental health. Therefore, as a psychological teacher, we should first be good at adjusting our mentality and be a mentally healthy teacher. Teachers' work, like other jobs, requires courage and self-confidence. A teacher with healthy personality loves life and education, is willing to help others realize their ideals, and pours enthusiasm and hope into every student.
Second, we should have enough professional knowledge.
Professional theoretical knowledge will guide us how to carry out mental health education in the future, let us know how to have the vision of psychological consultation in education, know how to better communicate with students and teach students in accordance with their aptitude; As an excellent psychological teacher, you should have enough professional knowledge.
Third, it can provide psychological counseling and psychotherapy for students.
As a middle school psychological counseling teacher, we are faced with some middle school students whose thoughts change at any time. Because they will be influenced by different environments and different ideas, their psychology may be hindered at any time. Therefore, in the process of specialization of mental health education teachers, teachers are required to have higher professional ability of psychological counseling and simple psychotherapy, so as to provide more professional and effective psychological counseling for all students and make their mental health develop.
Fourth, pay attention to the change of educational concept.
In today's quality education, we advocate the establishment of a harmonious, equal, democratic and respectful relationship between teachers and students. Only in this way can we close the psychological distance with students. Only when the psychological distance is close, the spatial distance can be narrowed. Therefore, as a psychological teacher, we should close the psychological distance with students and never give students a feeling of being above and inviolable. Let students truly trust themselves, first of all, we must learn to "squat down and look at students."
The saying of "squatting down to see the students" comes from a short story: a young mother took her children to the store, and the dazzling array of goods in the store made the mother excited and reluctant to leave. Although she didn't buy anything, she kept walking and watching with her children. The child finally quit and clamored to go home. Mother said, "You asked for it yourself. Why did you leave at this time? " As he spoke, he found that the child's shoes were untied, so he squatted down to tie the child's shoes. She was about to stand up when she suddenly understood why the child had to go home. It turns out that from the height of the child, you can't see a dazzling array of goods, only the legs wearing various pants and skirts.
Therefore, as an excellent psychological teacher, if you want to understand children, you must look at things around you from the height of children.
Be caring and patient, and learn to listen and understand.
Students who love students and have psychological problems should have love and patience. Listen carefully to the students' voices and understand at the same time. Communicate with them emotionally, use your brains to find emotional clues in ordinary events and realize emotional education. Really go into the students' hearts and let them feel the teacher's understanding and attention to him, so that they will trust you. For those who need special counseling, please go to the consulting room, walk into their hearts bit by bit, and listen to their inner confidences!