After leaving my job, I immediately blacked out my former colleagues and ignored them.
My cousin Xiao Zhang works in a public institution, mainly engaged in drafting materials. Xiao Zhang is honest and often bullied by his colleagues. Some malicious colleagues left the work to Xiao Zhang and passed on the mistakes in their work to Xiao Zhang. After working in the unit for more than ten years, Xiao Zhang has never been promoted, but his work tasks are increasing.
Last winter, Xiao Zhang resigned and went to work in a big company in Dongguan. After Xiao Zhang left, he blacked out all his colleagues.
After leaving, I still like to leave messages with my former colleagues in my circle of friends.
Some people, after leaving their jobs, did not blacken all their former colleagues or delete their contact information because of their face. But the contact with each other gradually decreased, no longer talking on the phone, no longer meeting for dinner.
Now everyone is used to using WeChat and likes to send a life story in a circle of friends. If you see someone who sent a message in winter, it is also a way to contact you by clicking a compliment or writing a simple message. In other words, you and your former colleagues just "like your friends". In real life, there is no intersection.
Be a man, don't go to extremes, but leave yourself a way out. Praise each other in the circle of friends with former colleagues, indicating that there is still some contact with him, and occasionally care about it. In case something happens, ask the other person, and you can also get things done with the help of "colleague feelings." How will you get along in the future? Who can tell whether you want to be alone or not? There is nothing wrong with learning to go backwards for yourself.
Wei Wu left Dongguan and returned to his hometown to open an electronic processing factory. Wei Wu and some old colleagues, not only often contact, but also become partners. Wei Wu obtained raw materials from the factory where he used to work, processed them in his hometown factory and sent them back to China. He mainly earns processing fees.
Some old colleagues who have a good relationship with Wei Wu are willing to help Wei Wu. On the other hand, Wei Wu will give some commissions to his old colleagues every month to further establish a solid "cooperative relationship".
If you are engaged in work related to your former unit after leaving your job, you should take the initiative to contact some old colleagues, because they are your contacts. Some old colleagues are not your friends or relatives, but they are willing to help you out of money.
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After leaving my job, I don't even want to say anything when I see my former colleagues again.
Last weekend, when I was shopping, I met my old colleague Xiao Zhao. Xiao Zhao greeted me from a distance: "How have you been recently?" I said, "Not bad." I don't know what to say after that. I think we are strangers, so it's better not to say hello.
Do you feel that you don't want to talk when you meet your former colleagues, or do you see your former colleagues in the distance and deliberately detour to avoid meeting? Former colleagues, if they don't communicate for a long time, their feelings will fade and they know little about each other. When two people chat, there is no topic. As the saying goes: "Thirty years in Hedong, thirty years in Hexi." A person's change is often incredible, and you can't treat your former colleagues with your original attitude at all.
Of course, you don't want to talk to colleagues who looked down on you before, played tricks on your colleagues behind your back, and bullied your colleagues. You have been wronged too much before. Why do you remember them now and greet them with a smile?
After leaving, it doesn't matter whether you contact your former colleagues or not. Let it be.
Resignation means that you have changed your job in a different place, or changed your lifestyle. You haven't retired yet, and there are too many unknowns about your future life development. No matter who you offend, it is not a good thing. It is not a good thing to please anyone and wronged yourself.
Look at people and things in two ways. Whether your former colleagues have anything to do with you or not, don't care. If you need to contact, take the initiative to contact; If you are estranged from each other and don't want to contact, forget it.