College entrance examination has always been a hot issue for parents and candidates.
It is related to the examinee's first life choice.
Separated from my family for the first time,
As the saying goes: three-point test, seven-point report,
Volunteering not only means a school, a major,
It is closely related to the candidates' future career!
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The TV series Anjia has attracted the attention of many netizens since it was broadcast.
Although people have different opinions on the play, it is precisely because of these arguments that the popularity of the play has risen frequently.
"Anjia" takes buying and selling houses as the breakthrough point, and tells the house problem that people are most concerned about at present.
The handling of some plots in the play makes the audience feel that it is not very rigorous. Real estate agents in Sun Li are like brocade, and their personalities are not very pleasing.
She is stiff and indifferent, and even steals from her colleagues, which is immoral in real estate agency.
She is unloved, insecure and difficult to trust others. She eats two servings for breakfast, and soy milk and steamed bread will be eaten separately. Judging from her breakfast behavior, she has no warmth at all.
In order to sell the house, she spared no expense to decorate it, just to prove her sentence: there is no house that can't be sold here.
In the workplace, she is a "gold seller" with good performance, but she lacks some human feelings.
She is very independent and sometimes makes people feel distressed. As a woman, there is always only work in life, and always take an umbrella when going out. She took into account all possible problems in her work in order not to make mistakes in her work.
Once when sharing the experience of selling a house with a colleague, she said that she had a single sale.
A power outage in a residential area made it impossible for the intermediary to take the elevator upstairs when taking customers to see the house.
The room climbed the stairs to the 28th floor and handed the host a business card. The owner said that his house had been handled by an intermediary and the room looked fine. Call me anytime if you need it.
She climbed three times, the second time she gave her host a watermelon and the third time she ordered a takeaway.
Climbing the stairs three times, I finally won the agency right of this house.
Why does she work so hard? Seeing the back, her mother's appearance let us know that she must work hard, because the family she came from has brought her harm, and she can only get rid of it through her own hard work.
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Fang, formerly known as Fang Sijing, was born in a rural family with three sisters and one brother.
As soon as she was born, her mother found out that she was a daughter again. She picked her up and threw her into the well. Fortunately, it was stopped by grandpa, so it was named Fang Sijing.
The room is like a brocade at home, and she lacked care since she was a child. Nobody cares about her, and whoever is unhappy takes it out on her.
So we know why the room lacks love and security like brocade, because she has never got these things since she was a child.
Even if she works, her mother won't let her go. Like a bloodsucking creditor, ghosts chased her for money.
My mother never considered her from her daughter's point of view. She even chased the company to make trouble and found a place with a beautiful room to live, and she didn't care what harm it would bring to her daughter.
Because in her mind, her daughter's future and happiness are not important at all.
Seeing this, I suddenly understood.
I understand the stubbornness in Fang's works. She can't lose and she can't afford to lose. She knows that the only person she can rely on is herself. Only when she is strong can she protect herself.
She works hard, just to get out of the harm that her family has done to her.
But as she said, friends can turn against each other, and couples can divorce. How can we break the blood relationship?
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The topic of son preference is not uncommon on the screen.
Mingyu in Everything is OK is just like Fan in Ode to Joy.
Because it is a TV series, the final ending is still developing in a good direction, trying to find a perfect ending.
But life is not a TV series.
How important is the influence of family background on children? A good family is the wealth of a child's life, and a bad family will be the pain of a child's life.
In fact, it's not like TV. It's harmful to be irresponsible if you have to prefer boys to girls.
This is an extreme case, and such problems rarely occur in families nowadays.
However, the way parents educate will greatly affect their children's growth.
There are many parents and candidates who come to me for advice. This situation exists. That is, parents will always object to what their children like, feel that there is no prospect, and give their children a choice, always feeling that it is the best.
In the end, most of the talks ended in discord.
Sometimes love is not mandatory, not binding, but more equal and respectful.
But if the mother with a beautiful room stood in the perspective of a beautiful room for a moment, she wouldn't do such a thing.
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Everyone has an inseparable connection with his family from the moment he was born.
Some people are lucky to grow up in a relatively peaceful and democratic environment, while others, perhaps not so lucky, just meet parents who don't know how to express love and care.
Some people, through their own continuous efforts, have created a world for themselves. This process will be very difficult, but hard work is the only way.
At least they won't let their children fall into the same environment as themselves again.
However, there are still some people who can't get out of the harm brought by their family background and wander alone with this kind of harm.
However, being born in a family should not be an excuse for us to stop. We will always pay for ourselves.
Everyone's experience is different. Being born in a family is just one of life experiences. Can't be an excuse to hinder your progress. What your life is like depends on yourself.
Because you are the only way.
Only by working hard can we tear a hole in this haze. At the moment of tearing, you will hurt and even bleed, but only in this way can light come in.
Meng Chenxi, master of education, college entrance examination volunteer, academic planning consultant, national second-class psychological counselor, special education teacher, has been struggling to advance on the road of self-improvement!