Repeated requests for demolition funds failed.
Things have to start with Xiao Juan's parents' divorce. When Xiao Juan was 3 years old, his parents divorced because of disagreement. Xiao Juan awarded it to his mother, but Xiao Juan's registered permanent residence was still in his father's side.
Since then, the house in my father's hometown has been requisitioned and received a compensation. At the same time, Xiao Juan also received 300,000 yuan. However, his father did not fulfill his promise and gave the demolition money to his daughter. Instead, they prevaricate for various reasons.
As a result, now that her daughter is an adult, she wants to get back the 300,000 yuan that originally belonged to her. But her father was not moved by the love between father and daughter, and even left many times during the mediation process. This shows that her father doesn't really want to take out the money.
The father produced a certificate that his daughter was not his own.
However, in the subsequent mediation, the father's attitude was reversed, because he found evidence to prove that he was infertile, which means that this daughter is not his own flesh and blood! They have no obligation to give Xiao Juan relocation money.
Later, the two sides also made a paternity test, which proved that it was not a father-daughter relationship. I think this is undoubtedly a pot of cold water for Xiao Juan. He called his father on 18, but he was not his real father, which was also a great blow to her.
After mediation by the mediator, the matter was finally settled.
Finally, through the mediation of the mediator, Xiao Juan's father returned 300,000 yuan of demolition money to the local government. At the same time, Xiao Juan's mother must return the previous maintenance fee of 6.5438+0.5 million yuan and the mental damages of 30,000 yuan.
There is no real winner in this mediation, which also makes Xiao Juan a mystery. In my opinion, Xiao Juan is the most injured. From 65438 to 2008, she thought she had parents, but in the end, because of the fault of the adults, she became a child who didn't even know her biological father. It's really pathetic.
What this incident has given us.
I want to clarify two points through this matter:
First of all, Xiao Juan's mother has the responsibility first.
The root of all this lies in Xiao Juan's mother. Because she wants to have children, it is really not advisable to borrow sperm, which is unfair to Xiao Juan and her father, and this incident has become the fuse in the future. I wonder if she ever thought about what would happen if she was found out?
Second, the ownership of demolition funds.
Since the two sides are not related by blood, Xiao Juan's demolition funds cannot be kept by his father, but should be handed over to the local government, because the demolition funds do not belong to either of them, which requires us to know some legal knowledge.
Through this incident, I understand the importance of legal common sense and the disadvantages of non-parent-child relationship, so I think these things have also inspired many people. Never do anything against morality and law in life, otherwise you will only lift a rock and drop it on your own feet.
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Fortunately, the two sides have reached a settlement. Hand in what is due, and hand in what is due. Of course, the most pitiful is Xiao Juan. I hope this kind of thing will not happen again in the future, and it will also give us a warning in life.
What do you think of this matter? Do you think the result of this matter is satisfactory?