Xiaohui has had trouble with her girlfriend recently. They are college classmates and have been dating for four or five years. But when it comes to marriage, Xiaohui's girlfriend mentioned that her name must be added to the wedding room when she got married. Xiaohui's girlfriend lives in the countryside. She is the only child in the family. The reason why my girlfriend gave Xiaohui is that with her parents' ability, it is impossible to buy a house in the county town in the future. She is an only child, and her parents will definitely live with her when she is old. Only by adding her name to the house can she and her parents feel at ease. But this is really a little reluctant for Xiaohui. Although Xiaohui's family is in the county seat, the conditions are only a little better than the average family. My parents paid a down payment of 500,000 yuan and a loan of 500,000 yuan for his wedding room. If you add his girlfriend's name, is she willing to take on a loan of 500 thousand? Just when Xiaohui was embarrassed, his girlfriend gave him an idea, which made Xiaohui even more embarrassed!
-02-
My girlfriend said, isn't this house worth 1 10,000? Her parents also decided not to let your family suffer. The woman marries 200,000 yuan, and the man gives 300,000 yuan as a bride price. Isn't a 500 thousand mortgage enough at once? Xiaohui was surprised to hear this: your bride price is 300 thousand? Why so many? ! Girlfriend said: We really don't want more. Let me pay for you. According to our custom, the bride price is generally 200 thousand or 15000, and then it will cost hundreds of thousands to buy a wedding car. My parents mean, aren't they in a hurry to buy a house? I don't want the wedding car first, so I can get 300 thousand bride price, which is just enough for the other half of the house. In this way, the woman also paid 500 thousand, plus my name is not too much. Xiaohui listened to the explanation given by his girlfriend and couldn't help asking, "Dear, is the 300,000 bride price also included in your family?" The girlfriend nodded and said, "Of course, forget it. You gave the bride price money to our family, and it is also ours, right? "
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Xiaohui himself doesn't agree with the statement given by her family, let alone his parents. Xiaohui's parents told him: "This girl is not married yet, so it is our half-suite. Everything should be considered for her parents first. 300 thousand bride price is the money given by our family. How can she calculate her room? " What a big face! We really don't want to agree to this marriage. "But when Xiaohui's family was hesitant, his girlfriend told him another news: she was pregnant. His girlfriend urged Xiaohui to get married quickly, but only if her name was added to the wedding room. Xiaohui is really embarrassed now. He sent a message to his girlfriend and said, "Dear, we were so in love and selfless when we were in love, but why did you calculate so carefully when we got married?" Do you think it's fair to my family? "My girlfriend replied Xiaohui:" Didn't my parents give money? "That 200,000 is what they have accumulated for a lifetime, and they have all taken it out. What else do you want from me? "
Message from the boy riding the temple: In this world, many people who love each other break up because of the bride price. But for Xiaohui's girlfriend, I think it is still inappropriate for her to count the 300 thousand bride price as room money and ask for a name. However, some people think that bride price money is a gift. Since it was given to the woman, it should be regarded as her money. But even so, the author believes that this 300,000 is something for nothing. If you really want your parents to have a support and you really love Xiaohui, you can add a name to the 200,000 part, but you only account for 20% of the house. Everyone says this is reasonable, right?