Isn't a failed marriage worthy of love?

I was divorced once, and they separated after less than two years together. I have a daughter, usually brought by my ex-husband, and sent to me on weekends and holidays. I met him at the party last year. He is completely different from my ex-husband. He is humorous, and we get along well, but he has never been married, which makes me feel inferior, but he persevered in pursuing me, and I quickly agreed.

However, he is getting less and less interested in me. He always said that he had something to do and didn't have time to accompany me, but I knew it very well, because I took my children with me when I went out several times. He cared about this and said that I didn't care enough about him, but I couldn't leave my children at home alone.

We quarreled about it several times, and then he changed his mind and said, I'm sure there is someone outside, and I'm suspicious all day. I didn't listen to any explanation. I really can't help it now, Miss Yu. Should I deal with my problem with him?

Yu Ming said.

After the failure of marriage, you just picked up the expectation of love, and as a result, your new boyfriend cares so much about his children, which will make you very painful and in a dilemma.

But in fact, your current state is obsessed with the authorities. You've already been married once. You should know very well that marriage and love are completely different. When you are in love, you can simply look at your feelings, but marriage tests your living habits, family environment, relationship maintenance and so on. It takes two people to keep running in to achieve a long-term good relationship.

But now that you are divorced and have children, you should pay attention to why he accepted it at first, but now he cares so much. In fact, what he really cares about is that the two-person world between you is always disturbed, and you have not given him enough attention and attention.

You should be glad that you can find each other's problems in time, otherwise the problems will get bigger and bigger in the future, but behind this problem is not whether he loves you or not, and whether he is worthy of your trust, but that you don't know how to control the relationship and always do things he doesn't like at inappropriate times.

At this stage, you should focus on how to maintain your relationship with him, rather than considering whether he can accept your child. After all, you are still in the stage of lovers.

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