Women born in the 1970s, almost unmarried, should also have boyfriends. In today's society, the economic foundation determines the superstructure, but in terms of economy, everyone feels that their backs are not hard and their confidence is insufficient. Those who are well-off, will feel that they rely on the strength of their families as parasites. Full-time wives will inevitably feel out of touch with society and always worry about the "beauty" around their husbands; Canary is notorious, even can't see the light.
If you think about it carefully, you will feel that in a society dominated by cash men, it is really impossible for women to have their own careers and economies. There are many female friends around. Through chatting and observation, I found that private money is definitely a great embodiment of a woman's mind and life state.
Bailey, a good friend of mine in college, lived in the dormitory for four years and has been married for half a year now. She is an accountant in a company. Her husband is a civil servant, and both of them are working-class people. They live in the multi-level professor of in-laws' house. In Bailey's joint venture, the salary is paid on the card and the bonus is paid in cash every month. She told me that she didn't tell her husband that she still had a bonus, but she took it home after delivery. In this way, she has a large bonus and private money. I asked her why she had to save private money. She said with a smile that her in-laws are used to saving money and plan to have their own children in a few years, and their family expenses are transparent. So she didn't want her husband's family to think that she wouldn't live lavishly, so when she went shopping, she met her favorite cosmetics and small objects, so she could only think about the budget and bite the bullet. Bailey said happily that it's all right now. The bonus accountant will pay cash, so she will hide. Now she can go shopping and soak in the teahouse with me, and she can also buy some favorite trinkets (it's very cheap if someone asks me at home).
Wang Lingling is a college student I met in a graphic design class. She is beautiful and lively. She is only 20 years old, but she has her own opinions on everything. Although she is five years younger than me, she is really a child. She is a foreign language student at NTU, and her hobby is designing online works. Needless to say, I really didn't see that she was already a famous webmaster of design websites on the Internet. After getting to know her, she secretly told me that now, in her spare time every day, she is improving her skills, completing the list and making time to date her boyfriend. She said that her boyfriend's family is rich, and the family is a very ordinary worker's family in other provinces, which inevitably leads to a little girl's vanity. Now, through her own efforts, her website has opened up the customer market with creative time. She earns every month, and sometimes she can't finish the list. She also asked two friends majoring in art to help. She told me that her income was unknown to her family and her boyfriend, and her home was far away. Her boyfriend is also a very busy person. I only know that she is working part-time, but I don't know that she has saved tens of thousands of dollars. Speaking of which, Lingling snickered. She said she just wanted to prove herself and see how flexible she was. At the end of our graphic design class, Lingling said.
Liu Li, a technician in my former unit, resigned five years ago and publicly decorated. Now she is divorcing her husband who is having an affair. They have been quarreling for nearly half a year. Her husband was taken away by the secretary. Liu Li said that at first she couldn't accept the fact that her husband changed his mind, so she just quarreled with him and didn't divorce. Now that she is dead to him, in desperation, she began to manage their considerable property. She is afraid that her husband will wake up. Make clear what she should have. When the secretary and the changed husband learned that she agreed to divorce and wanted to transfer the property, she threw them a detailed list. Liu Li told me that she actually has private money, and the amount is not small, which is a punishment for her changed husband.
I have read some articles about men saving private money before, saying that there are probably two things that men must keep secret about "lifelong partners", one is their love experience with other women, and the other is the private money that they will never put in their coat pockets. If the former is exposed, it is annoying to knock over the vinegar bottle; Once the latter "leaks", it will be more troublesome to knock over the oil, salt, sauce and vinegar bottles together.
Thinking from another angle, it should be said that women with private money are thoughtful women. Instead of destroying love, she will cherish herself more. So I said that women without private money are not cute!