I might wonder in the dark whether she had any immoral relationship with your husband before.
What you said before when she first fell in love made me feel that she had done these things with your husband.
I don't know if you have seen some news, that is, the mother and son are very close, most of them are single-parent families, or the relationship between mother and father is not good. So I put all my love on my children. Once her son gets married, she will feel that love has been taken away, and she will do something to refresh her sense of existence. That second sister feels this way.
Their family should be a patriarchal family. Generally speaking, sisters in patriarchal families:
Being enemies with your brother, they don't care much about his brother anyway, and they are happy that his brother is poor.
Usually, they don't care about their younger brother, but if something happens to their younger brother, they support him unconditionally. This is a sick family that values boys over girls. But the second sister's situation is not like "sister's help"
The so-called sister's help means that she won't take care of private affairs, let alone such in-depth private affairs. Only by paying attention to matters related to interests will you add a mouth. When it comes to interests, she will come out and scold you and then support her brother.
You should also have that kind of "female man" classmate when you are studying, right? I just like playing with boys. In order to enter the boys' circle, I will talk about the topics that boys like to talk about. It is really troublesome to speak ill of girls and women, and the topic of crotch is one of the topics that boys like to talk about.
Of course, speculation is just speculation, and we have no actual evidence to prove it.
"Being good to you" is not an advantage at all. It is not a plus item at all. It is a basic item. It is right to be good to yourself. Falling in love is good for each other and accommodating, so it is not an advantage.
Because if you like, I am good to you, I can pretend, but can I pretend for a lifetime? So this so-called "good for you" may disappear at any time.
You are not sensitive, but they do have problems.
Personally, I feel better without it. Although I said it casually, it seemed easy to leave, but I thought about it carefully, because the child is not a big deal when he is older, so it is better to leave.
Here's what you might imagine in the future: you gave birth to a child, not the sex they wanted, and they began to give you the cold shoulder. Obviously, you are also a maternity, but they took care of the second sister and gave her a big red envelope. They say that boys and girls are all the same, they all love each other very much, but they care more about the second sister's children.
And your husband took care of you for two days and thought you were melodramatic. He also compared his second sister, saying that she got out of bed to cook two days after she was born. Your husband didn't care at first, saying that he was working overtime outside. In fact, he doesn't want to come back to take care of the children, or he may wait until the early morning, pretending to be very tired and saying that he is busy at work. Actually, I still don't want to look after you and the baby.
Children cry in the middle of the night, you can't sleep well, and your back is sore. The child is still crying, and there is no one to help you, to ease your mood. I can only cry with my child in my arms, and I will continue to take care of my child to sleep after crying.
When you go to the toilet, let your husband take care of you for a while, and then her husband comes back with the child in his arms, wittily saying, where did we go to find mom? Then the baby reaches out and gives you a hug. You have no choice but to take the baby to the toilet.
The child is a little older, and the second sister came to ask if you shared a room. She said that she should hold her husband firmly with her body, otherwise she will definitely find someone else in different rooms, which will make you uncomfortable and lead to paranoia.
Is the above "imagination" horrible? Actually, part of it is my friend's experience. She was very depressed after giving birth to the baby. The natural husband left her alone, and the mother-in-law always found an excuse to take care of her grandson (that is, her daughter's child). My friend said all day that he wanted to jump with his baby in his arms, but he was afraid that it would be bad for him to find a stepmother and she would take her away as soon as the baby was born? This is absolutely unfair. I can only comfort her all day, and then she can only slowly digest those unpleasant emotions by herself.
I'm not divorced now, and I found out that my husband went whoring. Also found some drugs to enhance men's physique. She has no feelings for her husband. Under the same roof, there is a kind of getting along like roommates. Her husband doesn't care about children, and she doesn't care about going out to find other women. She won't be angry anymore, and she doesn't want to be angry for that kind of person at all. She only takes care of her own children.
Now that marriage is like this, who dares to get married and have children now?