The reason why you didn't take the initiative to contact.

The reason why a boy replies to your message but doesn't take the initiative to contact you 0 1: The reason why he replies to your message but doesn't take the initiative to contact you is because the other person hasn't made up his mind yet. Let's assume that when you are having an affair with each other, the other person is also having an affair with others. Between you two, the other party has been hesitant and indecisive. You're okay, and the other person is okay. It is a loss for him to give up anyone. So he had to keep in touch with both sides, or keep this ambiguous relationship. Because maintaining such a relationship, the other party will inevitably send a signal, so returning your message in seconds is a very useful means. I believe that many girls can't resist a man answering his message in seconds, which will make them feel valued, needed and more secure. However, when he didn't take the initiative to contact you, he actually exposed his problems. He doesn't want to take the initiative to contact you, and he doesn't want this relationship to ferment quickly. All he wants is to extend this ambiguous period, let him continue to enjoy this relationship, continue to compare you two, and finally choose an object that he thinks can be developed for a long time. Because the relationship has not been determined, there is nothing wrong with the other person's behavior, but his attitude has a deep influence on you. The longer you invest, the more you pay, and with it comes anxiety and doubt. In any case, this kind of behavior is disgusting. Whether a person really cares about you, you can have a strong feeling. If you meet such a person who tries to do both, stay away while it's early. Such indecisive and calculating people are not suitable for you to grow old together. 02: I replied to your message every second, but I didn't take the initiative to contact you, because the other person felt inferior and didn't dare to disturb your's love, but he never forgot it. Perhaps, he replied to your message every second but didn't take the initiative to contact you, because the information he got from you was not positive, or vague and avoided answering. It is precisely because of this that he didn't take the initiative to contact you, for fear of disturbing you and boring you. Such people tend to feel inferior. Although he is a seven-foot man, he dare not tell his relatives bravely. They are afraid of rejection, losing the chance to be your friend, or becoming your spare tire. He is afraid to tell you exactly what he wants, and he doesn't want to break up with you. In the process, he still has illusions. After he replied to your message thousands of times, he is eager to realize that he likes you. In my opinion, this kind of love is restrained and silently guarded. Although she lacks a lot of courage, it is not impossible for her to take the initiative to achieve a beautiful marriage if she meets such a person. 03: I replied to your message every second, but I didn't take the initiative to contact you, because the other person's personality is like this. Even if I take a second, it has nothing to do with loving you. Some people are like this. They are used to answering other people's messages in seconds, and he will answer most people's messages in seconds, which has little to do with whether they love you or not. There are actually two reasons why such people form such personality characteristics. First, out of politeness, it is very impolite for others to see it if they don't see it in time after sending the message. Even if others don't know if you saw it in time, such people can't get through it. Second, because he was injured. When he sends a message to others, but others always reply after a long time or even the next day, his heart is extremely hurt and he feels neglected. So in order not to let others feel this way, he will set an example and reply to other people's information in seconds. There is such a person around me. He is usually very low-key. Every time he sends him a message, he will reply almost every second. If you need anything, absolutely no problem. Such people are often more reliable and principled. If you meet such a person, you can make friends even if it is not love between you. Friendship is as precious as love. People who can reply to your information in seconds, but never take the initiative to contact you, are often because of these three reasons. In my opinion, if you meet such a person in love, don't worry. Because feelings are always two-way. If in this love, you always take the initiative, you pay, and the other person is unmoved, it means that you are not so important in the other person's heart, and there is not much temperature in your relations. The world is so big and the society is so complicated. Only when we meet a simple love and someone who cares about you can we live more easily and happily. If the appearance of the other person can't be the source of your happiness and happiness, it will bring you a lot of trouble and pain. It is better to give up early and leave love to the most worthy person. The reason why you don't take the initiative to contact 2 when the information returns in seconds. The reason why girls don't take the initiative to contact 1 In fact, for girls, when chatting with you, she usually doesn't take the initiative to send you messages, because they are quite passive emotionally. Unless this girl likes what you like, she will send you a message on her own initiative. So in this case, her psychology is like this. I like a boy, but I won't take the initiative to chat with him. If he sends me a message, I will definitely call back. Then why don't girls come to you? Actually, I'm afraid that being too active will make boys feel fall in price. So out of this psychology, no matter how much a girl likes you, she will not take the initiative, but likes to accept you passively. In fact, this is also because most girls are reserved and dare not show too much attitude towards the people they like. However, they will cooperate with the initiative of boys. For example, if you send a message, she will reply every second. I will also agree to your date, and so on. So, brother, if you like this shy girl, don't give up just because the girl never takes the initiative to find you. You can judge whether she is interested in you by the time and content of her reply to your WeChat. 2, pure courtesy reply Some girls never take the initiative to find you, but what does WeChat know? Maybe they are idle, often look at their mobile phones, see your news, and will subconsciously reply to you out of courtesy. Some brothers may want to ask, so how do you judge whether a girl is like this? Actually, it's very simple. Just look at the content and frequency of her seconds. If when chatting, you are basically talking alone, and she only gives you a short reply, or a reply like uh-huh, oh-huh, and there is nothing substantial, then you may have to pay attention. She is not interested in you, and WeChat replies to you only out of courtesy. But it doesn't matter much. If you like her, then you need to find ways to change your present situation, such as improving your value and attracting her. How to attract? I won't say much about this. You can read my column or consult me. What about the above two situations? This is one of the reasons why girls don't take the initiative to find you, but return messages every second. In fact, in any case, it is a good phenomenon for a girl to call you back once every second without contacting you actively. After all, if a girl is willing to reply to you, it means that you still have a chance to get to know each other better. As for her not taking the initiative to find you, she will take the initiative when your relationship is stable. Reasons for not actively contacting information in seconds 3 Generally speaking, there are three reasons why people who can reply to your message but never look for you. 1, I don't have a good relationship with you, so I dare not disturb you easily. Although some relationships look good, they are not. Your's relationship is not qualified to go any further, so you can't bear to take a step back. We are just friends. Although we sometimes care about each other and occasionally think of each other, we just don't take the initiative to contact each other. If a person never contacts, but she will reply as long as you send her a message, then this person really cares about you. For this kind of person, no matter what you ask her for help, she will promise you the first time and will never let you down. It is because she cares about you that she will promise you. If a person doesn't care about you and has no feelings for you, then she will refuse you and promise you nothing. This feeling is actually rational and restrained, because she knows that there is no possibility between you, but she cherishes your feelings very much, so she learned to restrain. If you love but can't, you will never forget. You don't contact each other actively. You want to give each other an unforgettable past. 2, only treat you as an ordinary friend, do not want to deepen the feelings of two-way travel in order to go further and be happier with each other. One-way feelings, in the final analysis, are just a person's carnival, and there is no result at all. When you like someone, you can't help but contact them, and even share what you see and hear every day with your own thoughts, but the other party either doesn't reply or simply perfunctory. People like this don't care about you at all. It's only polite to reply to your message. And don't always think the other person is rude. Why didn't you reply to your message? In fact, these are just wishful thinking, and the other party doesn't want to talk to you. Whether you have a good impression or a good relationship depends on whether two people can have heart-to-heart communication and telepathy. People who care about you, even if what you say is nonsense, will listen patiently, and then reply to you well, willing to chat with you every simple time. Instead of being indifferent to you and perfunctory. 3, I don't care about you, and I still take you as a spare tire. Some people are especially greedy for the relationship and care of others. Even if they don't like people, she won't refuse others' concern. This kind of person likes to take others' likes seriously and treat others as a spare tire. It is really a happy thing to be cared for, because that person will do a lot of things for the person he likes. But sometimes we all know that when we love someone deeply, even if we know that the other person doesn't like us, we are willing to spend time and energy pursuing each other, hoping to impress each other through sincerity. But this kind of thing, feelings really can't be done by moving. Sometimes we need to rely on each other's telepathy. Only when you love someone can you really respond to their love. People who treat others as spare tires will only feel that they have no better choice after countless emotional failures, and then reluctantly agree to the person who is good to them. Anyway, he is good to himself, so there is no need to refuse. Why not? It is really unnecessary for a person not to take the initiative or refuse to accept a person's kindness, but never to give and respond to each other's sincerity. Don't worry about people who never contact you. I really didn't know you spent a lot of time with that man. Don't think of yourself as a foil to each other. People who care about you will take the initiative to contact you, and for whatever reason, she will not let you down. Feelings need the care and maintenance of both sides to warm them up. If you keep a relationship without temperature, your heart will get cold sooner or later. Now that you have fought for it and worked hard, don't force it. Let her go and let yourself go. There is no need to guard a tree that doesn't bloom, it will only increase sadness. Please cherish the people in front of you and leave your heart to those who love you.