Second, listen and think. "Seeing clearly and thinking clearly" means seeing clearly, and "hearing clearly and thinking clearly" means listening attentively. Listening and watching are essential factors for the success of professional directors in the 2 1 century. Just now I talked about the way to realize vision, so how does the kindergarten director realize listening? I think we should learn to listen first. Only when Emperor Taizong was willing to listen to the opinions of submission, did Wei Zhi dare to remonstrate directly. Only by direct remonstrance can the world-famous Zhenguan rule and the prosperous Tang Dynasty be achieved. Learning to listen is to be a student first and then a teacher. Be courteous to Corporal Xian, ask for advice with an open mind, and listen to voices from different angles. Facts have proved that multi-channel information is the premise for a person to make correct judgments and choices. Second, be good at listening. We should become one with the people around us, become one with them and become their bosom friends. Friends will talk about everything when they are close, and heart-to-heart conversation is the best communication and exchange. In that case, it is possible to hear their heartfelt words at any time, so that the information obtained is more direct and reliable. Third, we should "apply what we have learned". We should not only be good at listening, but also learn from others. As the saying goes, "Two heads are better than one." No matter how clever a person is, his wisdom is limited. In our work and life, we should keep in mind the old adage, learn to listen, be good at listening and learn from others. Fourth, we should understand that listening is dark. "Listening and thinking" should also reflect the integrity of integrity. Never be stingy, never enjoy gossip, especially never make wrong judgments and choices based on gossip in the streets. Ear hearing is listening to all directions.
Third, the color is warmer. Color refers to the face; Warm, gentle and amiable, smiling. This is also the external image that modern people should have. Smiling seems trivial and easy to do, but not everyone can do it with persistence. But if you are a director, in general, you will win the favor of people around you and create a good humanistic environment for yourself. As we all know, the environment is very important for a person's growth. From this, the benefits of smiling are immeasurable. Leaders should strive to be amiable and approachable, which can enhance their affinity, get in touch with the masses easily, and often get their support; The smiling service of office staff can change the long-standing image of "the door is difficult to get in, the face is ugly" in the eyes of ordinary people, and will be well received by the masses; Teachers' smiling can realize "loving their teachers and believing in their ways", greatly improve the relationship between teachers and students, and accomplish the task of teaching and educating people well; When the waiter smiles and serves warmly, it will help attract customers and bring benefits to the enterprise ... It is not difficult to see that "color and warmth" are the necessary external image of a professional director.
Fourth, the appearance is respectful. Appearance is the external image; Courtesy, modesty, modesty, courtesy. The Chinese nation is a country of etiquette, gentle and courteous, which has been the external image of China people for thousands of years. However, after the Cultural Revolution, social etiquette and family etiquette were greatly destroyed, and the whole society and even families seemed to have no manners, regardless of age. In many families, it is no longer said that "filial piety is the second time to see and listen", and there is no order of "learning from others". In society, people lack mutual respect and care, and etiquette and civilization are challenged as never before. Good things are like relatives who have left home, missing for a long time! People expect etiquette to return to society, and society needs civilization to spread among people. Imagine a polite and elegant person, even if he has only met once in an occasion, he will leave a beautiful and unforgettable impression, which shows the importance of etiquette. Advocating "respect for appearance" among kindergarten managers is to make the director cultivate self-cultivation, be a teacher by example, be elegant and generous, be polite in occasions, be courteous and considerate in communication, be personable and humble. While talking about etiquette, the head of the garden and the garden Council should also vigorously advocate civility and courtesy among the teaching staff, establish a modest and prudent style, and take good care of the children's only childhood. In the west, aristocratic men with elegant temperament are called gentlemen. Western gentlemen are divided into classes. A gentleman is a symbol of the upper class, and ordinary people can't be gentlemen. This is not the same as the "respect for appearance" required of directors, but good manners should be the pursuit of all mankind. We should also strive to be elegant, polite, civilized and generous, pay attention to our own image in occasions, pay attention to the improvement of personal taste in cultivation, and form a good atmosphere of mutual respect, social harmony, family harmony, mentoring harmony and common growth.
Fifth, keep your word. "Loyalty" here refers to faith. "Keep your word" means keep your promise. Confucius has always advocated the idea that words must be faithful and actions must be fruitful. The most typical thing is what Confucius said to his disciple Zi Gong: "Zi Gong asked", how to govern political affairs? Confucius said, "We have enough food and arms to win the trust of the people." Zi Gong asked again, "I have to remove one of the three items. Which one? " Confucius said, "Get rid of armaments first." Zi Gong asked, "I have to choose between food and faith." Confucius said without thinking, "Eat!" Food is related to people's lives, and reputation is related to the survival of the country! Throughout the history of success or failure, we will come to the conclusion that a country does not exist without faith, and a person cannot stand without faith. Honesty and trustworthiness has always been the traditional virtue of the Chinese nation, and trustworthiness is the foundation of doing things. It can be seen that the director and the garden Council have kept their trust and their character; Grasp personality; If you keep your credit, you keep your career. Keep your word, always treat others with extremely responsible attitude and treat yourself with extremely strict requirements. Truly trustworthy people don't promise easily. Commitment is the only criterion to measure whether you keep your promise, so once you promise, you will keep your promise. "Words of loyalty and righteousness" make friends like weaving; Without faith, you are lonely. Mozi said: "People who don't believe in their words can do anything." The reason why people are helped is the power of faith. Keeping one's word is the most basic morality and accomplishment of people. If you want to do something and show your value, there must be no place for you to break your word. So a professional director should be an honest and trustworthy director.
Sixth, be respectful. "Respect" is dedication. "Respect for things" means to concentrate on what you want to do, which is what we often say now. In our country, there are thousands of occupations in society. Workers in all walks of life have equal division of labor, and there is no distinction between high and low. Every occupation people engage in is a social need and a glorious and noble cause. Only when everyone works seriously and honestly can the whole social life be carried out in an orderly way. Mozi said: "Those who know will do it", and Li Dazhao, the pioneer of the May 4th Movement, also said: "Everything should be done in a down-to-earth manner, not in vain, but with a true attitude. If you study with this attitude, the truth will be clear. If you do things with this attitude, you will succeed. " Facts have proved that in an ordinary post, you can make extraordinary deeds and get social respect; In more difficult positions, you can make extraordinary contributions and get higher honors. The big is the small, the difficult is the easy, and the thick is the thin. A trickle makes a sea, and sometimes the details determine success or failure. The view of "respecting things" reminds us to do what we do, love what we do, do our best in what we do, and be diligent in what we do, not what we do. As long as we make unremitting efforts and give full play to our talents and wisdom in our work and study, we can achieve excellent results. Ordinary people are still like this, let alone kindergarten managers? The director is the banner of kindergarten development, and every word and deed should be an example for teachers and children to learn. Therefore, the head of the park and the leaders of the park should set an example everywhere, love their jobs and be practical and realistic, highlight the key points of work, solve the difficulties of work, base themselves on the present, focus on the future, start from now, start from bit by bit, "think things with respect" and complete all the tasks well.
Seven, doubt and ask. Han Yu, an educator in the Tang Dynasty, said in Shi Shuo; "People are not born to know, what can not be confused? Confused, if you don't follow the teacher, you will be confused and finally confused. " It seems normal for everyone to have doubts. What if you have doubts? Confucius said "don't be ashamed to ask questions", and Han Yu said that he must learn from his teachers. Both Confucius and Han Yu advocated seeking a teacher or asking others to solve doubts. With the development of the times, there are more ways to solve doubts, such as turning to computers, the Internet, all kinds of e-books, all kinds of reference books and all kinds of dictionaries, including electronic dictionaries. I'm afraid Confucius and Han Yu never dreamed of these solutions. This is the result of the development of the times, and it is also valuable to us, but seeking advice is often the most commonly used method. In any case, being studious is still a good learning quality that everyone must have. There must be many problems in the daily work of kindergarten management. Especially in the study, as the director and leader of the park, don't pretend not to know, otherwise it will harm others and yourself. We should have the attitude of "not knowing this matter" and the spirit of "asking why", practice more, seek truth, and not be ashamed to ask questions. Kindergarten directors should become experts in education, teaching and logistics management. The director has such an open mind and curiosity. Teachers will not look down on you, but will be in awe, because "there is a specialization in the profession", and no one can know everything. Learning is the result of learning and asking questions.
Eight, it is difficult to think. "Angry" means angry, and the "difficulty" here is the future trouble. Guo has a comedy sketch called Impulse is the Devil. The plot of the sketch shows that his wife had a little friction and quarreled with her neighbors. The wife insisted that her husband take the knife for her and fight for her. The husband can't stop, and he is miserable. He had to play hard to get and finally educated his wife. The sketch is reasonable, and the harm of impulse is brought into full play, which makes people laugh and reflect. In daily work and life, people tend to be emotional or emotional. For example, 1992, such a sensational thing happened in Wuhan. China Education News reported this incident with the title "Proud of Life in a Anger": Xia hanged his son in a rage for playing truant. When people are angry, it is emotion that overcomes reason, which is difficult to control, often thoughtless and easy to make mistakes. Therefore, people should strengthen their emotional cultivation, improve their self-control ability and strive to be calm in every major event. Save your body three times a day, always have the heart of self-discipline, and often think about the harm of impulse. Be lenient with others, advocate the idea of "don't do to others what you don't want others to do to you", put yourself in the other's shoes and deal with complex problems in a peaceful atmosphere. In a rage, you should think about the consequences, buffer and calm your emotions. Maybe some sharp problems will be dull, maybe the inner knot will solve itself. In addition, we should always be aware of the law and urge ourselves to do things or solve problems within the framework of the law. If kindergarten managers know how to think hard, it is also an important working strategy. It is common to touch the director's nerves at work and make him angry. If the director is emotional, then the director will be deeply troubled and unable to extricate himself. In anger, it is easy to cause the director to make mistakes in decision-making, speak out of line, and often impulsive will reduce the prestige of the director.
Nine, just think about it. "Virtue" is something that can be obtained. "Being brave" is a traditional virtue of the Chinese nation, which has been advocating "righteousness" for thousands of years. For example, Guan Yunchang in the Three Kingdoms period was regarded as the embodiment of "righteousness" by the rulers of all previous dynasties. In The Romance of Three Kingdoms, there is a lascivious meaning of praising his loyalty to Liu Bei's two wives, a heroic meaning of "Guan Yunchang released Huang Hansheng", and a mirror-like evaluation of the sun after his death that "great power can seize weapons and elegance knows more about literature", but the meaning of Spring and Autumn is thin. Mencius said: "life is what I want, and righteousness is what I want;" You can't have both, and those who give up their lives for righteousness. " Thus, righteousness is more important than life. In ancient times, there was a saying that "the grace of dripping water, when the spring is reported", said not to be ungrateful; Li Dazhao's "iron shoulders bear morality" refers to the responsibility for justice and the great sense of realizing lofty socialist ideals; Modern society advocates gratitude education in order to realize national justice. In the "Eight Honors and Eight Disgraces" put forward by Comrade Hu Jintao, it is said that "being honest and trustworthy is proud, and being ashamed of forgetting righteousness for profit", which is the best interpretation of modern "righteousness". "As you think," it contains not only the thoughts of gratitude, but also the battle righteousness of dealing with people. " A gentleman means what he means, and a villain means what he benefits. " Everyone is a gentleman who fights for righteousness, and don't be a villain who forgets profit. As leaders of kindergartens, we should take the development of kindergartens as our own responsibility, be selfless, be honest and self-disciplined, and be a director who will satisfy teachers, children and parents with the continuous development of kindergartens.