You can think that I am too realistic and materialistic. I'm just writing my own opinion in recent years.
Each of us has a different view of happiness, but my view has changed in recent years.
1,
I used to be like many people. Although I have no car, no house and no money, I believe I can live a good life as long as I work hard.
As long as there is love, even if I drink the northwest wind, it is too vulgar to talk about money.
However, don't others think so?
Blind date, do you have a car? No. Do you have a room? No, is there any skill? No, where is the money? Not to mention. see you again ...
Later, I also found someone who was willing to marry me. He had nothing. I am married and have children, but many relatives still look down on me.
2,
Most of my relatives live in the city, and some have several suites. My family has only been in the city for a few minutes, but I still feel that I am just a rural person and have no room.
At a dinner party, people talked about the room, which neighborhood, how much money and so on, but I just kept my mouth shut. First, I don't have the same topic. Second, I don't want to be so materialistic. I am noble.
I think our life is very happy. There are houses and broken paintings in the country, so comfortable.
Later, someone said, you are poor, happy and have no house. How can we be happy? You can be happy again if you have a house. It seems that without a car and a house, there is no right to enjoy happiness.
At that time, I felt that if I didn't buy a house, I would be looked down upon no matter how happy and comfortable I was.
3,
I was drinking with a buddy some time ago. He said that most families in their village have cars, and other people's cars are often parked in front of their homes. His parents want him to buy a car.
His tone of voice is so heavy that he seems to have made a big decision, which is not like joking.
Yes, when no one around us has a car, you don't feel anything. When the neighbor has no car, there is nothing. However, when many people around you and neighbors have cars, your psychology is not good.
It's not that we compare, because this is reality. If someone else has a car, he will be taller than you and speak with confidence. If I had another room, I would show it off in front of you.