1, you refuse positive change. When good things come to your life, your first reaction is to doubt. You resist positive change and feel that you don't deserve happiness.
2. The opposite of inferiority is conceit. Conceited children will be blind and arrogant, overestimate their personal abilities, lose their self-knowledge, and lead to many decision-making mistakes. Once they encounter waterloo, it may even cause a great blow.
3. The defects of the current education system make college students lack autonomy in choosing schools and majors, and many students can't choose their favorite schools and majors, which makes them slack off and escape from the current professional study because of the contradiction between their dreams and reality, which not only seriously hinders the development of students' independent consciousness, but also makes students lack long-term planning in their studies, which makes their study and life lose their direction and goals, and makes them emotionally fragile. They are easy to be at a loss and give up when encountering setbacks and failures.
4. Many middle school students are withdrawn and afraid of communication, and often feel that they are alone in the vast sea, or feel sorry for themselves, or groan without illness. They are afraid to join the collective life, but complain that others don't understand and accept themselves. They often act alone behind everyone's back and live in their own world.
Many people love face, and the result of saving face is "saving face and losing money", which is a typical psychological unhealthy phenomenon. For another example, many people are used to complaining, nagging and blaming others and society, but lack self-reflection. As a result, anger hurts the body, angers the body, complains about bad interpersonal relationships, and darkens life. This is also an unhealthy psychology.