How to treat the problem of apology?

If apologizing helps, there is no right or wrong. No matter how rigorous a person is, he will make mistakes, because he is not a saint, he still has to live. There is no doubt about this, but there must be a bottom line for making mistakes, and some things cannot be forgiven.

In reality, I have seen many couples quarrel and eventually break up, and I have also seen many stories about love rat and love rat, such as this one. Xiaoya, the treasurer of a company, doesn't like dressing up at ordinary times, but dresses casually. He looks average, not particularly good-looking, but his figure is ok. Xiaoming is an unemployed person. He idles around all day and goes out every day. He just sits around. He can't make money at all, but he is handsome and tall. Coincidentally, two people met in a shop. At that time, Xiaoya was shopping in the supermarket and her wallet was stolen. When Xiao Ming saw it, he helped Xiaoya get it back and then returned it to Xiaoya. Xiaoya is also very happy to see Xiao Ming grow so handsome. Because of this time, the relationship between the two people slowly began. Xiaoya fell in love with Xiao Ming at first sight and tolerated him everywhere, because Xiao Ming's personality was fake, but he was lazy and playboy.

At first, Xiao Ming cared more about Xiaoya, but after testing Xiaoya's character, Xiao Ming became more serious, and then he no longer cared about Xiaoya's feelings. It was because Xiaoya fell in love that Xiaoya worked hard, and then Xiaoming spent money desperately, even the rented house was paid by Xiaoya. Xiaoming just hangs around outside all day and then goes to pick up girls. Once I couldn't stand it. Xiao Ming spent the night outside and didn't come back. Xiaoya was very angry. Xiao Ming came to see her the next day, pretending to be poor. He came to Xiaoya and apologized that he didn't mean to. He's just drunk, that's why he acts like this.

Xiao Ming apologized again and again, but Xiaoya couldn't help forgiving Xiao Ming. Because of this, Xiao Ming became worse. He goes out day and night every day and doesn't care about Xiaoya at all. In the end, Xiaoya didn't get the happiness he wanted. It was more a betrayal of Xiaoming, who broke her heart. In the end, he stopped believing in love and became a monk.

So everyone will make mistakes, but there must be a certain bottom line for making mistakes. Don't forgive others just because they apologize. If you have done something wrong to yourself, be decisive and keep your distance from yourself. Because this is his nature, and his nature cannot be changed, he must find a person who is really good to himself, so that he can be truly happy.

Life doesn't start all over again, so people who really care about you will never do anything that goes against your promise and don't want to see you get hurt, so staying away from those love rat will make their lives better.