How to talk back to the days of death?

How to bring the chat back to 1 and actively throw out questions with substantive content is the first criterion to ensure that the chat can continue. If you always have no content, don't take the initiative to throw questions, just listen to the other side, then when the other side has finished, you will bye bye. Let's feel this conversation: female: "Gubei Water Town is very interesting." Man: "Really? Have you been there? " Woman: "Mm-hmm, I went with my friends this weekend." Man: "Oh, that's good." Woman: "The scenery inside is very good, the photo effect is not bad, and there are many manual workshops. You can do your own DIY. You can go and have a look. " Man: "Good." Alas, such a reply didn't leave anyone a message, but only made girls feel as if they were in a hurry to find you. Of course, they didn't like it. You must give and take. Therefore, when you agree with the other person's point of view, you can take the initiative to ask questions and guide the development of your topic: female: "Gubei Water Town is very interesting." Man: "Really? I intend to go next week. Are there any interesting projects? " Woman: "It's a bit like Wuzhen in the north. The natural scenery is good. Taking pictures is very emotional. And there are many traditional handicraft workshops in China. My friends and I are still DIY our own printing and dyeing works in Yongshun Dyehouse, which is quite interesting. " Man: "That sounds good. Can I see the photos you took? " Woman: "OK, I'll send it to you." Man: "This little photo is quite artistic, not bad. I also want to bring my camera. " Woman: "Where else can I play with my camera?" M: "I was the vice president of the photography club when I was in college, and later I learned a lot of photography skills." Do you want to see the photos I took? "Woman:" Yes, send it to me quickly. In this dialogue, the boy will ask questions that he wants to know. Finally, because of the "photo", he slowly talked about photography, which is the strength of boys. This is a clever topic change. Obviously, girls are very interested in this topic, so they talk more and more. 2. Find the right keywords. When a topic is always finished, I don't know what to say after it is finished. Isn't it colder? So you should learn to find the key words in the other person's words and then extend a new topic. In fact, this trick has also been used in the correct demonstration case of "actively throwing questions". Girls mentioned taking pictures, which is good for boys, so we talked about this topic. There must be many people who have the same language. In ordinary life, there are not so many coincidences. How can I learn to find keywords? First, look what she did. When the other person shares something with you, you should find out what role she plays in this matter and whether what she does has anything to do with you. For example, a woman: "I learned to skate with my friends today, and I accidentally fell down and broke my leg." "(Event: I learned to skate and wrestle, and my leg was broken. Her role: the person who wants to learn skating, the injured person) Male: "Never mind, has the wound been handled? "(Showing concern and giving physical and mental comfort) Woman:" It's no big deal, it's already taken care of. " Man: "That's good. Call me next time you want to skate, and I'll teach you with my hands and make sure you don't skate. "(Contact: I can skate, I can teach her and protect her) The second is to feel each other's feelings. The other person will not share anything with you for no reason, either making her sad or making her happy. Either way, you can basically feel it from her language expression. Then you just need to follow her words and express your affection, support, understanding and encouragement to her, which will make the other person feel that you can understand her and she will trust and rely on you more. For example, a woman: "I'm so depressed today." (In a bad mood) Man: "What's the matter? "Woman:" Because of my carelessness, I wrote a wrong data and was criticized by the leader. "Man:" This is a mistake. Don't blame yourself too much. Just be serious next time. ".I heard that a hot pot restaurant opened nearby. Shall we go together after work? "(express affection and encouragement, and divert attention with other things) 3. Put an end to straight reply. Why is the steel straight man always criticized by everyone? Because they are too straightforward to understand the subtext of girls' words. Sometimes their self-righteous humor makes girls want to roll their eyes for minutes. Let's give a few small examples: female: "I just went to the supermarket to buy a lot of things, which are estimated to weigh 20 Jin." I'm exhausted. " Man: "Did you recite it yourself? Very powerful. " Woman: "Is my dress nice?" Man: "In this winter, why are you still wearing this sweater to show your shoulders?" Is it hot or cold? " Woman: "How was my game today?" Man: "Your earrings are as big as two rings. Aren't they heavy to wear?" Don't say that boys are too deliberate, licking dogs. Think about it. Is it because of your usual reply? If this goes on, don't say that girls don't take the initiative, and active girls will be held back by you. It's no good talking to a girl with a male mind. You should know more about girls' clothes, psychology and way of thinking. For example, when she asks about your clothes, don't always use perfunctory sentences such as "it's fine" and "everything looks good on you", but learn to evaluate from the details: "Today's clothes and hairstyle are very gentle and suit you very well." "The gauze skirt is very fairy, with a small leather coat, which is a bit cool and very eye-catching." Even if you don't think it's good, you can gently make suggestions. For example: "This skirt is a fairy. I think it is better with sandals than canvas shoes. What do you think? " Timely "boasting" is not called licking, but the art of speaking. Straight men should study hard! Nowadays, the social competition is so fierce that no progress means retrogression, so it is very important to keep learning new knowledge and enrich your own connotation. Emotionally, too. Many boys always think that they are single because they have no money and are ugly, but they are not. Women in the new era not only look at their faces, but also like smart, romantic and talented boys. So, don't lose heart if you are not handsome enough. You still have many opportunities. When chatting with girls, show your rich knowledge appropriately, so that girls feel that chatting with you is always a surprise, and she will gradually like chatting with you. How to find the days of chatting to death 2 How to find the days of chatting to death 1 Change the topic If you feel embarrassed or have nothing to say during the chat, it means that you have killed him. At this time, we should immediately change the subject and say some other interesting topics to free the two people from the embarrassing situation. 2. Be careful when chatting. In the process of chatting, your attitude can be felt by the other party. Although you just send some short words, the other party can feel your attitude. So if you just, uh, promise each other during the chat, it will definitely make them feel that you are not sincere enough. At this time, it is very easy, and I lose my enthusiasm when chatting, so the only thing I have to do is to feel each other's feelings with my heart and express my feelings with my heart. Chatting skills Humorous chasing girls 1, I am really simple, thinking about how to harm you all the time. I told the sky loudly that I like you. As a result, it thundered and rained, and God was moved. If being handsome is a crime, then I have committed a heinous crime. Jacky Cheung kissed him before he left, so we didn't even kiss him. You can't fit me in your heart, which shows that you are narrow-minded. 6. It is said that men and women are equal. Why can't I come into your room? 7. I have been suffering from insomnia recently, and I will wake up every 16 hours. 8, don't be nervous, I am not a good person ... 9, I will never forget you, with the sexiest body in the world. 10, I envy you for knowing me at such a young age. What if the chat dies? 1. Awkward situation A student once told me that girls like reading. Although he doesn't like reading very much, he talked about literature with girls in order to make them feel that they have the same hobbies. Then something embarrassing happened. The girl said that Stephen King was a master of horror novels, and he added, "Being a master of physics and literature is quite powerful." Looking at the girl's silly expression, he realized that the physics guy seemed to be named Stephen Hawking. . . . . . From then on, he was careful and didn't say a word during the whole date. Finally, the girl said, "You are too reluctant to part with it", and then it was gone. In fact, everyone will have embarrassing situations. This situation is best handled, because you just need to change the subject immediately or laugh at yourself jokingly. As long as the atmosphere is in place, no one will care But if you are embarrassed to affect the atmosphere of chatting and dating, then you will definitely not get along well. 2. Chatting is different from chatting. Chatting is temporary, but chatting is continuous. Although it is easy to chat after embarrassment, the most common situation of chatting is when there is no topic. The so-called embarrassing chat, to put it bluntly, is to talk about nothing. This has nothing to do with whether a girl wants to talk to you or not. Sometimes a girl wants to talk to you, but what you say is something that she is not interested in or meaningless. This is also a full-time chat. Of course, if she doesn't want to talk to you, but you insist on talking, it must be embarrassing. In this case, it is best to cut off the topic actively. For example, if you find that you have started chatting, just say, "I have something to do, so I won't talk." Don't wait for a girl to say "I'm going to take a shower", then she will think you are a boring person and find chatting with you boring. Remember, not talking is better than talking. Don't talk if you really can't find a topic. The more you talk, the farther away she is from you. The so-called disaster comes from the mouth. Some boys can't chat or talk to girls. They think that straight men and low emotional intelligence will make girls angry. This day is definitely not enough. If you just ignore her, she won't have a good impression on you. If you coax her, she will think you are a worthless diaosi. So what the hell should we do? First of all, never apologize. Unless you say something ugly, if it's average, such as accidentally saying that she is a little fat, then don't apologize. If you apologize, she will think that you have no attitude, no framework, and simply no masculinity. All you have to do is come back and never run away from the problem. Take the above as an example. If you say she is a little fat, she will get angry. Just say, "But just right. It's a little fleshy. Too thin, it looks like a skeleton. " Of course, it depends on your strong desire to survive. How to save the scene when the chat is dead? Many people who are not good at communication will always talk to death in the process of chatting. If you know how to change the topic in time, you can also resolve some embarrassment. In addition to changing the topic, we should also let ourselves have the ability to deal with things in time, especially to have confidence in ourselves and show our confident sunny side to each other. Generally, girls are boys who actively like sunshine. So always keep your inner charm, so as to leave a good impression on each other. If you feel that you said that sentence during the chat and realize that it is wrong, you must know how to add other topics to your original factory at this time.