Intimacy China and his wife are mostly shy and think "intimacy" is a kind of sticky performance. However, research shows that hugs, kisses and other actions to express intimacy are necessary for marriage. The Japan Wife-loving Family Association has launched a "wife hug program", which requires husbands to give their wives several hugs every day, including "regular hugs" when going out every day, "waiting for an opportunity to hug" when waiting for the bus and traffic lights, hugging from behind, hugging the waist and so on.
Love story research shows that couples need to say at least three love stories every day, such as "I love you" and "I miss you". A study by Houston State University also found that sweet words to your lover's left ear can impress him more.
Humor. Humor can resolve, buffer contradictions and eliminate barriers. Leng Li, a senior psychological counselor of Shanghai Happy Life Marriage Consulting Company, told reporters that humor contains a lot of information: love your wife, make her happy and praise her. When my wife received this message, her mood naturally turned from cloudy to sunny.
Grateful. China people are good at appreciating and praising children, but they are used to treating their spouses critically. There are many reasons, but in the long run, it will hurt feelings and undermine the stability of marriage. Everyone wants to be praised. The more praise, the more they can motivate themselves to perform well. So, you might as well talk about your appreciation of your partner.
Communication. Huang, a professor at Northwest University School of Medicine, known as "Doctor of Love", pointed out that the first task of a happy marriage is to learn to communicate and resolve conflicts. "To strengthen the effect of communication, on the one hand, we should use praise instead of criticism, especially not personal attacks, on the other hand, we should use less degree modifiers, such as often, always and too much. In addition, communication should avoid four periods of physical fatigue, hunger, illness or heavy work, otherwise it will affect the effect. "
Childlike heart is still alive. Lengli pointed out that it is very important to keep a little naive and simple, and have more hobbies and curiosity to improve the happiness of marriage. People with childlike innocence have a more relaxed life, a happier mood and are better at discovering interesting things in life. After returning home, once the door is closed, the couple might as well learn from their children, often play some small games and play jokes on each other, all of which can adjust the boring and monotonous life.
Romantic. Romance is not necessarily flowers and wine, but it must be at the cost of money. Its form is rich and colorful, and its main connotation is "doing what your partner likes". For example, the wife likes to watch movies, and the husband can sit with her after watching it, which is romantic; When the husband comes home at night, the wife waits with the bedroom light on and serves a bowl of hot porridge, which is also very romantic.