Here are some stories related to my experience.
From 65438 to 0993, I graduated from university and was assigned to work in a chemical enterprise with hundreds of people. College students are seldom taken seriously. I was once promoted to a middle-level leader. During this period, I got married and gave birth to a child. By 2003, I had a salary of 300 yuan a month in 400 yuan. Chemical industry is toxic and polluting. I feel bored and have no future. At that time, I didn't have a computer or a mobile phone. I accidentally went to the Internet cafe to browse the recruitment information. When I saw a small company recruiting an experimenter and asked for majors in organic chemistry, polymer chemistry and chemical engineering, I called to register and left my husband's mobile phone number. Later, I continued to work. I had to work the night shift that afternoon and got on the company bus. My husband rushed over and told me to report to the new company tomorrow. Oh, my God, I was sent to work directly before the interview. As the shuttle bus arrived at work, I had no mood to go to work at all. I said hello to the workshop director, resigned, and then went straight home to burn my ass. I don't want to stay for a moment. Later, my husband helped me with all the resignation procedures, and I went to work the next day. The new company is a small company with more than a dozen people, producing industrial adhesives. I work as an assistant for my master in the laboratory, making samples. My master is an old lady with production technology and formula. My salary is not high 800 yuan, and it takes me two or three hours to get back and forth from home by car. For me, this is a brand-new field, a brand-new opportunity, just like opening a window to let me see the outside world. It was two months before my parents knew that I had resigned, and they were dumbfounded. Leaving your job for ten years is not without risks. After three years, the company couldn't pay wages, and the thug took all the investors' money away. So I kept looking for a job. By chance, I came into contact with another boss who produced the same industrial glue for three years. During these three years, he gave me a series of production formulas, and my technology advanced by leaps and bounds. Finally, he stopped paying. So I continued to jump ship, my salary was getting higher and higher, and I was getting farther and farther away from home ... Qingdao, Hebei, Quanzhou, Fujian, Suzhou, and I turned around and went home. Divorced after returning to China, with children. At that time, my daughter was in the fourth grade of primary school, with no income and no security. Only 10 thousand yuan to start your own business and work for yourself …
My daughter's study has always been very worry-free. After returning home, she developed a good habit of doing homework, and her academic performance was good and stable. My parents help to take care of her daily life, and I am too busy to take care of her when I start a business. When she was in the first grade of junior high school, I bought a second-hand house in the city and moved my child's hukou to the city, so that my daughter was qualified to study in the city. Originally intended to let her finish junior high school in the county and successfully enter the key high school in the county. With more and more friends I know in the city, I realize more and more that I spent two years sending my children to study in the city unconsciously. The child's junior high school is over, and he will soon be promoted to the fourth grade, and then he will meet the senior high school entrance examination. These are like doomed stereotypes. On the morning of the last day of the third grade, my friend Ali suddenly told me that she had the opportunity to transfer her daughter to a school in the city. Today is the last day and the only chance. My mind is in a fierce struggle, which will take great risks. In case she can't keep up with all kinds of unsuitable studies after transfer, she may not even be admitted to high school ... On second thought, if her life is destined to face certain risks, let the risks come early. I told Ali that I wanted to transfer, so we started to run the formalities, and ran back and forth three times in more than 30 kilometers, like ants on hot bricks. The headmaster of the school refused to let go, but my daughter was the first in the class and the fifth in the department. Letting go means giving up an honor student. I prayed in tears in the principal's office and almost knelt down. Finally, the principal signed and sealed it and let it go. Our daughter was still in class, so we pulled her out, stuffed her into the car and drove away. The head teacher still looked puzzled ... Finally, she rushed to the new school to report before school. The new head teacher looked at her for a long time, read the report card and took her to the classroom. The next day, the school was on holiday. Think about it. This process is full of excitement, just like fighting. Sending children to school at the beginning of school, waiting for her to come home from school, mixed feelings, all kinds of worries, afraid that she is shy, afraid that she can't keep up with the rhythm, the competition among schools in the city is more intense. As a result, the children were very happy to go home and told me that the students were very enthusiastic and generous. Some male students took the initiative to introduce themselves, and then encouraged their daughters to say come on. I am happy and moved. The children in the city are really natural and graceful, and I am relieved of my decision to take risks. My daughter quickly integrated into this group and adapted to the intense study. To be honest, we often underestimate our potential. In the end, she was admitted to the city's key high school with excellent results. She walked out of the old environment, put down everything she was familiar with, remolded herself in the new environment, and her daughter became more cheerful and generous, which once again proved that letting go is growth.
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