Life story of Zhu Xiao (1)

20011,Zhu Xiao was born in a poor rural family, and the only property in the family was the wedding room built by his grandparents for his father. It is said that at that time, because there was no house, Dad Zhu's blind date failed many times, so Grandpa Zhu quickly raised money to build four bungalows for Dad Zhu. Before, mother Zhu's third sister also kissed father Zhu, but because father Zhu didn't have a house, aunt refused. Later, after Zhu's father got a house, someone arranged for Zhu's father to have a blind date. They saw each other very well and agreed to get married. However, a marriage that only meets once is doomed to be difficult, and this kind of difficulty has never stopped since the beginning of marriage. This unfortunate marriage is largely due to their immaturity and ignorance.

In the first year of marriage, Zhu Xiao was born, but not everyone was happy with the arrival of the child, because she was a girl. In this relatively backward country, the idea of "son preference" is still obvious, especially for some old people, who have a serious preference for boys. Some families keep having children even if they can't support them, just to have a son. What if they can't support so many children? If the girl is sold or abandoned to the hospital, the boy will definitely keep it and be raised as a baby by the whole family. Are you lucky to keep the girl? Maybe it is! After all, I can be with my biological parents, but I don't seem so lucky. Because there is a lot of work to do, but also a lot of cold eyes, looking at a boy who has nothing to do and is loved by the whole family, there is no harm without comparison. In such a different contrast, is it really luckier than being sent away?

Zhu Xiao's grandparents were not particularly happy about the birth of Zhu Xiao's eldest daughter. They want their mother to have another boy, but fortunately, mother Zhu likes it very much, and father Zhu is also very kind.

Although there was family planning at that time, it was not allowed to have a second child, but families who did not have sons would not give up. Even if they hide everywhere and get fined, they will continue to have children until a boy is born. This is the case in Siliba Village. If any daughter-in-law doesn't have a boy, it will become a topic of gossip among neighbors in their spare time, and there will be all kinds of speculations about her family. It seems that this is not normal.