0 1 husband's bad habits
Lili has been married for 9 years and is 34 years old this year. I wonder why she sleeps in different rooms. Her reason makes me laugh and cry. She said that because her husband likes to snore when sleeping and sometimes smokes at night, which affects her and her children to rest, she is very helpless and chooses to sleep in separate rooms; I asked her if this would have any effect on feelings or husband-wife relationship. She said she wouldn't. She missed each other, so she went to find each other and came back later to sleep separately. It won't delay anything and it won't affect her feelings. Compared with sleeping next to a tripterygium wilfordii, both of them are good.
Convenient to take care of children
Hong Juan has been married for 5 years and has a 3.5-year-old child. The reason for sleeping in separate rooms is to take care of the children conveniently. Although there is a lot of bed space at home, it is sometimes inconvenient to take care of the children at night. Especially when sleeping with her husband, he always likes to roll, which not only affects his rest, but also affects the rest of his children. So he suggested sleeping in separate rooms with her husband, and he agreed. Now there is no influence except sleeping together, she said.
Husband's infidelity
After three years of marriage, Xiaoyu and her husband slept in separate rooms. Because the husband has contact with his ex-girlfriend, the relationship between them is unclear and they are unfaithful to their wives. Although her husband later confessed voluntarily and she forgave him, she couldn't get over it. The thought that her husband is with another woman makes her feel unbearable, so now she chooses to sleep in separate beds. Out of sight, out of mind. I asked her, are you going to do this all the time? She said, let's just do it, at least now she can't accept it.
These are the reasons given by three friends. I think most of the real life is like this. How far is the distance between sleeping in separate rooms and divorce? I still want to remind many couples who have been sleeping in separate rooms that other couples will also face this problem, which is also a hurdle in marriage, but when we encounter these problems, what we have to do is to solve them, not to escape. You see, we can also understand sleeping in separate rooms as a way of escape and helplessness. If you only know how to avoid problems, you will only retreat in the end, which will affect the feelings of both sides. So what problems do you think couples will encounter when sleeping in separate rooms? Please leave a message for discussion.