I remember last year, Yang Chenyu, the champion of the college entrance examination in Guangxi Province, got a total score of 730, full marks in English mathematics, Chinese 140 and science 290. Yang Chenyu is not only a scholar, but also very handsome. Moreover, unlike those nerds who only know how to learn, Yang Chenyu has a wide range of interests and hobbies. His badminton and football level are not bad, and his key calligraphy is also good. It is very rare among young people and can only be described in four words-"both talents and looks".
Yang Chenyu's family conditions are also very good, including Yang Chenyu's grandparents who have been studying in Tsinghua for three generations. Her grandmother is also high flyers from Fudan University, and her mother is a medical professor and doctoral supervisor. Some people say that people have such good grades because of their innate advantages, but Yang Chenyu's parents don't say so.
In an interview with People's Daily, Yang Chenxi's mother once said that parents should first be self-disciplined, not to put their children aside to play with their mobile phones, but also to cultivate the habit of independent thinking. All habits must be established when children have no independent thinking ability. Many people think that children don't know how to think when they are young, so most parents choose to educate their children when they have gradually begun to understand, but they don't know that this kind of education is actually the opposite.
Not only that, the champion mother also said that when children are young, not only do they need to help children establish good habits, but parents themselves also need to set an example. Don't think that children are too young to be sensible. You can do anything in front of them. By the time the children grow up, good behavior habits have been established. At this time, parents only need to give their children enough space and autonomy to study.
Educating children is a matter that needs to pay attention to ways and means. Many parents often miss the best education period when educating their children. When children pass the age of education, parents begin to perform their duties and educate their children. At this time, it will lead to conflicts between children's problems and adolescent rebellion, making children more and more difficult to discipline.