Some people say women are more realistic. Before they get married, they just want to know how many properties each other has, whether they have a car or not, and how their jobs are. They only pay attention to the material aspects of men.
However, some people retort that men are more realistic, just like in the street, when you meet a beautiful girl, even if your girlfriend is around, you can't help but look at it more.
These are both examples before marriage, but after marriage, who is more realistic? After reading this story, maybe you will understand!
"Have you checked before marriage?" Colleagues ask for advice from people who have just been married for a long time.
Xiaoya shook his head and said, "We didn't."
After hearing their conversation, other colleagues said noisily, "Ah, it's better to have a premarital experience, which is good for both of us."
"Yes, yes, I think there are many reports on the Internet because they didn't have an experience before marriage and then broke up."
Xiaoya smiled and said, "No, my husband loves me very much. He is not such a realistic person. If one of us really has a problem, adopting a child is also a big deal. "
Perhaps, two people who really love each other will think so, but in reality, all kinds of things are always hitting each of us. After all, when love meets facts, it always makes people think twice.
Later, Xiaoya was hospitalized due to illness. By the way, she had a physical examination. I don't know. She was shocked when she checked.
She can't get pregnant. After her husband learned the news, he didn't say anything like "divorce". Instead, he comforted her and told her not to worry and to cure the disease first.
At that moment, she felt that she was the happiest woman in the world. Although she lost the opportunity to have her own flesh and blood, she was still very satisfied with her husband who loved her.
Therefore, she is particularly active in cooperating with doctors, and even in a dull hospital environment, she still lives a positive and sunny life every day.
But what I didn't expect was that as soon as she was discharged from the hospital, she was greeted by a "blood rain." She even thought it would be great if she could lie in a hospital bed all her life and her husband always took care of herself.
Xiaoya's husband got a hospital diagnosis in Xiaoya and immediately wanted to divorce Xiaoya, but his mother-in-law stopped him.
She begged him to say, "Although Xiaoya can't get pregnant now, you should not look at the face of the monk, but you should also look at the face of the Buddha. You two have been together for so long. Isn't her feelings for you worth waiting for her to leave the hospital? "
The husband wanted to refute, but think about these two days. Xiaoya once accompanied him through the darkest and most painful time in his life. According to common sense, he really needs to repay her.
So, this divorce case was dragged to Xiaoya after she was discharged from the hospital.
On the day Xiaoya was discharged from the hospital, the sky was drizzling and gloomy.
After returning home, her husband brought her a cup of hot water and handed the divorce papers to Xiaoya, who looked at her husband suspiciously.
The husband said slowly, "Xiaoya, I know you love me very much, but you can't get pregnant now. My family is my own. The incense is broken here, so I can't go to see my ancestors! "
Xiaoya thought she would hear this from her mother-in-law, but she didn't want to. It's really hard for her to come from her favorite husband.
Then, Xiaoya asked: "In that case, why not mention it after the inspection results come out?" It's tiring to wait so long! "
Her husband said, "It's not because you have a good mother. She wouldn't let me ask you about the divorce. Otherwise, I would have said goodbye to you. "
Xiaoya, who knew what had happened, was lost in thought because she had a quarrel with her mother when she was ill in hospital. She said a few harsh words, and her mother must have been very upset!
In addition, what I didn't expect most was that the man who devoted his youth actually said that he wanted a divorce, the house was his, and other property was divided equally.
About the house, it was like this at that time. His family paid a large sum of money, and then the decoration of the house was made by Xiaoya, and the mortgage was made by both of them.
At that time, for other reasons, her husband's name was written on the property certificate. Later, Xiaoya's mother repeatedly urged Xiaoya to write her name on the real estate license, but Xiaoya ignored it and felt that her mother was worried about it.
No, when Xiaoya was ill in hospital, his mother mentioned it again, and they quarreled again.
Say more unintentionally, divorced, Xiaoya's heart is calm.
Marriage is a magic mirror, whether it is good or bad, you can know at a glance.
The reality in marriage can't be hidden, that is, fire meets water and paper meets fire. Try it and you will know the truth.
However, regarding pregnancy, not all men are willing to accept that their wives are not pregnant, or even to hide the fact that they are infertile for their wives, as we have seen in idol dramas.
Of course, not all men, like Xiaoya's husband, will choose to divorce. Therefore, the key lies in people.
After all, we are all people with independent thoughts. Although the reality is the same, there may be various solutions to how to do it.
Topic: Who is more realistic, male or female? what do you think? Welcome to write your opinion in the comment area ~