After I'm gone, how can I read a child's heart?

It was not until a week later that the child came back with a gray face that parents clearly realized the sadness and depression when they saw the child, crying and happy. In just a few days, the family experienced the torture of joys and sorrows. In the face of why children choose to run away from home, what is the reason for not hearing from their parents after leaving home, which makes children puzzled. In desperation, my family came to our psychological counseling studio, hoping to untie my family with the help of my psychological teacher. In the consultation, in the words of parents, because I am busy at work, I have little time to accompany my children. They just pay attention to their own food and clothing, and don't feel wronged by their children. Especially when children are young, they should be placed beside the elderly until they enter school. Choosing a boarding school is also for work, of course, to provide a good educational platform for children. I hope their children can have a good future and lay a good foundation as soon as possible, so that parents can rest assured when their children grow up. Because children need a lot of money to go to school, they have been working hard, but they have time to get along with their children on weekends. I don't know why. Children usually talk very little and have little to say. Ask and answer. If they stay indoors alone, they won't go out. Parents also feel that there is a problem. They always think that when children grow up, they will get better gradually. What they didn't expect was that they left home unconsciously. Just leave a sentence "I'm leaving" and there will be no news. In my mother's words, why are children so annoying? After they left, they left nothing and left no phone number for their families. What makes children choose this way and be so busy? They want their children to be good and create a good environment and life platform for them. In the contact with children, children don't talk much at first, and all they talk about is the topic that children leave and their inner thoughts. What children say most is that their mother will nag and curse, which really makes them unbearable. Dad is very serious every day and doesn't let himself near at all. I have felt relieved for so many years, and only when I got on the bus did I feel really relieved. I no longer have to listen to my mother's nagging or look at my father's face. I can do whatever I want when I go out. It's like I ran so far that they can't find it anymore. A person is very happy, but after he really left, he really realized the helplessness and hardship of life, that is, taking a car is a problem. Because there is no identity card, I have been avoiding inspection like a fugitive. I was cheated by the conductor because I bought a ticket. Finally, because there was only a return fare, I chose to come back after several considerations. Among them, I really regret what I have done in the past, and I know that I shouldn't be so impulsive, because I am afraid of being scolded by my parents, and I have been afraid to contact them, just as they will admit it when they beat and scold themselves when they get home. In the child's words, the result of this trip made me understand poverty without knowledge and loneliness without affection. If you are not careful, you will be cheated, which is also the biggest gain of running away from home. After coming back, I want to prove myself with my own actions and reassure my parents that I won't let them down. During the consultation, parents and children are quietly listening to each other's voices, especially parents have been saying that it is the first time they have heard so much from their children. Through the whole story of children, parents understand and know that they need to re-examine and consider the way of getting along and communicating with their children in the past, not because of their children's problems. But let myself see it in my children, because the changes in my children remind me that I need to reflect on myself, not just stare at my children. Many times, children are innocent, but parents unconsciously use their own thinking to measure their children and let them bear the pressure and helplessness that do not belong to them. (Text: Sun Shuo, executive vice president of Linyi Psychological Counselor Association and national second-level psychological counselor)