Jin Bo was Liu Xiaomin's nightmare in the first half of his life. The marriage with Jin Bo was Liu Xiaomin's biggest failure in the first half of his life. In order to get rid of the nightmare and failure, Liu Xiaomin made every effort to climb out of the quagmire of marriage, and went to Beijing alone to develop and struggle, to stay away from the wrong place and start over. So, what destroyed the marriage between Jin Bo and Liu Xiaomin? Are you enjoying each other with Teacher Su? Is Jin Bo cheating? So this is the truth of Xiao Min's divorce from Jinbo, not just because? Sex? And then what? Money? .
First,? No love? This is the original sin.
Liu Xiaomin doesn't like Kimbo. Her marriage to Jinbo was arranged by her mother. Two people grew up together in a small yard, which is considered childhood friends, but Liu Xiaomin just doesn't like it? Vulgar? Jin Bo. At that time, Jin Bo was the son of the director of their hometown textile factory. When he was young, he was handsome, high-spirited, charming, well-off and his parents knew him well. Marrying into such a family is the extravagant hope and dream of all the girls in the small courtyard.
Director Jin is very kind to the family. In order to repay her kindness, his mother Wang Sumin thinks that Jin Bo is really? Best choice? If the daughter marries in the past, she will have no worries about food and clothing, so she will try her best to fix the marriage between her daughter and Jin Bo. Xiao Min, who is still young, made a good agreement under the persuasion of her mother, and finally married Jin Bo, whom she didn't like. After marriage, Jin Bo, as Liu Xiaomin expected, is really an unreliable and vulgar man. Later, Jin Bo also made a group of friends, and his work was not good. He went out to drink every night, and his family property slowly lost.
Xiao Min wanted to escape from this life and filed for divorce many times, but both Wang Sumin and the factory director refused, and tried their best to prevent Liu Xiaomin from getting divorced, even hiding her household registration book. The loveless marriage arranged by parents is the main reason for Liu Xiaomin's unhappiness, and their parents ignore the fact of unhappiness.
A marriage, husband and wife love each other, is the most basic requirement. Marriage is the natural result of love, not a means of repaying gratitude, nor a tool of attaching to powerful people. Liu Xiaomin knew that he didn't like Jinbo and didn't want to marry him, but he couldn't help distorting the enthusiasm and matchmaking between his parents and was pushed into this dark siege. We should not overestimate our tolerance and tolerance for loveless marriage. The foundation of marriage is love, so you must find someone you like to marry.
Second,? Different attitudes towards life? It is a curse.
Jin Bo lacks enterprise, and Liu Xiaomin's hard work and different attitudes and values are the bane of their marriage. Jin Bo's father is a factory director and his mother is a woman director, which provides him with superior living conditions. Jin Bo, who has no worries about food and clothing, has never been beaten by society and has never experienced the hardships of life. Is she there every day? Fuck? A few days.
When Jin Bo was young, he went to work in a factory, thinking that it was an iron rice bowl that he could eat all his life. I found it too hard to work in the factory, so I resigned. Later, when I arrived at the department, my business was not good and I was transferred to the Security Section. My father died before it was mentioned. There is no father as a pillar in the family, and the factory has also been acquired. I have been eating old and healthy Jinbo, and I have been slapped by life. Because he didn't work hard and muddled along, Jinbo fell from a factory that everyone envied to? The bottom of society? No job, no savings, no viability.
Liu Xiaomin, on the other hand, is an ambitious woman, and her depravity and lack of progress make her more and more interested in this man? Gross? . She had no expectation for her husband, and pinned the change of her life on herself. After marriage, Liu Xiaomin didn't want to see Jinbo's drunkenness and often went out to study. To this end, Jin Bo is full of resentment, looking at his enterprising wife and his wife who bears a heavy burden for her family and life. Instead of being moved and considerate, he accused Liu Xiaomin of being critical, indifferent, boring and unfeeling.
Liu Xiaomin and him for this? Separated, fed up with Jin Bo's cold eyes? Can't help it? I was so hungry that I betrayed Xiao Min. After being caught by Xiao Min, he bit back and accused Xiao Min of cheating, Xiao Min of trying too hard to make progress, ignoring him, snubbing him and ignoring his normal behavior? Sex? Demand. The most terrible state of people is that they are not enterprising. Jinbo himself is a pool of mud, ruining the wealth left by his father, ruining his father's hard work and achieving himself? Nothing? Waste.
Even more frightening is that he can forget his depravity and feel at ease. When he saw his wife Liu Xiaomin trying to make progress, he didn't give her a hand or push her, but held her tightly and dragged her into the mire. Mandy's pattern and vision are far above Jinbo's, and Liu Xiaomin has become a person who travels alone in marriage, which is doomed to the failure of marriage. Marriage is like-minded. We need to help each other, work hard together, change together and dream together. You go south and I go north, and finally you can only drift away and part ways.
Third,? The spiritual world does not match? This is an outbreak.
The trivial life didn't really destroy the marriage between Jin Bo and Liu Xiaomin, and the totally incompatible spiritual world was the explosion point of their disintegration. Although Jin Bo is the son of the factory director, his family is well-off, but his education level is not high. Due to the difference of cultural level, there are great differences between Jin Bo and Liu Xiaomin in their thoughts and three views.
Xiao Min is fed up with Jin Bo's vulgarity and depravity in marriage. The time when she met Teacher Su was a light shining into her rough life. Teacher Su is humorous, and both of them like poetry very much, so they naturally become pen pals. Two people with the same hobbies exchange their favorite poems through letters, which is a real collision between soul and spirit. In Liu Xiaomin's words, this is a very simple relationship of mutual appreciation, not an affair or even a love relationship.
However, when they exchanged letters, Miss Su's wife knew about it, and she planned to catch Liu Xiaomin's rape with Jin Bo. Unexpectedly, she got the news that Miss Su fell into the water unfortunately and unexpectedly. Since then, Mr. Su has never seen anyone alive or dead. No one knows where he went and whether he is still alive.
It is well known that Liu Xiaomin and Sue are all over the street, and people in their hometown are pointing and gossiping behind their backs. Xiao Min couldn't bear such pressure and injury, so he went to Beijing to work hard and was completely cut off from his hometown.