Also, being a spiritual partner requires you to have a particularly high spiritual level, and so does the other person. Looking around, it's hard to find someone who can match your spiritual realm. So maybe you will always be soul mates. But I find it hard to have such a couple. Sometimes, a very simple woman, without any spiritual realm, may also impress the man. Therefore, people's spiritual needs are not so simple. Just as we like the luxury of peony, we also like the dew of grass.
So, don't be so demanding of life, just do your duty.